Anyone in a happy relationship with no tickling?

[Matt_]

Not really looking for advice for my position; more curious about others and how you find it.

I'm in a good relationship with a wonderful person, who is just not ticklish and doesn't get this stuff. I'm already 'out' to her so that's no big deal, but I don't know if I can broach the possibility of tickling others, without causing a lot of hurt.

I try to be grateful for everything I have, but it's difficult not to crave this, I guess because since it's so intertwined with libido, which is kinda 'always on'.

As I say, very interested to hear the experiences of others.

 

[BBGuy5240]

During college, I was in a relationship with someone who was not ticklish at all. She said that throughout her entire life, she's just never been ticklish. But that opened the door for my bellybutton and foot fetish. With her not being ticklish, I was able to play with her bellybutton and feet without interruption. And she really grew into liking having both played with.

 

[Jpg8911]

Currently married to a vanilla person. Rarely indulges my kinks or fetishes. In all other aspects, we're a very happy and compatible couple. But it can be very hard for me

 

[Solestripper]

A happy relationship with no tickling ? I've been in too many (very long) relationships with no or far too occasional tickling to answer "yes". For me, I'd say not fully : it's twice been a source of frustration which insidiously dug a gap and affected (if not killed) desire (for both), even when some occasional compromises were found, such as feet massages or as occasional mild tickle sessions (only as a lee, for me, and with little enthusiasm from the ler). Well, if I try to look on the bright side of it, it opened my tickle range, through making me a switch...

 

[OatmealPie]

Yes. My partner has no issues with me finding a lee since he hates being tickled. I want to tickle another girl, anyway.

 

[AshleyC]

Yes. My partner has no issues with me finding a lee since he hates being tickled. I want to tickle another girl, anyway.

I’m sure he wouldn’t mind seeing that 🤪

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I'm in a happy relationship with no tickling. My wife isn't ticklish and I don't think she understands the fetish like we do