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Master_Magnus

Master_Magnus

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Hi there everyone,
I just signed up on this site and I was wondering about a way to find a date, because it is not easy to find a date that you could tickle especially where I live, and I cant just reveal to the first person I see my fetish without being seen like a freak, because the stupid people in my country dont understand fetishes and they act like jerks when they meet someone with a fetish, so if you have any advice, perhaps a dating thread here, or a dating site for tickle fetishists (not a regular dating site because I will also get embarrassed there) or any other advice finding a tickle date I would appreciate it.
 
First of all, welcome aboard. 😎

If you're looking to find a date on here, best of luck to you. 🙂
Make sure you try stand out from the crowd, otherwise you'll just seem to be another faceless user of the internet.

Fill in your profile, and post a little bit so users here can see what you're about.
Make friends; both male and female, and you'll come across as somebody who isn't a "weirdo" (which, sadly, is often the default stance of many of the people here, through no fault of their own). If sometimes helps if you include a picture in your profile - you can set it so that only forum users can see it, though I forget how off the top of my head.

Don't expect to find anyone overnight; it's a long and drawn out process, mostly because tickling is something intimate for a lot of the women (assuming you're looking to date a woman) on this forum, and they don't want to go and tickle/be tickled by any old schmuck.

That said, if you can stick out the time-consuming activities of getting to know people and such, the rewards can be bountiful.

Personally, I've met more tickle-partners in "real life" than I have from this forum, and I've never encountered anyone who thought I was a complete freak (well, more of a freak than I appear to be anyway 😉) because of it. Usually, the worries about fetishes are all in ones head, unless of course you happen to be telling all and sundry about them.
 
Welcome. There is a personals section here on the forum. But, the best way to find someone is to simply jump into the many conversations that take place in the main discussion areas (here & general discussion). That way, people have a chance to get to know who you are. Then, if you post a personal ad, you might actually get some response. (If all you do is post an ad, you aren't likely to get any response since folks won't know you.)

Here's a place to start... You said, "in my country". It would also help to know where you are. You might also want to check the international forums section as well.
 
Artoo said:
First of all, welcome aboard. 😎

If you're looking to find a date on here, best of luck to you. 🙂
Make sure you try stand out from the crowd, otherwise you'll just seem to be another faceless user of the internet.

Fill in your profile, and post a little bit so users here can see what you're about.
Make friends; both male and female, and you'll come across as somebody who isn't a "weirdo" (which, sadly, is often the default stance of many of the people here, through no fault of their own). If sometimes helps if you include a picture in your profile - you can set it so that only forum users can see it, though I forget how off the top of my head.

Don't expect to find anyone overnight; it's a long and drawn out process, mostly because tickling is something intimate for a lot of the women (assuming you're looking to date a woman) on this forum, and they don't want to go and tickle/be tickled by any old schmuck.

That said, if you can stick out the time-consuming activities of getting to know people and such, the rewards can be bountiful.

Personally, I've met more tickle-partners in "real life" than I have from this forum, and I've never encountered anyone who thought I was a complete freak (well, more of a freak than I appear to be anyway 😉) because of it. Usually, the worries about fetishes are all in ones head, unless of course you happen to be telling all and sundry about them.
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Pretty much what I was gonna say.

These are good words to read dude 🙂
 
Artoo said:
First of all, welcome aboard. 😎

If you're looking to find a date on here, best of luck to you. 🙂
Make sure you try stand out from the crowd, otherwise you'll just seem to be another faceless user of the internet.

Fill in your profile, and post a little bit so users here can see what you're about.
Make friends; both male and female, and you'll come across as somebody who isn't a "weirdo" (which, sadly, is often the default stance of many of the people here, through no fault of their own). If sometimes helps if you include a picture in your profile - you can set it so that only forum users can see it, though I forget how off the top of my head.

Don't expect to find anyone overnight; it's a long and drawn out process, mostly because tickling is something intimate for a lot of the women (assuming you're looking to date a woman) on this forum, and they don't want to go and tickle/be tickled by any old schmuck.

That said, if you can stick out the time-consuming activities of getting to know people and such, the rewards can be bountiful.

Personally, I've met more tickle-partners in "real life" than I have from this forum, and I've never encountered anyone who thought I was a complete freak (well, more of a freak than I appear to be anyway 😉) because of it. Usually, the worries about fetishes are all in ones head, unless of course you happen to be telling all and sundry about them.
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I have to agree on that...

But anyways ... good luck, 🙂
 
Welcome, and good luck. This isn't really much of a dating or hookup forum, though we do have a personals section. Like the others have said, people on this forum who hook up in real life become friends just by participating in the larger community of the TMF.

I'd say don't give up on regular dating. Throw some playful flirty tickles in, gauge people's reactions. In my experience, you can do a lot more tickling than you'd think without raising people's suspicions. It IS a normal, flirty activity, after all. Don't assume everyone is out to snuff you out, or that everyone will think you're a freak.
 
