I personally am much more of a ticklee, though I do switch on ocassion for the right people.
Why? Hard to explain. I love the sensation of being tickled. I'm quite insaitable, in fact. It's a wonderful euphoric high...similar to orgasm, I suppose. One that neither drugs nor alcohol could come close to matching. Plus the physical attention makes you feel good...much like cuddling, massaging, or general displays of affection. All the way around, it just can't be beat 🙂
Very well put Mimi, I agree that it is a euphoric sensation and it is healthy for you too, if it is done in a pleasurable manner. I would have to say I alternate between being a ticklee and a tickler. Most of the time I prefer to be tickled, but I find the urge to tickle almost irresistable at times, especially if I am trying to get someone to retaliate against me *S*. Just ask every female friend I ever had
I'm a 'lee all the way! Why do I like it so much though? hmm, that's a hard one to define. I guess that I just love the feeling of being out of control. I'm such a control freak in regular life (definitely much more of a tough girl "top" than a "bottom" ha) and I love being able to totally let go. When you're being tickled someone else has complete and utter control over what happens to you and the outrageous feelings that go through your body. It's maddening and exhilerating, I hate it and I love it, I find it frustrating and freeing and sexy all at the same time. Is that too vague? ha. Hard to put your finger on huh?
I'm not quite sure why one or the other. I think the "lee" part might fulfill my fantasies more. Yet when I get into the "ler" part I throw myself into the role 100%. People have even told me I get this look on my face where I'm focused and almost in a trance.
I be a Lee as well. Why is a little more complicated. I love the feeling, it is like a total release of everything. I love the feeling, even though I will fight it every second and will never admit to it😉