Welcome to TMF! Good luck in your search! I feel like most women I meet are 'lees (or Switches that lean towards 'leeing,) so you might get better results if you consider being a Switch. That's just my personal experience though, I could be totally wrong! My advice is: fill out your profile, read some profiles, send out some PMs, and above all, take your time! Don't jump right into a meeting without getting to know someone first, and maybe Skyping or talking on the phone. And don't ignore any red flags! If something seems fishy, it may very well be. Again, good luck! And have fun 🙂