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New g/f but dilemma with tickling

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Hey guys,

So I've been dating this new girl for almost six months now and it's going really well. We go to college together so I see her almost everyday, which also means we have lots of time to fool around and have fun 😉. The sex life has been great but I've run into sort of a dilemma when it comes to me sneaking in a tickle here or there. Whenever I start to tickle her she DIES laughing for about three seconds but after that begs me to stop. She's wicked ticklish on her feet, underarms, and behind the legs. The problem is she said she hates being tickled and doesn't like when I do it. My last girlfriend loved being tickled so that was amazing but some other things just didn't work out in the relationship so we had to break it off. So I really like this current girl that I'm dating and want the relationship to continue on but I don't know how to continue to tickle her without pissing her off. I've considered telling her about my fetish but I dunno how she'd react and I don't know what would happen between us if I did....can anyone help me out here??? 😕
 
Tell her and get it out in the open and over with. If she absolutely refuses to accomodate you at all, then just end things now. No sense in dragging things out and causing problems later on down the road. Maybe you'd be better off as friends?
 
I agree with Sandrock74. This is part of who you are...if she doesn't like it then you will have to consider the relationship.

You never know...she might have her own kink and you might be able to accommodate her

Good lucky anyway:wavingguy

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Ok, here it comes...

You have been you your whole life. You were you yesterday, you are you today, and you will be you tomorrow. If this person means as much to you as you say, then you should be you with her. This is a big part of your life, and you should share it with her. Perhaps her reaction will not be what you want, but honesty is the key here. Hiding something is pretty much presenting a lie as truth without words. Besides, if she can't accept you for who you are, then she might not be the one you need to be with. Unnecessary suffering is definitely not a natural of life, so don't put yourself through it.
 
Nah, keep her, it sound like you really like her. Just tickle her best friend a lot instead, she won't tell.
 
I've found that the only reason someone doesn't enjoy being tickled is because they're repressing some emotion or psychological issue they don't want to face, especially something like fear of losing control of themselves or that kind of thing. Being tickled is just joyful and playful, there's nothing to not like, unless there's something deeper about it. If she's open to talking about it and building your relationship, work with her on the question of WHY she doesn't like being tickled. You may find it doesn't take much to open her up to allowing herself to let go and laugh, at least with her boyfriend. Good luck, let us know what happens! 🙂
 
Honesty is the only way.

If you cannot share this with her, what can you truly share. If you hold one thing back, you hold all back. Never be afraid to be judged. If she loves you she will understand. Relationships require honesty and sacrifice. It won't be easy, I won't lie. But it will be real.

It is about trust in the end.
 
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i'd encourage you to tell her about it. It'l help her understand, successful relationships tend to require sacrifice in some form or another. If she knew it was important to you and care's about you, you may find she can gain a different outlook on it. If not and she really does hate it THAT much. And if you get on that well in every other way then perhaps you can think about sacrificing the tickling or just making do with the few seconds you can get away with every here and there, it's at a time like this that you ask yourself how important a fetish really is, don't get me wrong.. I love tickling, but for the right girl and true love i would go without it. Whats really important to you personaly? Answer that and you'l know what to do. 🙂
 
Of course you should tell her about it. Make sure she realizes that you're going to tell her something that you only tell people you trust; even if she's not sure what to make of it, she'll probably appreciate the acknowledgment from you.
 
I've seen this kind of questions posted many times on the TMF, and almost every time there's a 50/50 split on whether you should stick with her.

You have to ask yourself, does your affection for her override your desire for tickling her? In other words, if everything else is great - heck, if she's THE ONE - should you give it up just because she doesn't like to be tickled?

Life's not all about sex and stimulation; although 6 months is too early for you to tell whether she's "the one". But if you sense that she's a good catch, it'd be incredibly disappointing if tickling alone becomes the deal-breaker.
 
Id say go for it and tell her. You have been with her for 6 months let her know and be honest about it and gauge her reaction and if its the narrow minded kind * IE , thats wierd or any other snide comment* then maybe you should consider ending it
 
Sandrock74 said:
Tell her and get it out in the open and over with. If she absolutely refuses to accomodate you at all, then just end things now. No sense in dragging things out and causing problems later on down the road. Maybe you'd be better off as friends?
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I agree with Sandrock on this one. Maybe you two would be better as friends.


:feets: :omnomnom:
 
Chrisums said:
And you really have to weigh, for yourself, which is more important to you- your interest or your affection for her? Do you think, if you left her, you could find someone you could care for as much as her that would be more open to the idea of being tickled?
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Bingo sir.

My lady hated being tickled. But we gradually worked it into our routines, now she acts as a relentless ler and a gleeful lee who lets off fountains of giggles. But had our relationship been all about sex and nothing on affection, we'd never have reached this stage.

It IS possible to have the best of both worlds - you've just gotta take time and work on it.
 
welllllll thennn....

First off thanks guys for all the posts!

Ok so I've decided that as of right now I'm going to hold off on telling her because I have been only dating her for 6 months and I want to see how things progress in the coming months. If I come to realize that the relationship is possibly going to be long-term then I'll go right out at that point and tell her. Like many of you said, there's no point in hiding something from her if I plan on telling her eventually. Again, thanks for all the posts it gave me some good things to think about!


-oh and a fun little sidenote: We were wrestling the other day and i got her down, ripped off her socks and started tickling her feet! :woot: Usually she won't put herself in such vulnerable positions. Haha but I made her pay!! It only lasted about a minute but it was fun either way. Thanks guys I'll talk to you soon!
 
OR you can just worm under her shirt and start kissing all over her stomach, and pull your pants down and scream "I'M READY HONEY!!!" lol it would get the tickling part out of the way, and show that your extremely sensitive to hearing her laughter.
 
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