Anti-gender

[11225]

Somehow this topic I just recently encountered from one of my family. I was heard that there are few or some women who hate men for various reason (and I mean intensely hates all men). I don't blame women for hating men for any reason...but hearing about that got me a little curious about this site. And I don't know how to put this.

First Question: Is there any possibility that in here has at least on woman who is anti-men? I mean, we all know that some women tease men to get the attention and some are shy to men and such. But after watching certain TV Show, I found out that there's certain females that despise males so much that they wish men don't exist at all. That actually worries me a bit when I think about it. So I had to wonder...what cause women to be anti-men? And why?


Second Question: Now this may be stupid...but as soon as I thought about it...is there a possibility that there are men who are anti-women? For if by any reason, I began to grow curious about it and it got me a bit concern. Especially if there was a possibility that there are men that thinks women shouldn't even be on this planet. Now I may be a male, but I like women so I'm no anti-women or women hater.

But yea, feel free to answer if you got something in mind...I'm just feeling curious about it and wants to learn more things about what's going on between men and women.

 

[Bator]

It does exist by some on both sides, but I,m not one of them.

 

[Violetta]

So you've never heard of misogyny, misandry, or sexism until recently? Because, see, those things have been around since there were people.

 

[Miss Sassy1]

Oh yeah, I'm so anti-men *note the sarcasm*, that is, if I don't wanna have sex with them. But then again, I don't wanna have sex with my gender either. I am anti-sex, meaning that I would rather adopt than have sex. One, because it'll kill me if I was to get pregnant, and two, I don't think I'm mature about that. But, if you mean anti as in I don't want any males on here, then no, the only thing I am anti about is Satan and his creatures, JESUS RULES!!!!!!!! That is just bull-shit to think that some people hate men in general and some people hate women. What kind of fucking world is this? Scuse my french, but no. I swear, if I meet one of them, I'll kick their asses. Now, I do know some anti-amber, which is people who don't want me around because I was born with one eye, one ear, no nose, and major other problems. Just because I was born that way, does it mean that people should hate me? After all, I did get a nose, though I can't breath properly out of it and their working on my ear, but it looks like I'll be stuck with one eye until I go to heaven.

The point is, we're not perfect. That is why God sacrificed his one and only son so that we may be born again. I don't want to see a world where we hate one another. Love our enemies. We need to stick together. Especially if God is coming back. Sorry, but you got me started FT ><

 

[a1532b]

As long as anything in the universe exists, there will be people that hate it passionately. Well, as long as people also exist too, that is. 🙂

 

[melanie2]

As long as anything in the universe exists, there will be people that hate it passionately. Well, as long as people also exist too, that is. 🙂

And that is also why i doubt there will ever be world peace.

 

[Pat_the_Baker]

And that is also why i doubt there will ever be world peace.

Peace is a concept that's never truly existed anyways. Animals kill each other for survival and we kill each other for more reasons than I have fingers and toes.

 

[11225]

So you've never heard of misogyny, misandry, or sexism until recently? Because, see, those things have been around since there were people.

To b honest, those sounded very new and I tend to look it up when I decided to do some research on something like it. I think I shall look those up a little further. Thanks Bella.

Oh yeah, I'm so anti-men *note the sarcasm*, that is, if I don't wanna have sex with them. But then again, I don't wanna have sex with my gender either. I am anti-sex, meaning that I would rather adopt than have sex. One, because it'll kill me if I was to get pregnant, and two, I don't think I'm mature about that. But, if you mean anti as in I don't want any males on here, then no, the only thing I am anti about is Satan and his creatures, JESUS RULES!!!!!!!! That is just bull-shit to think that some people hate men in general and some people hate women. What kind of fucking world is this? Scuse my french, but no. I swear, if I meet one of them, I'll kick their asses. Now, I do know some anti-amber, which is people who don't want me around because I was born with one eye, one ear, no nose, and major other problems. Just because I was born that way, does it mean that people should hate me? After all, I did get a nose, though I can't breath properly out of it and their working on my ear, but it looks like I'll be stuck with one eye until I go to heaven.

The point is, we're not perfect. That is why God sacrificed his one and only son so that we may be born again. I don't want to see a world where we hate one another. Love our enemies. We need to stick together. Especially if God is coming back. Sorry, but you got me started FT ><

Oh wow! I didn't even know that much about you until now. The fact you're anti-men or anti-sex. In my case, I may feel the same way about being anti-sex, because even if I get married with a female, I refuse to have kids...too much responsibility. I'm even surprised that you're born with something like that....but at least what I mention before has a perfect reason...only carrying about look will get some to all nowhere and I don't care how they look...it's their personality I care about the most. So I'll still be your friend, no matter what, Shygirl. ^_^

Peace is a concept that's never truly existed anyways. Animals kill each other for survival and we kill each other for more reasons than I have fingers and toes.

The animals I can understand...it's part of mother nature....but when it comes to people, some of the reasons to kill one another are just plain stupid, selfish, and sometimes cowardly, even if they happen to be anti-male or anti-female.

 

[Miss Sassy1]

To b honest, those sounded very new and I tend to look it up when I decided to do some research on something like it. I think I shall look those up a little further. Thanks Bella.



Oh wow! I didn't even know that much about you until now. The fact you're anti-men or anti-sex. In my case, I may feel the same way about being anti-sex, because even if I get married with a female, I refuse to have kids...too much responsibility. I'm even surprised that you're born with something like that....but at least what I mention before has a perfect reason...only carrying about look will get some to all nowhere and I don't care how they look...it's their personality I care about the most. So I'll still be your friend, no matter what, Shygirl. ^_^



The animals I can understand...it's part of mother nature....but when it comes to people, some of the reasons to kill one another are just plain stupid, selfish, and sometimes cowardly, even if they happen to be anti-male or anti-female.

