An Unhappy Ending

[Ethical Edward]

A few days ago I posted how I wanted to be an EMT and was going to donate time at my local volunteer ambulance corps. I did and I lasted 1 hour and 8 minutes. It was way too stressful and involved too much multi-tasking, I failed and it wasnt even close. I felt traumatized by my fathers death still and on top of that I cant take stress at all. Now im being sent to a place where they get people like me (people who cant take stress) jobs to be trained for a more suitable position. But im a broken man. Later that evening my girlfriend and I had an argument and she dumped my ass (no im not joking). Her friend is going to sit down with us and try to see where we stopped communicating. Is it a relationship worth saving? In the past 3 weeks I lost my father, girlfriend and possible career. I think im going to search for that thread on suicide that was on here last week and way some of the arguments. Thanx guys for listening.

 

[Sultrybrunette]

You have been through alot in a very short period of space. How about giving yourself time to grieve over the losses you have just had. You just might find some kind of job you will like more if you give it a chance.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

With everything happening in such a short time, it sounds like you need a bit of a mental break. And, you need to give yourself a break! It's rough when things don't go as planned. But, there's something and someone for everyone. Take a bit of time to let things settle. Ask yourself what gives you joy....real joy, not just momentary happiness. When you find it, persue it. In the meantime, you have folks here where you can vent as needed and bounce ideas around. Hang in there. You'll be okay.

Ann

EDIT TO THE ABOVE: After finding out who this really is, I frankly don't much care. This is likely just another ploy to get attention and jerk people around. If ANY of this really happened, then I feel for you as a fellow human being. Somehow, I doubt it, though.

 

[venray]

Girlfriend?..So what happened to your wife?....

 

[Sultrybrunette]

Ok now I am confused???

 

[BLUE_THUNDER]

SOMEONE here isnt who they appear to be........

 

[Ethical Edward]

Well I dont know which name you think I am but I wanted to show that I changed my ways. All my posts I tried to help people and give out kindness as you can search and see. Thats the real me but again you cant escape your past. I cant blame anyone for not wanting to accept it I guess there are no new beginnings in life. Anyway ill split and I wont come back this time, thanx everyone for the advice you all gave me I took it to heart and appreciate it. I guess now this thread will be an insult forum for me. Ok thats cool, no hard feelings on this end. Sorry Steph and Mel especially. I get the feeling I now have a cheering section for my demise which will most likely happen on August 2 in case youre interested (try not to party too hard!) Ok bye guys, enjoy each others company and the events I stated were true and the advice you gave was once again appreciated. Youre good people.

 

[aun_existe_amor]

What's going on? Is it all lies? Who is he?

 

[aun_existe_amor]

I really believe everything he said is true no matter who he is or what he did in the past. He deserves another chance.

 

[isabeau]

at the risk of breaking the golden rule, i will say that everything he is saying is a lie. he has used this tactic in the past to get females to feel sorry for him, myself included. i feel sorry for someone who has to resort to lies to get attention.

 

[Ethical Edward]

at the risk of breaking the golden rule, i will say that everything he is saying is a lie. he has used this tactic in the past to get females to feel sorry for him, myself included. i feel sorry for someone who has to resort to lies to get attention.

Im sorry you feel that way isabeau but everything I said is true. Au Existe Amour is right. Believe me, I wish it werent. And I considered you a good friend Mel and I wont ever bother you again like I promised. Thank you au existe for believing in me...I swear to God everything we discussed is true and youre a special person for asking for a second chance for me. But im gonna cancel my account now because its what I have to do. I tried to make amends and I failed.

 

[BLUE_THUNDER]

Im sorry you feel that way isabeau but everything I said is true. Au Existe Amour is right. Believe me, I wish it werent. And I considered you a good friend Mel and I wont ever bother you again like I promised. Thank you au existe for believing in me...I swear to God everything we discussed is true and youre a special person for asking for a second chance for me. But im gonna cancel my account now because its what I have to do. I tried to make amends and I failed.

dont let the door hit you on the way out........or the way back in for that matter, since you are just going to create another screen name and start your little game all over again right? if you expect any sympathy from anyone, i highly suggest you STAY gone from here this time........

 

[Mz Chaos]

Ya know... I have never talked to this fella... but after the wife question I went back through his posts. I see no mention of a wife... but I saw many that talked about a girlfriend.
Now... obviously... some of what all this is about has happened through PM's because I am totally lost when reading this thread. It starts out with the man saying he has to take a stress management course, that his dad died and his GF left and three replies later everybody's jumping down his throat.
So... to add my two cents to the part that DID make sense to me... which was the part that he was thinking of taking and early train outta here...

Dude... suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Things aren't always gonna be like this.

