Are there any women who DON'T like f/m tickling

[indivision]

And if there are any, why don't you like it?

I really don't have a lot to say about this myself. I am mainly interested in what the women of the site think about this. I'm also not asking because I think you should have to justify your feelings toward the matter; once again, I'm just curious as to why you don't like it if you don't.

So...your thoughts, ladies?

 

[minerva]

If I watch a clip I would somehow want to be able to picture myself in the position of the 'lee - having a female doing the tickling doesn't do anything for me, therefore I don't care for F/M clips at all.

 

[tigress]

If I watch a clip I would somehow want to be able to picture myself in the position of the 'lee - having a female doing the tickling doesn't do anything for me, therefore I don't care for F/M clips at all.

Same here. Plus, being a lesbian, I'm not into seeing guys half or completely naked squirming around laughing.
Gimmie some f/f and I'm happy!

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Not for Me

Yea, f/m doesn't do it for me. I just don't fancy naked men in that position. I mean it's cool if that's what your into. To each their own.

 

[Mistress Aura]

I didn't care for it at all until just recently. I'm beginning to sway now for various reasons, but I can certainly remember why I didn't like it originally.

Strangely, I suppose, the majority of my subconscious is very traditional and perhaps even conservative. I did not want to see a man reduced to helplessness in that manner, it made me very uncomfortable. I preferred the male to be alpha, in a position of power and control, not necessarily to magnify what might be considered my weakness per se, but to put me closer and more in touch with my femaleness. There is nothing I love more than being and feeling like a woman, and I personally need a man in order to do so. (Yes, I understand that is horrendously incorrect politically these days, but I am who I am.) For a male to be the bottom, or the 'lee, takes away his power and his control, thereby reducing my own feelings of femininity.

Again, that's until recently. I find I am slowly being seduced by the 'Ler Side; I'm finally beginning to understand that to offer a man what pleases him and what he feels he needs the most doesn't make me less of a woman, it makes me more of one. 😉

Mistress Aura

 

[chicago]

I'm a 'lee. Strict 'lee. Not even the thought of being a switch sounds appealing.

For me, tickling is more about the psychological aspects, the power exchange, and since I like being dominated, the thought that my 'ler could be so easily dominated, or worse, liked it, would ruin the whole situation for me.

 

[SlaverTickler]

I'm a 'lee. Strict 'lee. Not even the thought of being a switch sounds appealing.

For me, tickling is more about the psychological aspects, the power exchange, and since I like being dominated, the thought that my 'ler could be so easily dominated, or worse, liked it, would ruin the whole situation for me.

What if the guy is a strict Lee, then how do you feel about the vid.

 

[chicago]

What if the guy is a strict Lee, then how do you feel about the vid.

What vid? I was just answering the original question.

 

[milagros317]

As the responses have shown, it is sad but true that many women don't like F/m tickling.

Fortunately, it is also true that many women love it. 😀

 

[Iwant2Btickled]

I didn't care for it at all until just recently. I'm beginning to sway now for various reasons, but I can certainly remember why I didn't like it originally.

Strangely, I suppose, the majority of my subconscious is very traditional and perhaps even conservative. I did not want to see a man reduced to helplessness in that manner, it made me very uncomfortable. I preferred the male to be alpha, in a position of power and control, not necessarily to magnify what might be considered my weakness per se, but to put me closer and more in touch with my femaleness. There is nothing I love more than being and feeling like a woman, and I personally need a man in order to do so. (Yes, I understand that is horrendously incorrect politically these days, but I am who I am.) For a male to be the bottom, or the 'lee, takes away his power and his control, thereby reducing my own feelings of femininity.

Again, that's until recently. I find I am slowly being seduced by the 'Ler Side; I'm finally beginning to understand that to offer a man what pleases him and what he feels he needs the most doesn't make me less of a woman, it makes me more of one. 😉

Mistress Aura

Aura,
Its amazing how much we are alike in that statement. I too Love love love to feel female and have the male in charge in those situations, but I am finding that the part of me that loves that, also would want to give him the same pleasure he is giving me if he should so desire that. I love the feeling of being able to make him as crazy as he makes me. I think of it as a sort of thank you.. i guess...there are men out there that enjoy switching the role for a little bit. I don't know that I'd want to be strictly the Ler... I need that feeling of being overwhelmed and seduced too much to always be the seducer...but sometimes i think it would be great fun...

 

[Mistress Aura]

Aura,
Its amazing how much we are alike in that statement. I too Love love love to feel female and have the male in charge in those situations, but I am finding that the part of me that loves that, also would want to give him the same pleasure he is giving me if he should so desire that. I love the feeling of being able to make him as crazy as he makes me. I think of it as a sort of thank you.. i guess...there are men out there that enjoy switching the role for a little bit. I don't know that I'd want to be strictly the Ler... I need that feeling of being overwhelmed and seduced too much to always be the seducer...but sometimes i think it would be great fun...

😀 It's quite nice to know that I've not been branded a pariah for not just needing but preferring a man to take alpha position in most cases; I was afraid I would get blow-torched for stating it, or perhaps even be mowed down in a hail of gunfire by the N.O.W. stormtroopers... LOL

Although I still maintain my "Resident Voyeur" title, I am finding more and more attraction to some of the f/m scenarios now...the lure grows.

Mistress Aura

 

[metroguy2k4]

I think there are very few women who are naturally dominant. As a male 'lee, and as just an all around sub, I find this unfortunate. It's true that many women who are not naturally dominant often try to fill the role, but they often end up trying a bit too hard and the result can be unpleasant. The naturally dominant woman though (think Angelina Jolie in nearly all of her roles) is a rare find, and a treasured one. Then again, she would probably say the same thing about we naturally submissive males.

 

[tickledorange]

For some reason, this is the only type of tickling I can't seem to bring myself to liking or trying. To think of the guys I know, and think of them being tied and tickled somehow, it just doesn't compute with me.

 

[Sammi-chan]

I don't care for */m material, either. For pretty much the same reasons listed before. I'm a total lee, so if I can't sympathize with the lee in whatever material I'm looking at, then it doesn't do anything for me. Heck, it's not even really appealling to tickle my male roommate whenever he gets me. Granted, a lot of that is because that might make him stop. 😉

 

[Mistress Aura]

the really sad thing is that some big F/M fans like milagros saying "Many Women"
in fact 5 or 4 women have posted on this thread is that too many(with all respect to them and there opinions),
the real deal 4 me is that 99.99999999999999% of real earth women loves to tickle
guys and girls(loves to ler) the opposite can't be found except on forums like this.
the real life is different guys that's what i encountered my whole life i rarely find a guy who like to tickle and thinks about ticking,
1st some idiots tries to convince us that the natural thing is a man tickling a woman and saying coochie coo and shitty other things then people saying that many women don't like F/M!!!!
this makes this forum so fake and unreal 4 me and other F/M fans that's the sad thing 4 me bec. in real life all i see is F/F and F/M,
guys there r many F/M tickling fans from both genders even on these forum,
and whenever i go away from this forum i found more and more of F/M tickling fans and situations so don't try to fool ur selves with things that's not close to truth!!!!

Mistress Aura

 

[scorpionldr]

somewhat.....in most cases i like to see women being tickled......but on occasion i'll play a video a few times if i'm feeling somewhat submissive....i'd say it's like 60% (M/f, F/F) and 40% (f/m)