A Relationship question for the ladies.

[ticklemonster99]

Hi ladies of the forum. i have a question that has been burning in my mind for a long time. I always hear SOME (i stress, some) women complain that there are no "good" men available, "men are dogs"...you know, the whole we can't find a good man for a relationship bashing. But why don't most women consider their male "friends" for dating? Just about every woman has a guy friend(s) that they hang out with, call when they are stranded, need help moving, if they are being hassled by a crazy ex, relationship advice, to help fix things at their place, etc..etc. In other words, these are men who are caring, considerate, protective towards them...communicate and share their feelings with them. Sounds like perfect "boyfriend" material to me! and most men are usually attracted to their female friends, so why are so many great guys alone while so many women are "man-bashing" when a perfect mate might be right in front of their face? Why don't women consider a guy who they've placed in the "friend" category, when those men have already proven their worth?

And please don't use the " i don't want to lose a friendship" excuse. If the result could be true love with a man you already knows cares about you and you already have fun with, then it doesn't sound like much of a "risk" at all.

Curious minds want to know.

 

[Limeoutsider]

If I had a guy friend like that, I would consider dating him

 

[4Pawz]

Actually, a majority of my friends are guys. And it is where I end up getting most of my boyfriends. Yeah, I have lost some good friendships over it, but I am glad I did so in the end. I do have 2 categories I make when I have guys friends (this is so cheezy and kinda not kewl, but I do do it). I have the ones I would possibly date given the right circumstances, and the ones there is no chance in hell. Just because someone is there and is a good friend, doesn't make them a good partner. I know when something can at least have a chance of working out and when it can't.

So to answer your question, I do go out with my friends. I generally rather enjoy it. hope that answers your questions 🙂

Pawz

 

[Neutron]

Once You Get..

That first hummer you're no longer friends..


Darth Neutron