A little help for the Wife and I

[e_piphan_y]

Hey all. You guys are the friendliest community I know, so I figured I'd ask for a hand.
My wife and I have recently come to realize we want to have more of an open relationship and invite a third person into the bedroom.
Awesome right?
Only issue is, we have no idea how/ where to find someone.
Any tips/ suggestions out there?

 

[paracarl44]

Have you been to NEST?

Do you attend any munches where you could meet people into tickling?

 

[MissCatrin]

On top of the advice about munches and events, I'd also suggest dating sites like OKCupid. They have profiles settings for non-monogamous relationships.

 

[e_piphan_y]

Hmm I havent been to a nest. Dont think there are any events around us. I'll have to get a bit deeper into okcupid. I'm on tinder and plenty of fish, but find myself not knowing how to start conversations haha

 

[Sandisk444]

Hmm I havent been to a nest. Dont think there are any events around us. I'll have to get a bit deeper into okcupid. I'm on tinder and plenty of fish, but find myself not knowing how to start conversations haha

I would say it's best to be up front and honest while still being respectful. Make sure that their profile lines up with what you're looking for first and then say "Hey! Came across you while looking for _______ and seems like that's what you're looking for too. My wife and I are ____________________, etc, etc." Ultimately just be respectful and if the person is interested, they'll respond positively and if they're not then that's fine too.

 

[BlasterMaster]

Be cool, be respectful, and earn and honor the person's trust first and foremost.

As for finding someone, I'd recommend some dating sites or possibly even a club with a theme to it?

 

[camble4eva]

Hi probably a bit late to the table with this one but if your ever visiting the UK please by all means give me a shout.