23 year old guy from South WV wanting to be Lee and Ler

[7perfect]

I am willing person that wants to be tickled heavily. However I would like to tickle as well. I am also willing to be restrained and blindfolded. By females lers only.

 

[Crazy Wabbit]

I am willing person that wants to be tickled heavily. However I would like to tickle as well. I am also willing to be restrained and blindfolded. By females lers only.

I see that you are new here, as well as I am. So I figured I would give you a few pointers:

1) You are new. You've made 12 posts on this forum. I have more than you and haven't even entertained the thought of wanting to meet up with someone yet, simply because I don't know them and they know very little about me. People are not going to warm up to you that soon until they get to know who you are and more about what kind of a person you are. Other than tickling, what other things do you like to do for fun? What are your hobbies, interests, the kind of music you like to listen to, etc.?

2) Your post is in the wrong area. It belongs in the personals.

3) Your post is also very vague. You're 23, in South WV, who is a straight switch that is also either interested/curious about restraints and blindfolds. However, you didn't include your height, build, hair color, and some other attributes about yourself.

My suggestion is to comment on some more threads that have been made. Join in on a discussion, give some input on some posts, and introduce yourself in the welcoming thread. And once you've been here for awhile, check out the gatherings they have and consider attending. That way, others can see what you are like in person other than what your internet personae is like.

Other than that, stick around! It takes awhile for people to get to know you.

 

[MacD]

But be careful, thinking someone will really "know" you by the written word only ;-)
In the meantime I know some people from the internet. I mean really "know". I can tell what kind of people they are, how they think and feel and so on. Of course not 100% but much much more than it could be seen in discussions or chat.
Because I really talked to them on the phone. And met them somewhen, when we thought it could be worse to do so.

I experienced many disappointments when I joined chats or public discussions. Mostly this is too superficial. People talk to you some days and suddenly they kick your ass without telling you why. Daily "he how are you - oh fine (again ... as the last weeks too...)" does not keep interest alive. Many chatters/ forum members can't and won't do anything else. At some moment it starts to get waste of time. Sympathy does not need month to show up ;-)

That's what I think and what helped me to filter precious real humans out of the big mass of anonymous virtual actors and idiots.

 

[BellybTickler]

I see that you are new here, as well as I am. So I figured I would give you a few pointers:

1) You are new. You've made 12 posts on this forum. I have more than you and haven't even entertained the thought of wanting to meet up with someone yet, simply because I don't know them and they know very little about me. People are not going to warm up to you that soon until they get to know who you are and more about what kind of a person you are. Other than tickling, what other things do you like to do for fun? What are your hobbies, interests, the kind of music you like to listen to, etc.?

2) Your post is in the wrong area. It belongs in the personals.

3) Your post is also very vague. You're 23, in South WV, who is a straight switch that is also either interested/curious about restraints and blindfolds. However, you didn't include your height, build, hair color, and some other attributes about yourself.

My suggestion is to comment on some more threads that have been made. Join in on a discussion, give some input on some posts, and introduce yourself in the welcoming thread. And once you've been here for awhile, check out the gatherings they have and consider attending. That way, others can see what you are like in person other than what your internet personae is like.

Other than that, stick around! It takes awhile for people to get to know you.

This.

You won't find what you're looking for if you don't make an effort. And I can assure you, you haven't made much of an effort from what I've seen.

 

[ThaiIsHijacking]

He only made a simple post. I don't see why anyone alse needs to analyse and over-analyse what he's put and why he's put it.

 

[ThaiIsHijacking]

Ah, I see he didn't only make a simple post. He made multiple posts of the same thing. I still think Crazy Wabbit was being constructive and helpful and someone else was just having a pop for no reason at all.

 

[BellybTickler]

He only made a simple post. I don't see why anyone alse needs to analyse and over-analyse what he's put and why he's put it.

Ah, I see he didn't only make a simple post. He made multiple posts of the same thing. I still think Crazy Wabbit was being constructive and helpful and someone else was just having a pop for no reason at all.

On average, I see the types of posts .. in here .. 2 - 3 times a week, and they all say the same thing. Their approach is wrong, so we help them construct a better one.

You don't like it? Take your Righteous Bros Crusade somewhere else then, Christ.

 

[Emishticklish]

Good luck in your search! 🙂

 

[7perfect]

Okay here is a cheesy way of doing this but this only thing I know to do.

My details
1. Height: 5'9"
2. Weight: 175 lbs (+/-5 lbs)
3. Eye Color: Blue
4. Body Type: Average w/ some muscle
5. Hair Color: Dark Brown
6. Ticklish Spots: Behind the Ears and Pretty Much Everywhere
7. I wear glasses
8. Shoe size 9 to 10 depending on the make of shoe

Things I learned:
1. I know I have posted the same post several times, however, I was not aware it was that many.
2. Well I did not know that there was certain topics that you could not discuss since the description of this section states: "Here you can discuss anything tickling related, but please make sure it is of a civil nature."
3. I suck at introducing myself. My mind goes blank.
4. I would like to set a goal in participating in 1 or 2 post and/or discussions a day.
5. And posting does help people know you. I simply did not know that the interest of what others were really like was all that high.

