Advice on Breaking the Ice

[Psycho]

Ok this girl is coming to chill later tonight. We are just friends (more like casual sex partners) however I wanted to do some bondage/tickling fetish kind of stuff tonight. What is a good way to break the ice. I usually do it in the form of games and the like and have a pretty good idea that this will go well, but any experienced views and advice would be helpful.

 

[GQguy]

Hmmm. One method that comes to mind is a pretty passive one but works! I would keep out a pair of handcuffs in a conspicuous but not too conspicuous place in my Apt or bedroom. The women I date tend to be the nosey sort and I can come off as pretty conservative at times so the handcuffs are usually a welcomed and fun surprise for them. Especially if i've been flirting pretty heavily and haven't made a move yet.

The first time it worked was purely by accident! My best friend at the time was on a reality TV show that just ended and he surprised me at my house with one of his hot costars. He came to pick me up but I had just gotten back from the gym....so I was sweaty and needed to shower first. Well...I left them both in my bedroom....as I feared what they may find(tickling clips on the comp, feathers, handcuffs!) and lo and behold she finds the handcuffs. We never hooked up...but the whole night we were all over each other threatening to tie one another up when the night was over. Good times!

GQ