Welcome! Finding a date on this site can be a frustrating experience. I consider myself lucky to have met a few women. But, I agree with everything that's been said. Patience is a must. The best way is certainly to post. I was told by a female that the first thing a woman does is look through your posts and your friends list. Coming onto the site as a lurker to download videos won't get it done. Good luck!
 
go to munches where you live, not just tickling munches. while they may not initially get how d/s tickling can be, there are tons of ticklish women at every munch i've been to (and i go to several).
 
It seems that dating on here seldom happens. I started posting here to try and meet someone, but I converted a girl over instead. If you find a woman who likes to turn you on, and you feed it to her at the right pace, getting her into tickling might not be as hard as it sounds. Good luck.
 
I suggest you approach people you'd like to hook up with on the forum in that same way you'd approach someone in real life. I mean, you'd have limited success if you approached people in bars and blurted out an inarticulate list of positions in which you'd like to see them and domestic items you'd like to use on random body parts.

I've met up with a few people from here for tickling, and I haven't encountered any of them in the personals. I have no problem with people being direct about what they want, but it's important to come across as a thoughtful human being who acknowledges others as being the same.

I get quite a few private messages from random people who don't actually make the effort to spell anything correctly or use crazy devices like punctuation. Nobody is perfect, of course, but in most situations we attempt to make a good first impression. This is no different.

I'm not sure what you mean by a 'date', but regardless of the formality of what you're looking for, be visible on the forum. If I get a pm from someone, the first thing I do is look at their profile and their recent posts to get an idea of who I'm dealing with. If there's nothing on a profile and no posts which tell me anything about the person, I'm reluctant to have anything to do with them.
 
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Oh so that is why you have never gotten back with me NaughtyLucy.....LOL

TicklesFemales
 
Artoo said:
First of all, welcome aboard. 😎

If you're looking to find a date on here, best of luck to you. 🙂
Make sure you try stand out from the crowd, otherwise you'll just seem to be another faceless user of the internet.

Fill in your profile, and post a little bit so users here can see what you're about.
Make friends; both male and female, and you'll come across as somebody who isn't a "weirdo" (which, sadly, is often the default stance of many of the people here, through no fault of their own). If sometimes helps if you include a picture in your profile - you can set it so that only forum users can see it, though I forget how off the top of my head.

Don't expect to find anyone overnight; it's a long and drawn out process, mostly because tickling is something intimate for a lot of the women (assuming you're looking to date a woman) on this forum, and they don't want to go and tickle/be tickled by any old schmuck.

That said, if you can stick out the time-consuming activities of getting to know people and such, the rewards can be bountiful.

Personally, I've met more tickle-partners in "real life" than I have from this forum, and I've never encountered anyone who thought I was a complete freak (well, more of a freak than I appear to be anyway 😉) because of it. Usually, the worries about fetishes are all in ones head, unless of course you happen to be telling all and sundry about them.
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I agree. If you find someone on the forum that is really great and more power to you. But don't just look here to find a tickle partner. I am with artoo. I have found more tickle partners off the forum than on it. And for the most part I think all the bad stuff about this fetish is all in our heads. So far every girl I've ever told had thought nothing of it. They think it's interesting because they have never come across it, but none have yelled: "eeeeeeewwwwwww! Get away you freak!"

Finding someone on the forum can be a great thing. For some people they have truly had magic. But don't limit yourself to only finding someone on here.

However there are some really awsome people on here to befriend. 😉
 
I don't look for dates on the internet. I think I'm a bit old fashioned that way. I think this site is primarily a place to come and find great tickling material, and develop friendships with other people into my kink.

I often find myself enjoying online company from many people here, and I think that is a wonderful addition to my life. I just think a love match needs physical connection, and daily time spent together that internet encounters don't often provide here.

One last thing. Dating someone here only to break up would make me feel a bit awkward. I just think it's best to enjoy this site without zoning in too much on one person. :tiger:
 
I'm happy you joined the site and are broadening your horizons with tickling Master_Magnus. Please note that this site is awesome for that and making friends who share the same interest as you.

Just like in real life, if you meet a girl / guy with the intention of making them your boy /girl friend, I can bet those types of situations never pan out the way you want them to.

Like my last girlfriend, I liked her the day I laid eyes on her and we had mutual friends. I never hit on her once, never pursed her deeply but let her know I was interested. One day we ended up alone and it just happened. Nothing was planned and after getting to know her, we lasted a while which is much better than hooking up with someone being the flavor of the week when you just meet them. Chemistry is the best type of relationships I think in the beginning.

Also, if it didn't work out and I didn't get her, my life shouldn't be any different before than after I met her and didn't get her and I move on.

Please don't get frustrated on this site if you don't meet someone right away and start hitting on all the girls on here. All things take time. When i "delurked" i started going to munches and Nest where I really met a lot of nice people on here and am very happy I did. Check out the gathering section and keep posted to make yourself known.

Feel free to hit me up at any time if you have a question about the site.
 
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