28 year old male ler seeking advice

[plotkin]

My posts always get many views but no replies. Could someone give me advice on how to make it more....I'm not sure....attractive. I really want a woman who will let me tickle her feet but you can't exactly say that on match.com or jdate. if there are places to go in montreal, please let me know.

 

[Jericho716]

You have 20 posts. You need to build up a reputation on the forum and give people an opportunity to get to know you. Some people have been on here for almost 15 years and have never even touched a woman, let alone tickled one.

Also, post pictures. No pictures usually means a person is either fake (especially in many documented cases where men are pretending to be females) or you're unattractive. There has to be physical attraction if a woman is going to let you touch her.

 

[plotkin]

I don't want people to know who I am. I haven't come out yet about being into tickling. I don't know how you all did it. I really want to meet someone, but I'm afraid. Am I a 28 year old man who would finally like to have someone to tickle instead of just watching videos? Yes. Am I ready for anyone to stumble on this and figure out who I am? No. And I'm not sure I ever will be.

 

[plotkin]

I am five foot five, skinny, virtually no muscle, facial hair that grows back at a surprising rate and have acne problems when stressed. Who would ever be attracted to me?

 

[dr_random]

If you have the money, there's the option of paying for the services. Some folks here have shared their stories and there really is no shame in that.
The best advice I can give is to create a Fetlife account and try going to local meetups. It's the kind of environment where everyone's likes and dislikes are pretty much already on the table, so that part is taken care of. I'm not saying it's a guarantee you'll find the right play partner, but your chances will significantly improve if you leave your comfort zone and talk to non-judgey people.
I recommend the 18 to 35 meetup group. It takes place every month.
Best of luck!