Any Suggestions?

[Allyouneedis...]

I am lucky enough to have the most wonderful girlfriend in the world, who twice a year allows me to tie her up and tickle her. 😀 Well i've done this three times now, and each time i've had problems with the bondage. Her bed doesn't have a headboard and it is basically nothing but a box spring and a mattress, so we've been looping rope between them but it just isnt working out. It ends up being slightly aggrivating and takes away from the whole experience as i am always untying and retying her. Any suggestions on how to make this easier?

 

[tcls_4_yr_tummy]

Hi! I'm not new here, just I had to re-register to post this reply. I didn't like my old screen name anyway 😀

I hope you like my suggestion... You need two extra bed sheets. Simply take the opposite corners of one sheet and make it into a long cloth. Slip the cloth under the mattress between box and mattress. Keep the ends sticking out. Do the same for the second sheet but put it at the foot of the bed. Using the ends make big knots for her wrists and ankles. You will find it easy to adjust the restraint either tighter or looser, by tyeing the knot closer or farther depending on her comfort level. I sometimes just use a single overhand because the sheets can then easily be released if need be. I find it works great and with the amount of material, she shouldn't have a problem with the sheets digging into her wrists or cutting circulation. My personal experience with this is that once my girlfriend wouldn't stop and I wanted up. But I couldn't get free. I didn't know what safewords were all about back then. Happy tickling!!!

 

[nessonite1]

What are you using to secure the ropes to whatever you've got around her wrists and ankles?
I recently made as similar setup using a length of chain and spring clips and it's worked well.

 

[P[a]pi]

You could just tie her ankles together and tie her wrists together behind her back and let her roll around, or you could hogtie her.

 

[Allyouneedis...]

Thanks for the suggestions folks!

I'm gonna try that bed sheet thing i think.. 🙂

 

[Ticklish Old Man]

I was going to suggest if you are able to, with an old sheet tear in to long strips of cloth, simply tie them to legs of boxspring?
Bring them up onto the mattress, effectively tying your girlfriend in a spreadeagle.....
add a blindfold to drive her crazy

 

[TickledToDeath]

On that type of bed, somewhere under the box spring or bed frame itself, there are small metal bars..........secure the rope to them along with under the box frame and then to the wrists and feet(ankels)

 

[tcls_4_yr_tummy]

Thanks for the suggestions folks!

I'm gonna try that bed sheet thing i think.. 🙂

Lots of suggestions here. The bed sheet thing is so simple and effective. I would like to here how it goes next year! If your so inclined...

And ripping perfectly good bed sheets... whats the point?

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

Gt Assumes No Responsibility For Damage To Persons Or Property.......

You May Want To: (1) Add Additional Slats( The Wooden Boards On Which The Springs Sit) To Make Additional Tying Points Along The Frame For Ropes. Then Whatever Cuffs Or Ties You Use Can Be Attached To The Ropes.(2) Attaching Several Belts Together Running All The Way Around The Frame And The Mattress Will Work. It Helps If The Belts On Top Have The Double Grommet Holes For Tying. (3)various Adjustable Straps For Holding Loads While Moving Could Be Adapted Also. I Agree That The Bedsheet Tie Seems The Simplest............... And Easiest To Explain If You Get Busted. 😉

 

[Dude'sonfire]

I am lucky enough to have the most wonderful girlfriend in the world, who twice a year allows me to tie her up and tickle her. 😀 Well i've done this three times now, and each time i've had problems with the bondage. Her bed doesn't have a headboard and it is basically nothing but a box spring and a mattress, so we've been looping rope between them but it just isnt working out. It ends up being slightly aggrivating and takes away from the whole experience as i am always untying and retying her. Any suggestions on how to make this easier?

She ALLOWS you?

SHE ALLOWS YOU?!

*long sigh*

I tell you, I'm beggining to think my gender has seriously lost its touch.

The way that sentence should have read is: "I am lucky enough to have the most wonderful girlfriend in the world, who twice a year is allowed a respite from being tickled by my sadistic, merciless fingers."

Seriously dude.

If *you* told *her* how often she got tickled, you would have sorted out a good bondage system months ago I'm sure.

*sighs again* I think I'm a dying breed... lol

Rock on. :happy:

 

[Allyouneedis...]

She ALLOWS you?

SHE ALLOWS YOU?!

*long sigh*

I tell you, I'm beggining to think my gender has seriously lost its touch.

The way that sentence should have read is: "I am lucky enough to have the most wonderful girlfriend in the world, who twice a year is allowed a respite from being tickled by my sadistic, merciless fingers."

Seriously dude.

If *you* told *her* how often she got tickled, you would have sorted out a good bondage system months ago I'm sure.

*sighs again* I think I'm a dying breed... lol

Rock on. :happy:

I also think i would have been single months ago...lol

 

[nessonite1]

A dying breed because you don't keep a girl long enough to reproduce, perhaps. 😵
Seriously...you know women who put up with that?

 

[Allyouneedis...]

I would never ever ever ever tickle her if she didnt want me to.

Ever.

It actually makes me uncomfortable thinking about it.

The lack of respect that one would have to have..unthinkable...

 

[Dude'sonfire]

A dying breed because you don't keep a girl long enough to reproduce, perhaps. 😵
Seriously...you know women who put up with that?

I'm just the dominant type.

I know perfectly well a lot of women don't go for that, and I was mostly joking in my post; I thought that was obvious.

I apologise if it was not.

I am a joker; it's what I do. I guess I should make it clearer. As for my personal relationships with women, I never do anything they are not happy with. But in my experience, what they are happy with is confidence, decisiveness and a sense of self control. Behind the humour, I guess this is what I was trying to get at in my post.

Again, I apologise if my post came across as 100% serious; it was not meant that way. I don't wish to encourage direspect for women in any way.

Sorry again. Though I think you made a lot of assumptions in your reply, which was a bit unfair. You should know that from my record on the forum that, when I'm being serious, I'm an open minded and respectful person.

Sorry if I sound preachy, but I think I deserve a bit more credit.

EDIT: Heh, lol embarrasing story, I had just come home somewhat drunk from a night out when I posted this, and hence probably took things a little too personally and rambled a bit. I won't delete any of it, but just know that I'm not actually angry or anything, and realise that this was probably just a misunderstanding.
Me being the boss is fun for me and my gf and part of what turns us on, and of course if I ever thought it was making her unhappy in any way I would take action to sort it out. :happy:
As I said, I meant my post mainly as a joke. If this is how you like to interact with your girl Allyouneedis... and you're happy with it, then all power to you! :happy:

Rock on :happy:

 

[maskedmaiden]

you can secure it with the metal bars like suggested but if the mattress has handles thats a good call. I've tried this before but was the lee. It was so much fun.

 

[nessonite1]

Hey, no prob. It's hard to tell exactly what is serious and what isn't...especially when I've met people on here who would make a pst like that and mean every word of it. ^^

 

[BigNorm]

she sounds like a real winner, though only 2 times a year? that does seem like much.