Anyone else confessed?

[fly_away567]

So finally after 4 years of a close friendship. I finally admitted to my bestfriend that I wanted to tickle her feet. We had always joked about the topic since we were teenagers, but I never got to do it. I just frustrated with always thinking about it and having the chance to get her by suprise. That I finally confessed to her about it all. Of course, she laughed at first but I explained to her that I was serious about it. Basically she shot my confession to hell and told me it wouldn't ever happen. We are still just as good of friends as we were before I told her though. I was just wondering if anyone else has gone through this dilemma and how they went about it.

 

[Soletickler211]

*raises hand* I have, over here. I know its really silly and a bit odd, but I tend to think of my "intrests" as being what I call a "superhero's dilemma," not that I'm referring to myself as being a superhero or what have you. (I wish... do you have any idea what I could do as a tickler with Spider-Man's webbing? God, the possibilities... *ahem*) A-a-anyway, its kind of like I have this secret identity that everyone (the general public) sees on a daily basis, just a normal everyday guy. But all the while I'm doing that, on the inside, I'm thinking about that extremely hot blonde college girl's pedicured soles peeking out from those flimsy flip-flops in front of me in the check out line, just begging to be tickled... and she doesn't even have a clue what she's doing to me or what lies beneath the surface. Anything I can do about it? No. Does it bug the ever-lovin' shit out of me? Yes. I think I'm getting off track, tho. The point is, there's VERY few people who know "Soletickler21," my wife being one of them. I never told any of my past girlfriends out of fear that they'd flip out, break up with me, and tell everyone my "superpowers." So for about 20 of the 26 years I've been alive (age 6 being my first memory of being fond of tickling), I've hid it. Why? Because basically, people irrationally fear and reject different ideals and intrests, especailly the thought of someone being THAT MUCH into tickling. It's my gift because I love tickling, but my curse, as well, because I can't share it with anyone. Except you guys. You guys I love.

 

[Beaunanza]

I'm not sure when I "confessed" to my gf that I was into feet and tickling. I just flat out told her, I think. She's open minded enough that she understood. Now, granted, she's not into it like I am, but she will accomodate me occasionally. I don't force the issue. She's understanding because she also has sexual quirks, as I'm sure most people do. I don't understand how people with our shared interest can go through relationships and not let their significant other know. I don't tell the world about my fetish, just my girlfriends. I try to bring it up early enough in the relationship so that if it is going to be a problem with her then I can just end it. No sense being unhappy and sexually frustrated in a relationship. Just remember to compromise once in a while.

 

[rysmike]

Speaking of compromise

Some time back, I was involved with a woman who was a bit older than I was, and she was a real life dominatrix. ( Capital D if you happen to be into that scene) She and I met first casualy, as friends, then found out we knew each other from an on-line chat group. She happend to be very active a few years before this in Chicago, but had fallen out of it due to circumstance.
We began a romantic relationship, and being a good boyfriend, I offered to play with her, as her slave. The catch was, I'd get to tickle her. At first, the idea didn't sit too well with her, so I just let it slide. I obliged her, but I was not a good bottom.Too much will power , or probably a lack of letting go. Either way, it went for a while untill Mae( or Misstress D'Mayhem, Chandra if you like) started getting curious. Soon, she found out she loved getting tickled and it made her very excited, as it did me.
Sadly, our relationship broke down when I have to leave the area. I have to admit, I miss it every day. She was he most intensly satisfying ticklee I have ever see/met/known.
I guess the whole point of this rambling was that I have opened up, and was fortunate enough to be well recieved. I think the trick is to pick your audience.
Good Luck

 

[maxamum_sumthin1]

*raises hand* I have, over here. I know its really silly and a bit odd, but I tend to think of my "intrests" as being what I call a "superhero's dilemma,"

OMG i fell exactly the same, that's how i always think of it! 😀 yea!

I've never relay confessed it to anyone out right...my Girlfriend eventually asked me jokingly about it and i told her all about it....for half an hour she thought i was joking...then she caught up and we've been fairly good with it ever since 🙂

My best friend guessed too and i explained some stuff...but always seems to forget the tickling part and remember the feet part..odd..oh well. 🙂

 

[luv2tikl]

I told my gf because I don't like hiding things in a relationship, and we were pretty close at the time so it was no big deal. She was totally understanding, and she's alright with me tickling her as well (no bondage or anything like that, just tickling for fun). I couldn't ask for a more understanding person ^^