A question for all the wonderful women of this forum!

[FlockOfSeagulls]

I was curious to know how you ''see yourself'' as a person and/or how do you think you are perceived by others :IE family , friends & those on this forum

Would you consider yourself ''The girl next door?".Or maybe more of the ''Motherly, nurturing type?''. Maybe the ''Wild child, Hellraiser'' is more your cup of tea. Could it be more of ''The professional business woman?''.Or maybe the take charge ''Alpha Female ''. Maybe the ''girlie girl'' is more of your deal.

Maybe it is more likely that you are a mixture and combination of ALL THE ABOVE. Or maybe it is none of the above and you have other GREAT qualities that make you who you are!

 

[aun_existe_amor]

I'm just a plain jane girl next door type, nothing exciting or out of the ordinary really 🙂

 

[Mimi]

It depends on my mood and the company I am in, really. When I'm hanging with the guys, I'm very tomboy and just one of the fellas more or less. When I'm going out clubbing, I tend to get all dolled up and wear slinky sexy outfits and be all girly girl (though I am far more often a girly girl than a tomboy...I love cutesy clothes and pj's and I'm a makeup and nail polish and jewelry addict and I love sweet innocent scents and cute shoes....so, yeah..lol). When it comes to my position as a moderator on the forum, I can be both or either the motherly maternal type (when someone needs help or just a sympathic and understanding ear), or I can be the take charge alpha female type if business needs to be done and someone is making this an unpleasant atmosphere. Which side of me each of you see personally is completely up to you and how you act.

All in all, though, I'm just your basic girl next door. Every woman in one, as I think most of us girls tend to be. 😉

Mimi

 

[chicago]

I'm a lot of things.

I'm a tomboy, the girl next door, tough girl, book-worm, genius, blahblahblah, but once you get to know me, I'm really as girly as they come.

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

WoW,

Those are some really GREAT answers. Thanks for sharing them with us!!!!

 

[steph]

Girlie girl next door. Or as I like to say "angel w/a slightly naughty side"
XOXO

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

I'm just a plain jane girl next door type, nothing exciting or out of the ordinary really 🙂

I got a feeling you are very exciting & extraordinary! 😛

 

[tickledorange]

I dunno, some people see me as the daughter they never had, even though I was never the girliest since I was raised with boys.

 

[TicklishLurker]

Well, I know this'll tick people off - but this is really how I see myself -

I see myself as a worthless, fat, ugly sack of crap. I see myself as unworthy of being loved because I'm not thin and perfect like the magazines, tv, movies, etc say I should be. I can't get the image that I'm just this ugly, blobby blimp out of my head no matter what anyone says. And I don't think I ever will.

I also know from what she says, mom sees me not as ugly, but as fat. She's always tell me I'm never going to make it as a singer because I'm fat. I try to make a joke and she brings it back to my weight.

How the rest of them see me I don't know, but probably much the same as mom.

I'm possitive no matter what people say, they see me as a fat, ugly freak.

 

[giggleygirl25]

plain jane, tomboy with a hint of girlie girl thrown in (i love to play with makeup)...while i don't have the perfect body (meh who does, i'd like to know) i realize that i have the body i was meant to have, there are things that i'd like to change but they don't rule my life so overall i'd have to say i have the cuddly,comfy, roundish body type.

 

[tickleshotel]

I see myself as a Plain Jane girl next door type mixed with a combination of the alpha Female .hellraiser type being resilent,determined in my beliefs,values and not afraid to go to Bat,fight for what I believe in,people I love,care about,ect and quite a bit of the Nurturing motherly type too as I am always praising,complimenting others and have nothing but nice things to say,as well as comforting those around me that are in pain,sad,etc. Alot of characteristics are included in the package that is ME 😉

 

[BellaRisa]

Normally I would never be so corny as to quote some pop song, but this is how I actually feel:

I'm a bitch, I'm a lover

I'm a child, I'm a mother

I'm a sinner, I'm a saint

I do not feel ashamed.

I'm your hell, I'm your dream

I'm nothing in between

You know you wouldn't want it

Any other way 😉

The parents of my daycare babies see me one way, my video customers see something altogether different. And my husband definitely sees me in a different way than my boyfriend...I am who I am to different people.

Bella

 

[lk70]

"Well I'm an eight ball shooting double fisted drinking son of a gun
I wear My jeans a little tight
Just to watch the little boys come undone
Im here for the beer and the ball busting band
Gonna get a little crazy just because I can

You know im here for the party
And i aint leavin til they throw me out
Gonna have a little fun gonna get me some
You know im here, im here for the party

I may not be a ten but the boys say i clean up good
And if i gave em half a chance for some rowdy romance you know they would
Ive been waiting all week just to have a good time
So bring on them cowboys and pick up lines

Dont want no purple hooter shooter just some jack on the rocks
Dont mind me if i start that trashy talk"

Yup, that'll do.

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

"Well I'm an eight ball shooting double fisted drinking son of a gun
I wear My jeans a little tight
Just to watch the little boys come undone
Im here for the beer and the ball busting band
Gonna get a little crazy just because I can

You know im here for the party
And i aint leavin til they throw me out
Gonna have a little fun gonna get me some
You know im here, im here for the party

I may not be a ten but the boys say i clean up good
And if i gave em half a chance for some rowdy romance you know they would
Ive been waiting all week just to have a good time
So bring on them cowboys and pick up lines

Dont want no purple hooter shooter just some jack on the rocks
Dont mind me if i start that trashy talk"

Yup, that'll do.

And this whole time I thought you were a ''goodie two shoes"

 

[lk70]

And this whole time I thought you were a ''goodie two shoes"

You couldn't possibly.

 

[Mz Chaos]

Well Gee Flock... I wouldn't call myself "wonderful" but I'll answer your question.

I see myself as:
A Bitch
Stubborn
Opinionated
Obstinate
Sarcastic
Crude
Loud
A Smartass
Embarassing in Public

but also as:
Helpful
Generous
Thoughtful
Intelligent
Creative
Artistic
Mechanically Inclined

As far as noticable mannerisms, I'm a tomboy. I wear t-shirts, jeans and tennis shoes. I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty and I don't get upset if I break a nail. I do clean up nice if the occasion calls for it and although they feel foreign... I do wear skirts when necessary.

My friends... would agree with all of the above... except I just can't convince anyone of the "Bitch" part no matter how hard I try.

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

You couldn't possibly.

No , not really

 

[lergirl69]

Alpha female, but easy going. I'm not controlling, but confident. I'm the "one of the dudes" to guy friends and the down-to-earth one my female friends come to when they want a true honest opinion.