What Things make you uninteresting in tickling someone or being tickled ?

terorizer said:

Pretty much the same things that would make me "uninterested" in just about any other social/physical interaction with someone: No chemistry or not having a comfort level/aka creep factor.

Also knowing their preferences/disires are at complete odds with my own.

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I agree. Tickling can be a very personal thing. Not something I'd do with a perfect stranger ................... or someone I don't get along with already!!!

For me...

A pushy 'ler who insists on trying to tickle even when I don't want it.

And related to the above...a 'ler who doesn't care about me as a person...who only cares that I satisfy that desire to tickle.

I am a person first, a 'lee second. 'Lers who understand and respect that are pure gold!

- Desperate to want to touch SOMETHING people.. Here's a ball..go play. Leave me the fuck alone.

- People who think they have some god-like gift ability to tickle. They usually suck at it. And just annoy.

- Ler's that laugh louder then I do, although they are doing the tickling..Uh, Wtf?

- Incompatable communication skills. I don't care much for quiet Lers'.

- Mechanical poking and prodding. I'm a fucking human not a goddamn pin cushion..mkay?

- Showing signs of boredom/apprehension/uncertainty. I will lose all interest, and chew you up and spit you out.

I enjoy creativity, communication, playfulness and when it is sexual..Just..Power and Certainty. I don't want to have to write a fucking book beforehand on how to tickle.

Snail Shell said:

-Needy, clingy, desperate, attention-seaking personality.
-Generally unkempt
-Poor social skills

That's about it really.

Snail Shell

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Well spoken, sir! Well, except for the whole sea-king part. (do they think they're Poseidon?) What? Oh! SEEKING! Gotcha.

Physical appearance isn't that big of a deal. Health and hygiene should go without saying. However, personality can be a big deal. I have known not so ticklish people to at least having fun during play. But, ticklish or not, if you aren't into it just say so. Simply tolerating the fetish kinda takes the shine off of the whole experience.

tomskee said:

Physical appearances doesn't affect me either way. I'm a big guy so I can't really demand a model thin lee. Stinky feet and crusty heels don't bother me either. I kinda like feet that are not pedicure perfect. I'm pretty much down for whatever. What I cannot accept is a nervous, wishy-washy person. Either allow me to tickle you or refuse me outright. Don't agree to be tickled and then be skittish and anxious. It's one thing to be anxious over impending tickles, but don't start backing out midway. It makes me feel like I'm doing something against your will and thus I can't enjoy myself.

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Yeah I agree on all counts. Rough feet need attention too, just like the stinky ones! But overall. above anything else, I like for my ticklee to willingly tease me so that I'll tickle her feet. I don't ever want to do it against her will.

Generally, my only real rule is that any play partners of mine have views on play and what they want to get out of it that are at least in the same ballpark as mine. Without that, there's simply not going to be much of a connection and I'm not going to particularly enjoy my work.

First & foremost you MUST be into it, NOT just to please me. But you REALLY must love it, too.
Second, if you're a bitch, I want NOTHING to do with you.
I'm not saying if you are having a bad day or anything, but if you're 'personality' is to put other people down & treat others like shit, then I have No interest in you whatsoever.
You could be the most beautiful looking woman ever, but if you think you're above it all, then you are NOT getting my attention.
Of course, 'fake laughing' is also a major turn-off for me. You're not ticklish there? TELL ME! Not feeling any tickling sensation in that area? LET ME KNOW! Don't just laugh because it's 'expected', & you don't want to hurt my feelings.
It's like fake orgasms. If I'm not doing something correctly, PLEASE let me know the proper way YOU like it so I can please you too. I'm not a mind-reader. Especially if it's a new relationship & we don't know each other's bodies yet.
As far as hygiene and personal appearance is concerned, ehh, not THAT important to me really. A quick shower or a 'sprucing up' would fix that, if it's REALLY bad, but so far I have never met anyone that 'needed' a shower.
Now, since my other MAIN fetish is BARE SOLES, as long as your feet are somewhat clean, I can deal with it. I am not a fan of dirty soles that have dirt & grime all over them. HOWEVER . . . I wouldn't mind 'SCRUBBING' them clean, which (hopefully) makes you hysterically ticklish from it.