Any Lady Lees in Southern Tier of NY

[tiklir]

Since I have yet to meet any female lees locally , I thought I would put this out there out of curiosity! Endicott/Binghamton area?

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

I know a few folks in the area who are into tickling, but none who are active online. I'm originally from Binghamton myself and know a couple guys who are. But, if you're looking to hook up with gals from the area, I can't help you out. Good luck, though! Hope you find someone I don't know about.

Ann

 

[tiklir]

Thanks for the response. I have only met female lees from other areas. This area seems too conservative! One day I hope to say I used to be from the souther tier! Happy Tickles!

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

Just a post of support for Midnight Mage, as what he says is true. Here in New York City, there is a lot of false rebelliousness as well. It runs along the lines of hanging a skull and crossbones over the mirror of the expensive car Daddy has just bought for you.

Even on St Mark's Place in the Village, that haunt of 60s self-identity, you find Starbuck's and The Gap.

But even in the most backwards of places, that one rare person is amazing. The Internet, full of blogs, is a backwater of provincialism. However, maybe there are more amazing people than you would think on this board, a bright light in Internet darkness. Maybe there are bright lights in tiny towns with names like Prairie Gulch and Dusty Meadow.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

So, tell me, Mage.... Have you ever BEEN in Binghamton or surrounding areas? Just curious. A lot of folks have this view that upstaters are old fashioned or backwards or whatever. But, there's really quite a bit of progressive thinking in the area. Sure, it may not be every person you meet. But, I know a number of people in the area who are eons ahead of some of those I've met from the city. So, I think your statement is just a bit exaggerated. I mean, come on! Just because we still use out houses and oil lamps, think that nothing thought of after 1800 is valid and heat our homes with coal? We really aren't quite as backwards as you may think. 😛

Seriously, though. Upstate isn't as bad as you may think. And, we have a number of upstaters here on the forum and elsewhere in the community. So, there ARE good things to celebrate.

Ann

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

LOL Who didn't pay attention to what?

I was kidding around with all but the last line of what I said. That's why I used the 😛 smilie and then prefaced my last statement with "Seriously, though" Maybe I should have thrown in a few of these... to stress the fact that I was kidding around. I think you were expecting flames so much that you read it into what I wrote.

Don't sweat it. I know that there's a lot more to offer in bigger cities in regard to things like the fetish world, etc. I happen to prefer the sometimes backwards smaller cities. But, that's cool too. I just like clowning around. 😉

Ann

We now return you to your original topic.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Hmmmm.....mental note....add Mage to SAM list. (Ida dun that bfer. but im a lil slow bein an upstatr an all) OK, we're cool. lol

noogies! 😉

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

Inference is always difficult when communicating this way, and I just wanted to make my stance clear in case someone took even greater offense or misinterpreted, is all. GoForTheLaugh, bless him, knows me well enough to know that's kind of an issue with me, that I don't always come off the way I intend. But not everyone does.

Thumbs up for the Mage!

True, I've never met him; I've only met WorkInProgress and one other fellow who has not given me permission to use his screen name. But let me tell you, Mage is one super cool guy, and his e-mail is nothing short of astounding.

The rest of you have only seen me in sweet, supportive mode, but Mage and I had a misunderstanding and, sadly, he has seen me in bitch mode--thankfully, only in print. That we talked out the misunderstanding are getting along again is a testament to who he is.

All that being said, yes, Mage will argue a point to death and make you roll your eyes in exasperation. So will I, for that matter. Maybe that is why we click even though we disagree on so many things. 🙂

And Mage: I used the link and loved your entry. How uncanny! I know two guys here in New York who would say exactly the same thing: cuddling with a girlfriend in the East Village, wishing the old rites of passage were still an option, wondering rhetorically why corporate America is so dehumanizing in a place once known for individualism. Great stuff. You get the GoForTheLaugh Jack Kerouac Award!

 

[tiklir]

I did not mean to stir up a hornets nest here! Just the lack of females lees posting here from the southern tier pretty much speaks for itself. It is a conservative area in general, but with pockets of progressive individuals. I keep checking occasionally to see if any newbies or classics have come out of the closet. I do meet female lees from other areas and do enjoy getting together. Just thought it would be nice to meet some from nearby. No luck thus far...but as i said ..I do meet them ..just not local.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Don't sweat it. Mage and I were just getting acquainted is all. I think the fact that we're talking about a much smaller area with a less dense population has a lot to do with it. I know there are gals up there into tickling. I just don't know of any who frequent the various forums and stuff.

If you're lookiing to meet folks, rather than simply find play partners, Drew and I could probably hook up with you on one of our trips up to visit my folks. Things are rather nuts at the moment. But, maybe in the fall. We could meet you over at Consoles or something like that.

Drop me a PM if you're interested. Then, we can let you know when we get up there. Our next trip will likely be in a few weeks for our family reunion. But, after that, we should be freer during our visits. If we manage to get there before the reunion, I can let you know.

Ann

PS - They ever get those streets finished over by UE?

 

[tiklir]

Cool. Glad to hear I did not start a fire! I am actually looking for either play partners or simply meeting fellow ticklephiles. Would enjoy meeting you if you do make it back. Not sure about the streets by UE...Main Street is fine..other than that I do not get past there. Talk to you. T

 

[tiklir]

Thanks Mage! I do frequent Syracuse during the year, especially this time. Would be interested in anyone you could send my way! May hit Rochester in the fall..Very good writing in your responses by the way. Thanks.

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

I did not mean to stir up a hornets nest here!

You didn't! On the contrary, I thank you for this wonderful thread! I hope all these posts draw attention to it and get you the lady lee of your dreams. 🙂

You like me! You really, really like me!

And why wouldn't I like you? We come from two different worlds, but that does not mean we can't learn from each other.

You were the first person from this board to write to me, and among the flames I have received as private messages and posts from the 'lovely' people on this 'lovely' board, I found your insightful letters. They helped me to see that I was not a weirdo for having this fetish.

Yes, we misunderstood each other at one point; however, now we understand each other.

(seriously, I can't thank you enough for your kind and supportive insights and gentle wisdom, G. In the end, I think we have a lot more in common than not! And you're kinda shexay when you're a "bitch," anyway. 😉 )

Oh Lord, now I'm blushing. 😀

Per what I wrote above, I am merely returning the favor.

Carlin, Miller, and Ginsberg? Uh oh. Friendship's over. 😉

We are SO different, Mage, more than you realize--but we do indeed have a few things in common.

By the way, Allen Ginsberg cruised me fifteen years ago, when I was barely legal. It was too weird for words--and no, I am not kidding. I'll tell you that one another time.

 

[tiklir]

Thanks Gofor the laugh....just looking for some play...my wife isnt into tickling and is not ticklish except for her sides and hates it! She supports my love of it and allows me some freedom with it. But i appreciate your kind words! I know there are ladies out there is similar situations or some that are single that might just want a good tickle....I do tickle a few from time to time..usually travel though..just wondering if there is anyone near.