A shameful curse?

[AmericaRocks]

Well, it is weird to like tickling. But I totally enjoy being weird. 🙂

It's boring to be like everybody else! 🙂

Exactly this.

Plus, I'm already really, really weird. One more weird thing about me doesn't make too much of a difference.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

The difference between the normal people and weird people is you don't know know what's weird about the normal ones.

And it's the so-called 'normal' ones who grow up to become psychos.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

It's boring to be like everybody else! 🙂

Oh now ain't that the truth. Imagine just how dull and bland life would be if everybody was in conformity and all talked the same, dressed the same, thought the same, and liked the same things.

That sounds like a bad sci-fi movie.

 

[JameO73]

Pleased to see

I'm thrilled so see there are so many people that embrace this as such a huge part of them and love it. The biggest point I was driving with this was the fact that there are so many perverted creepers that throw their fetish at any naive 15 year old girl on youtube or blow up a members message box or wall the moment they find out they have a vagina with "post more pics of your feet, i want to suck and tickle them all night" shenanigans.

I don't care what people think of me, but I'm meeting more people like me these days that immediately assume I'm one of those dipshits. Just feel cursed with a bad name because of a fairly large amount of idiots inability to control themselves like normal human beings.

 

[MaleTickleeDC]

Tickling isn't weird at all. All it takes is a quick YouTube search to find thousands of videos of people tickling one another. Some are doing it to tease each other, others are youngish people still shy about sexuality and using tickling to flirt, and so on. It's just another part of life.

Those of us who have an interest in tickling that is greater than that of the general population are certainly not the average bear, but that doesn't mean we're somehow inferior, or that there's something objectively "bad" about our interests. No one can help the way they're wired. This is the way we're wired.

Tickling can create problems in relationships, to be sure. Especially for those of us who have a tickling fetish in a sexual manner. Sexual fetishes can often be all-consuming in the bedroom, and for many of us, plain vanilla sex becomes boring without the fetish involved (in our case, tickling). For example, I'm a bit of a strip club addict myself. I love going every few months for a nice lap dance or two, and I enjoy finding new clubs to go to in order to appreciate a different set of dancers. I've probably had 100 lap dances in my life and don't really remember any one of them. But the ONE TIME that I convinced a stripper to tickle me, well, I'll remember that for the rest of my days.

So yes, that does limit our sexual relationships to partners who are willing to tickle or be tickled A LOT, otherwise we will get bored with the intimate aspects of our relationships, and I'm sure our significant others can and do pick up on that.

But aside from those practical concerns, and aside from making sure that Internet search histories stay cleared if you're surfing for tickling on shared computers, there's really nothing to worry about. Society's standards are essentially the product of the mob coming together and deciding what's "right" and what's "wrong." There is no good and bad in nature. There just is.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

I'm thrilled so see there are so many people that embrace this as such a huge part of them and love it. The biggest point I was driving with this was the fact that there are so many perverted creepers that throw their fetish at any naive 15 year old girl on youtube or blow up a members message box or wall the moment they find out they have a vagina with "post more pics of your feet, i want to suck and tickle them all night" shenanigans.

I don't care what people think of me, but I'm meeting more people like me these days that immediately assume I'm one of those dipshits. Just feel cursed with a bad name because of a fairly large amount of idiots inability to control themselves like normal human beings.

There are more sexual deviants among the 'vanilla' crowd than the SM crowd

 

[JameO73]

There are more sexual deviants among the 'vanilla' crowd than the SM crowd

And the ratio between SM and "vanilla" persons is quite a large number. Unfortunately, because the crowd is rather small, the idiots that decide to publicly make themselves look like fools makes more of an impact.

 

[evilwomanhehe]

A shameful curse?

I've always loved tickling but could not even say the word in public since long before I reached puberty. Ninja Turtles??? When I was a youngster I watched Sharon Lynne tickle Stan Laurel 99% to death in an effort to extract "The Deed" that he hid under his shirt. I couldn't breathe just watching it. I swear it lasted five minutes! Get Way Out West, unabridged, and watch it...and enjoy.

It's still one of the greatest tickling scenes in main stream media. Sharon Lynne's evil, evil tickler's smile...I can't tell you how much I wanted any of my aunts or female cousins to torture me that way.


What about women? Any (ANY) ticklish woman is, at least, tied for the most beautiful woman anywhere. If she is a 'ler of a 'lee it's impossible for anyone to be bored if she is in the room.

If my tickle fetish is a curse, Lord, grant me many, many such curses!

P.S. The rest of the Way Out West movie is far better than not bad. Sharon Lynne (Lola) and Rosina Lawrence (Mary Roberts) were lookers of the first order. James Finlayson (Mickey Finn) was at his best as a comedy bad guy.

I love that scene also. From the way she looks when she says "Gimme that deed" and the evil 'ler smile she has while tickling him just WREAKS 'ler. She's a role model for me. LOL

~Victoria

 

[mustang]

The bottom line is that if you have a fetish, then that is your reality. Most likely, you are stuck with it for life, and repression and denial are much bigger problems. You are as sick as your secrets. The whole thing boils down to this...if you think that it is weird, then other people will pick up on that and think that you are weird. If you don't act ashamed, but just boldly tell the truth about your situation like it is no big deal, then others will tend to think accordingly. The first guy that I knew who admitted to his foot fetish in public said it like he was saying that it looks like rain today, and no one batted an eye. This happened at a yard party with about 20 people sitting in a big circle in lawn chairs drinking and smoking weed. Suddenly, this guy grabbed his date's bare feet, put them in his lap, and started stroking her soles and said, 'Girl's feet sex me up'. He said it so matter-of-factly that no one batted an eye. I was envious of his lack of up-tightness. Since then, I have followed suit. If a situation for outting comes up, I admit to having a foot fetish like I admit that I am 6'4". It is just reality. I am just glad that my fetish is as mild as it is. What if you had a thing for screwing gorillas. Being a foot-man isn't much different from being a leg-man. Roll with it and get on with your life and your novel sexual propensities. Nobody cares as much about it as you do, so get over it. Remember when you were a teenager and had a zit on your face? To you it was horrible, but no one else paid any attention. Our foot thing is similar.