Oh nononono, don't get me wrong FT, I wanna have kids, and I would like to be able to have sex if I could someday, and if I would want it, but the having the kids part would put too much strain on my heart and I can't take birth control because that would kill me as well. And I was being saarcastic, i'm not anti-men, and thanks FT, I know that you at least like me for me. And to anybody else who may pity me or feel sorry for me, don't. I don't need it. All I need is friends, and seeing as I'm a sasay trouble maker on here, I got like half of you after my ticklish blood, I think 🤔, lmao

 

[melanie2]

I never pity or feel sorry for anyone..but what you said touched me..i hope that's ok, shygirl..

 

[Miss Sassy1]

I never pity or feel sorry for anyone..but what you said touched me..i hope that's ok, shygirl..

Oh psh *waves that away* That's fine. I get that with the older generation.....O.O....not that I'm calling you old, but you're fine. :blush

 

[melanie2]

Oh psh *waves that away* That's fine. I get that with the older generation.....O.O....not that I'm calling you old, but you're fine. :blush

oo tsk tsk young lady..lol...it's ok i am old..

 

[Miss Sassy1]

😛 eh, glad your a old lee then, lmao

 

[hazelf1]

HI FT
A good thread here a would think this debate may go on for a while.

My thoughts are that it would seem doubtful that a person would hate all of the opposite sex, depends how hate is defined, but i can imagine one person hateing another, my exhusband isn't exactly flavour of the month.

I think its more a case of hateing a persons deeds, or attitudes, the things they inflict on others.

The human nature side of things comes into this, i was born bi and i discovered this when young, very young, but since the divorce i have been closer to women this in part may be due to the support from my friends.

But i don't hate guys in fact i tend to feel good in the company of older established men who seem to have a more mature adult attitude and calmness about things.

Not relevent to the thread but my divorce wasn't because of sesual orientation it was my ex husbands love of the bottle.

There may well be people who hate the opposite sex but i would think it was few and far between i could well be wrong.

 

[Pat_the_Baker]

I think sexism is the biggest pile of crap on the planet and unfortunately we men have been responsible for most of it. Whether repressing free thinking women during the dark ages all the way up to the suffrage movement, we men have done very VERY cruel and sadistic things to women just because they wanted a voice. It gives the rest of us good guys a bad name.

 

[11225]

HI FT
A good thread here a would think this debate may go on for a while.

My thoughts are that it would seem doubtful that a person would hate all of the opposite sex, depends how hate is defined, but i can imagine one person hateing another, my exhusband isn't exactly flavour of the month.

I think its more a case of hateing a persons deeds, or attitudes, the things they inflict on others.

The human nature side of things comes into this, i was born bi and i discovered this when young, very young, but since the divorce i have been closer to women this in part may be due to the support from my friends.

But i don't hate guys in fact i tend to feel good in the company of older established men who seem to have a more mature adult attitude and calmness about things.

Not relevent to the thread but my divorce wasn't because of sesual orientation it was my ex husbands love of the bottle.

There may well be people who hate the opposite sex but i would think it was few and far between i could well be wrong.

That's a pretty good reason why some become like that...but it's kinda hard to tell if you're right or wrong. Then again, some can be like that...so who knows.

I think sexism is the biggest pile of crap on the planet and unfortunately we men have been responsible for most of it. Whether repressing free thinking women during the dark ages all the way up to the suffrage movement, we men have done very VERY cruel and sadistic things to women just because they wanted a voice. It gives the rest of us good guys a bad name.

I agree with you there 100% Crazy_Clown. It does brings good mens bad names. 🙁

 

[idiot756]

Let's be honest. There is some sexism in the world, even if it's very small and not extreme. There's kind of a double standard, at any rate. I mean, if a girl does "boy" stuff, you'd better accept it. But if a guy, say... wanted to see a chick flick or something? "Gay."

 

[P[a]pi]

It looks to me like anti-male is more prevalent. I know these are stereotypes, but I think there is some truth to them. Gay guys wanting to be friends with chicks versus lesbians hating guys.

 

[Hootus1]

My wife and I are in our 30th year together, and we have never had kids because her blood does not clot inside her body. So she would bleed to death in childbirth.
Plus being a retired school teacher, she told me she had enough of kids by the time she retired in 96. Now, since my kidney transplant sex is apparently a memory too. No fault of hers. The operation seems to have killed my ability to do so.

 

[melanie2]

My wife and I are in our 30th year together, and we have never had kids because her blood does not clot inside her body. So she would bleed to death in childbirth.
Plus being a retired school teacher, she told me she had enough of kids by the time she retired in 96. Now, since my kidney transplant sex is apparently a memory too. No fault of hers. The operation seems to have killed my ability to do so.

ah..sighs..i have a form of lupus, in which my body fights off foreign objects..and mostly showed up when i was pregnant..but it took a good while before the body began fighting..each baby died inside me during the second or third trimester., but wasn't diagnosed with this until after i lost my third baby .then i was considered too high risk to try again without extreme experimentation drugs etc..and hubby wouldn't allow me to go thru with that again..so i made my pets my babies..o and i'm thinking you meant to post this in the mostly for women thread?

 

[Budweiserbob!]

Over here in England, there's a gay radio presenter who actually admitted to having a 'fear of girls'. Not all girls in particular, just girls he didn't know. I thought that was kinda interesting.

As for me, I'm only anti-woman when I encounter one on the road as I'm driving. I'm not one to believe in stereotypes but there are some women out there who don't make it easy for me. 😛