 

[Ethical Edward]

Ya know... I have never talked to this fella... but after the wife question I went back through his posts. I see no mention of a wife... but I saw many that talked about a girlfriend.
Now... obviously... some of what all this is about has happened through PM's because I am totally lost when reading this thread. It starts out with the man saying he has to take a stress management course, that his dad died and his GF left and three replies later everybody's jumping down his throat.
So... to add my two cents to the part that DID make sense to me... which was the part that he was thinking of taking and early train outta here...

Dude... suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Things aren't always gonna be like this.

Yeah they will for me but thanx for the kind words. Youll hear plenty of bad shit about me but everything I posted under Ethical Edward is 100% true. I thought I could make amends. No matter, I just PMed qjakal to tell him to cancel my account...I wont be back so dont worry. I guess I watched too many episodes of My Name Is Earl.

 

[venray]

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=55570

 

[Bugman]

I'm kind of new here and don't know whats going on,but this seems to be a person who needs some serious help.All i can say is as one person to another,i hope you get your life in some kind of order.

 

[TKpervert]

Oh for Christ's sake Ethical, give us a break.

All of us have downers but we don't threaten suicide.

We handle our problems. And we don't grandstand on the internet by publishing the date of 'our grand exit'.

What a load of bullshit.

If your life is this low, there's nowhere to go but up.

But you can't figure this out for yourself, can you numbnuts.
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[aun_existe_amor]

I'm shocked !!! No other words to describe how I feel. One minute I believe him and want to stick up for him and the next minute I realise it's all lies and I've been completely sucked in. I'm glad I'm not the only one and I'm glad my friends here warned me before it went too far. It sounds like he went too far with a couple of women here at least.

A message to "Donnie".........

I believe that you need psychiatric help for your imaginary internet life and your internet feelings but you also need psychiatric help for your real life too. I don't know how much of what you told me is true. I feel for you even if it is all lies. Please be safe. I don't hate you. It's best that you don't contact me again.

 

[kis123]

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=55570

Ya' gotta' be kidding!!!

I knew he was back but I had the screenname wrong! That is unless he's here under more than one new name. It doesn't matter anyway-he'll just change the name and come back.

 

[isabeau]

Ya' gotta' be kidding!!!

I knew he was back but I had the screenname wrong! That is unless he's here under more than one new name. It doesn't matter anyway-he'll just change the name and come back.

yes kis..he had me fooled..he has used several screen names..and he will be back.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

A few days ago I posted how I wanted to be an EMT and was going to donate time at my local volunteer ambulance corps. I did and I lasted 1 hour and 8 minutes. It was way too stressful and involved too much multi-tasking, I failed and it wasnt even close. I felt traumatized by my fathers death still and on top of that I cant take stress at all. Now im being sent to a place where they get people like me (people who cant take stress) jobs to be trained for a more suitable position. But im a broken man. Later that evening my girlfriend and I had an argument and she dumped my ass (no im not joking). Her friend is going to sit down with us and try to see where we stopped communicating. Is it a relationship worth saving? In the past 3 weeks I lost my father, girlfriend and possible career. I think im going to search for that thread on suicide that was on here last week and way some of the arguments. Thanx guys for listening.

Even if he wasn't a fraud, this post would've triggered, in my consciousness, a standard response: "attention-whoring bozo".

Ethical Edward indeed. Let me guess...your next screen name will be two words starting with the letter 'E'?

 

[Ethical Edward]

Most of the stuff in this thread is outright lies propegated through hateful PMs about my person so I refuse to acknowledge any negative comments or any negativity towards me in general. The time has come to start anew friends! Ive been though hell and back and I believe that I can be a valuable member of this community. I look forward to hearing from you all! Go Giants!!! Superbowl Bound!!!

 

[venray]

Most of the stuff in this thread is outright lies propegated through hateful PMs about my person so I refuse to acknowledge any negative comments or any negativity towards me in general. The time has come to start anew friends! Ive been though hell and back and I believe that I can be a valuable member of this community. I look forward to hearing from you all! Go Giants!!! Superbowl Bound!!!

No...most was brought about by your own actions and the way you treated people (especially the women here) as electric eye and an assortment of other names...you even bragged about the number of forums you have been banned from...


3 strikes have come and gone a long time ago for you, so just save your I am a changed person for folks that might believe you.....folks that know you here will not fall for your phoniness again.........

 

[Ethical Edward]

I dig the V For Vendetta sig. Great movie. As for me the mods have ruled that as long as I follow the rules I can stay. I plan to. I signed a TOS agreement and ive honored the agreement so far and dont plan on changing that. I dont care what anyone thinks or how many vicious lies that I am unable to defend myself against. Negativity has no place in my world dude.

No...most was brought about by your own actions and the way you treated people (especially the women here) as electric eye and an assortment of other names...you even bragged about the number of forums you have been banned from...


3 strikes have come and gone a long time ago for you, so just save your I am a changed person for folks that might believe you.....folks that know you here will not fall for your phoniness again.........

 

[venray]

I have no problem with one who obeys the rules....

As for lies....as I said in my pm to you..the truth is out there....in a one inch thick file...