Advice...

[NMLTTHC]

Well, I've been trying to get to my girlfriends feet for sometime and I tried to touch them and she'd slap my hand and say "Don't touch my feet!"

I finally talked her into letting me give her a foot massage or however you spell it. She said it wasn't bad. So, I've been doing this for sometime and she still doesn't like when people touch her feet, even me.

So, I finally talked her into letting me suck her toes. I told her that even if she hates me touching her feet she will love it. It took forever to talk her into this and she finally gave in but said I got like 30 sec. because she knows she'll hate it. I told her that she will need to relax first of all or she will hate it. Any other tips that will make it better for her? Any special way to suck toes or what? Any help would be appreciated.

thanx 🙂

 

[Journia]

Hmmm...I will get back to you on that one.

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

Whatever you do, don't ever pressure her into anything, fetish or otherwise. It can be annoying and unwanted, and she may just do it begrudgingly for the sake of the relationship.

The best thing to do is let her become curious on her own. You don't need to keep reassuring her how good it's going to feel (theres no gurantee of that anyway regardless of how well you think you can do). The more you talk about it, the less mystery there is to it. The LESS she knows about it the more inticing it will be to try, at least once. The less discriptive you are, the more her imagination will wonder.

Things will happen on their own out of her own curiousity without you having to push for them or coax her into it. Allow her to move at her own pace and she'll definitely feel more comfortable with it and may offer to allow you to do these things to her on her own without you having to ask. Or, it she may simply allow it to happen without a word when you're being intimate- a sure sign she's either ok with it or is willing to experiment.

If she's really your girlfriend, she's always been paying attention to your prompts, and rest assured she already knows what you want without you having to say anything. Let her give it to you when she's and good and ready, but always be considerate and put her before your fetish.

 

[NMLTTHC]

Its not realy a fetish. I just thought I, as well as her, would like to try it. You are absolutely correct in that I should let her come to me about this. 100% correct. Thank you for your input. It helped.

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

If it's not really a fetish then that definitely makes it easier on the relationship.

You're welcome.

 

[Hungarian21]

does she like 2 be tied up? 😀

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

the hollywood brother say you wine and dine her to get her in a good mood. let her know how much you love her. Then do something for her that she wants that you never doen before. then the hollywood brother tells you to ask for her feet