1st time bondage tickling

[Jerney]

Hi there- Me and my mate have decided to try bondage tickling sometime very soon, but before I can totally relax about this (is this at all possible!?!?!) I want to ask you some questions:

We have decided we want to use blindfolds and be tied to the double bed we have here.
How would any of you go from here? I am very ticklish, my mate too, but way less than me.

How long would it be fun to do it and when would it be time to stop?
How would you ask the other person to start and get ready for this tickling session and are there basically any rules to this?

We have watched some of the scenes that you can download from the net and it looks very interesting.
Would you use handcuffs or soemthing else to tie each other to the metal railings of the bed?

Please help- first time for everyone!! Maybe you could also tell me about your first time bondage tickling? How was it to be the ticklee and to be the tickler? Any hints or something we could try and do?

Many thanks,

 

[Jerney]

Has no one got any clues or hints for me on this one then?

 

[mtlhd]

hey there

Just know how far each other are willing to go, have a safeword or something like that... as far as the bondage things go, make sure the ticklee will be comfy and not cutting off the circulation or anything like that....

should make for a fun night.

The METALHEAD

 

[TicklesFemales]

Hi Jerney

Yes by all means bondage and tickling is so much fun, especially when the one being tickled is blindfolded and not knowing where you are going to tickle next. A Safeword is a good idea also for the ticklee as some people are extremely ticklish and can not be tickled for very long periods at one time without a break. But the ticklee should try and hold in the safeword as long as possbile. I take you that you are both from UK somewhere. Are you a male and female couple? If you like you can e-mail me at [email protected]

TicklesFemales

 

[Ticklee1973]

I'm sure you'll both be a little nervous about it being it's the first time but I'm sure you'll have a blast.

How long it would be fun would really depend on how long the reactions last. Usually when the lee stops reacting and/or becomes desensitized would be a good time to stop of if they say their safeword obviously. Personally I think the lighter tickles work best because the ticklish sensations last forever it seems.

The blindfold will add to the sensations because the lee will have no idea where you're going to tickle. I'd say use some leather cuffs or something soft to tie up spread eagle on the bed and maybe don't use the blindfold the first time and then just verbally tease where you're going to tickle, it seems to add to the intensity. As someone else responded, definitely have a safeword just in case and just have fun with it. All of the foregoing is based on my experience so others may have different info.

My first time in bondage was with someone I had met online and so I probably wasn't as comfortable as you are with your mate. I was so nervous and kept telling myself "I can't believe I'm doing this," but once you're tied down that really goes right out the window. Just enjoy each other and I'd recommend going slow the first few times so you can explore each other's bodies fully.

Enjoy!
Sandee

 

[Jerney]

Thanks everybody!

Good to hear your stories and advice! Loved reading them all and I am certain we will find a good Safeword. Didnt think of that so thats good!
I will write a report as soon as we have decided to do it and will let you all know how it's gone and if we are up for another go!

 

[tommytikl]

A few ideas...

First enjoy yourselves!

Second, like others have said, choose a safeword, or use the Red, Yellow, Green method. Simple, RED means STOP NOW, I can't breathe, I have to pee, I mean STOP NOW, yellow means, hey just lightly tickle for a few, hold back just a bit, let me catch my breath, but don't stop tickling.
Green is well, usually go from Red, but RED and Yellow are the most important.
Another easy safeword is the lee's name, so if your name is Mike, yell out Mike for all tickling to stop.


Bondage...you might even want to do a search on the forum for this.
There have been many great posts but first get yourselves a decent pair of bondage cuffs, nothing expensive, can be had for $30. Make sure the cuffs have metal rings that you can attach rope too.
Get some rope and attach the ropes to the cuffs, and the other end to the bed at the corners, use the legs to secure the rope.
IF you have a bed frame with no legs then life the mattress and tie the rope(a lot) around the mattress then to the cuffs.

Just enjoy yourselves and let us know how things go.

 

[witchtickler]

Just get into it, have fun and let your imagination run wild. You'll know when the fun and excitement has run it's course. Just do what ever it is burns your interest!!!!!! 😉

witchtickler

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I've never been tied up or put into a bondage chair to be tickled..I'd probably break the damn thing

 

[ericr]

All the above advice looks good to me. Just go easy, experiment, joke a bit, etc. it does not have to be a big deal or scarry. Just set out to have a good time and I'm sure you will/

 

[Jerney]

a date decided

We have decided on a date for the 1st bondage- which will be next wednesday!
I am very excited, as I will be the 1st one to be the ticklee(at least I get to be the "ler" with all my ideas etc, after my friend has done me!hahahaha

So looking forward to it! I will also be blindfolded, so it's going to be extra extra special as I have never done neither of them before- will let you all know how it was!!

 

[drew70]

One thing more, Jerney. Make sure the Lee takes a quick trip to the restroom before going down. You'll both be glad of this. 😉

 

[Jerney]

Rest room

Brilliant idea there! Thanks for supporting me with this all. I am certainly looking forward to it and will write a small detailed journal of what happened.
TC Jerney