Things I thought:
1. I thought by posting was making an effort. What no effort means to me is NO effort. I did make some effort.
2. Some people get on devoted forums like this for a couple of reasons.
A. They want to be heard and feel safe in doing so. So choose words softly
B. They want to meet others who share the same interest.
3. Thanks for replying.
4. Emishticklish if that is you in the picture you are real beautiful person. 😉
5. I know that I posted this in a couple of others but I was trying to reach out to as many people as possible.
For the introduction maybe give me like a list and I can go from there. I am not sure what all to put down. I suck at creative writing.

 

[Crazy Wabbit]

This.

You won't find what you're looking for if you don't make an effort. And I can assure you, you haven't made much of an effort from what I've seen.

And you're not going to either. At least not for awhile anyways. What I am looking for at this point in time isn't the same thing 7perfect is seeking.

BellybTickler, I am not looking for a relationship with someone right now. Hell, I am not even looking for someone just to play with either. Right now, I am just looking to interact with others online who happen to have the same fetish as me and find others who share the same interests as me other than just tickling. Then, once I get a little more familiar with the people on here, my goal is to eventually attend a gathering.

I know I have been registered for some time now, but it wasn't until very recently when I just started posting on this forum. And if you read my introduction on here, you would also know that I am a very shy person.

Ah, I see he didn't only make a simple post. He made multiple posts of the same thing. I still think Crazy Wabbit was being constructive and helpful and someone else was just having a pop for no reason at all.

That's okay, ThaiIsHijacking. From what I can see, I think the OP has seen my comments and seemed to have taken what I've said without getting offended, which was my only concern. Unfortunately though, there will always be people who don't appreciate it, will find fault when you either try to help them or they see you trying to help someone else out because they don't care for you for some reason or another. You can't please everybody.

 

[BellybTickler]

And you're not going to either. At least not for awhile anyways. What I am looking for at this point in time isn't the same thing 7perfect is seeking.

BellybTickler, I am not looking for a relationship with someone right now. Hell, I am not even looking for someone just to play with either. Right now, I am just looking to interact with others online who happen to have the same fetish as me and find others who share the same interests as me other than just tickling. Then, once I get a little more familiar with the people on here, my goal is to eventually attend a gathering.

I know I have been registered for some time now, but it wasn't until very recently when I just started posting on this forum. And if you read my introduction on here, you would also know that I am a very shy person.

I was agreeing with you, my friend, not criticizing you. When I wrote "This" I meant "This is this advice you should take and I agree with him". What I wrote after that, was in regards to the OP, not you. I apologize for the confusion and if I offended you.

 

[Crazy Wabbit]

I was agreeing with you, my friend, not criticizing you. When I wrote "This" I meant "This is this advice you should take and I agree with him". What I wrote after that, was in regards to the OP, not you. I apologize for the confusion and if I offended you.

I am sorry for that. I misconstrued what you wrote. It's just when you had me quoted and wrote that statement, I thought it was directed towards me instead of towards perfect7. My bad!

 

[7perfect]

Two things.
1. I am confused on whats going on here due to the miscommunication.
2. Any tips if I wanted to meet up with someone.

 

[Crazy Wabbit]

Two things.
1. I am confused on whats going on here due to the miscommunication.
2. Any tips if I wanted to meet up with someone.

The whole miscommunication was on my behalf because since I was quoted from other poster, I thought the statement was directed towards me. With that being said, since I haven't heard otherwise, I presume that said poster either hasn't been online to see my reply or he is cool with what I had said, which I hope is the latter of the two. Having to deal with discension within the same community is a horrible thing to have to deal with.

As far as you wanting to meet someone on here in person, as they say, patience is a virtue. Especially in this case. Like I said before, I have more posts on here than you and haven't even entertained the thought as of yet simply because they don't know me nor do I know them. Even if you were to find someone on here to meet you, I would suggest doing so in a public place, but anymore that really doesn't mean anything because if you're looking for action, eventually you're going to end up in privacy anyways. So, you're back to square one.

I strongly suggest you check out the gatherings and when they are held. In my area, which is in Central Ohio, there's Bella's Bash, which I haven't attended as of yet. Then, there's NEST, which is held in Philadelphia, PA. I am not sure what they have for West Virginia, or if they have one in your state for that matter.

I encourage you to check out the forums/subforums towards the bottom of the page. Gatherings is located close by where Penpals and personals are located. Good luck to you on your search.

 

[7perfect]

thank you "you crazy wabbit" i like your username it reminds me of beautiful and classic relationship between elmer fudd and buggs bunny. LOL I am 23 and I still like that stuff. Well anyways thank you.