A Question for Couples

[CD216]

Right, so I've been curious about this for a while, but never really got around to asking til now. If you're in a relationship with someone who knows about your love for tickling/being tickled and will indulge it, either because the person is fine with it or has the interest too, how often do you two actively have more intense tickle sessions?

I know this may be a bit on the personal side, but any input would be fine. Just a general curiousity about the balancing of tickle session type play and other romantic endeavors, ya know? Thanks to all those who drop in.

 

[robmic]

Hey CD216. I can say that in my last marriage, my wife let me indulge pretty much whenever I wanted to, which was fairly often. But, as time went on, life got in the way and the times that I did suffered. When we were first dating she was smitten with me and let me do most anything. Of course tickling was the only thing I was interested in doing (besides the normal sex, of course). But we weren't together and intimate for more than a few weeks before the first time I actually tied her up for the first time and tickled the hell out of her. The sex afterwords was great! Enough so that the next time she came over and we retired to the bedroom, she actually asked me if I wanted to tie her up again! Too bad she eventually turned into a total bitch and we eventually divorced.

 

[-Hari-]

for me it was generally abut 3 times a week minimum. Those were the days 🙂

 

[TickleToy4You]

Me and my boyfriend will have sessions every now and then. Doesn't mean it's a huge bondage scene in our room but yeah lol. I don't always like mixing tickling with our love life though. Tickling is mostly seperate haha.

 

[b0xr]

I'd say that I tickle my wife on a daily basis. We are still pretty a playful couple and very sexual. Tickling is almost always a place we start. Karen will usually initiate it and I always finish it. She likes to "ask for it" and knows full well her consequences. One way she asks for it is by giving me a hug, then spanking my ass. She knows how I will react, yet she does it anyway...so I oblige her and tickle the hell out of her. She can't take bondage anymore, which is fine because I can easily pin her and have my way with her. Tickling before, during and after sex has become our norm. There is one rule she has which is, No tickling during initial penetration. After that I pretty much have free reign. We didn't do any of these activities initially in our relationship. It just kinda grew on us over the years. Now we've been married 27 years and I never thought she would ever be OK with it, but she is. not bad for a non-ticklee.

 

[JUICEBOX]

My girlfriend is 80% ticklee 20% ler , depends on her mood either she'll start , i finish or she will come right out and ask me to tie her and tickle her mercilessly , i,m total ler but at times she loves to tickle me and i certainly indulge her,..why not what,s good for the goose ,..i have no idea how common this is but i can air tickle her,..and she goes insane. We are both into tickling so pretty much every time we are together tickling happens which leads to...well you know.

 

[Katie Pants]

I'm at school so I don't get to see my boyfriend all the time, but when I do, it's pretty much guaranteed that some intense tickling will happen. He's not a born ler but he certainly took to it well and he admits that he enjoys it. Tickling happens every time we have sex, and quite often when we don't have sex. So you get the picture =)

 

[ticklishfeetnyc]

I would say it is sometimes a daily thing. I usually playfully tickle my wife a couple times a day, tickle her feet in the morning or night. She knows I like tickling and is cool with it and indulges me with it sexually and playfully. I don't obscess over it so it is not like it overtakes everything. We are playfully and I would consider tickling a part of our life we like. She is not like me about it but she definatlly enjoys being the ler. I would consider myself the lee and her the ler. She really loves to ler now. She likes to be in control and loves to drive me crazy by tickling my feet.

 

[P[a]pi]

Use to be 2 to 4 times a month, now it's about 1 to 2 times a month on average. Been together for 5 years, been married a little over a year.