Asking a question to the women on this website

[Ita24]

I have brought this up before, but the more I search through this site, the more I feel like I don't belong. I love ticking in a playful manner and it can be used as a fun activity for couples. I am not a fan of using tickling as a domination, humiliation, overtly sexual act. I read the stories in here, see all the links to pictures and videos of women with their tits flopping all around. The vibe I get is that men dominate this site and a lot of the content honestly makes me a little uncomfortable, and I'm a guy! My question is how many women are actually in here, and f that stuff makes you all uncomfortable as well? I'd love to find a site to talk to a woman that likes to have playful tickling conversations but I don't know if a site like that exists.

 

[CapturedDoll]

This site has been around a very long time now. And, many members take time off from here for various reasons. You are NOT alone. People are living their lives outside of here. Or are just visiting different sections. I've been coming here since it started. And before that A.S.F.T. But- For me its only since 2014 that I decided to give it my all here and truly be a part of this forum and Community. And not just here. Fetlife, Tumblr, even Soundcloud for a home for the audios I made.

I, just in passing sitting in the Main room of the chat room, hear of plenty of people just wanting playful tickling rather than torture tickling/ or revenge, sadistic, etc. I myself could totally be playful in real life and not get sexual. I WANT to live out my more extreme tickling fantasies but that will hopefully happen in the future at events. I'm not sure if they will ever be sexual... but they can be in my fantasies. Of which I go crazy in that regard. It's a hardcore/ tickle sexualpalooza in my fantasies. LOL But will that translate to real life? Maybe to a degree but again getting sexual... Idk. That's pretty doubtful considering I'm in a relationship but who knows. My BF is down for playing with women. So... we'll see. People think I'm the most extreme person because thats usually what I show them through my creativities. Ultimately, am I? No. Not always. I'm pretty open for lots of various tickling scenarios. But, if you want content with a hardcore female Tickle Villain... I'm your woman.

So, online I enjoy tickling fantasies in more extreme situations. Whether its in the stories I write or... whatever. At the end of the day people are living out their fantasies through their own fantasies or work. And what generates them money.

But, you also have to remember, people stick to the areas of the forum that they enjoy the most. Some just go the chat room. Some just go to the stories section. Some just go to the celebrities section. A lot of people don't ever even come to THIS particular section. A lot of people just lurk and remain in the shadows. Only coming out when they find someone who peeked their interest. So, you have to really be willing to learn patience here. And post more about various topics to engage the people you will ultimately find. Aka be well rounded enough to exploring more and settling in here. There ARE other sites but as far as I know... the TMF is still the most popular and most visited. There are men here who are looking for a woman... and have yet to find someone. Thats nearly 2 decades! So... let's talk about patience...

So... why would you think anything should come easily here for you or anyone else? I wish it could be easy for you and everyone... but... that is just not the case sadly.

I'm sad you still feel you are all alone. And your feelings are valid. But you are not using this place to its full use. I think what would help is maybe to attempt writing a story yourself.... and see whom is drawn to reading your work. Also you could make a request and ask for the specific content you are trying to find in the appropriate sections of the forum. The authors and Producers will be more than happy to direct you to their work. Darth Sidious already has in your last post about this very same topic. Matter of fact if you are looking for playful tickling I believe Darth Sidious is your man for content. But, he could answer that as could others far better than I. And he has...

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?291891-My-tickling-dilemma&p=4279759#post4279759

If you are looking for women to talk to... you will find them here... it's just going to take time. And not just a month in most cases. You need to show women your personality. This is mostly a very shy crowd. And you are not going to get messaged based off of 14 posts... most of which you are complaining. Thats not attractive to women. Just be you... show who you are through your posts. Your opinions, your feelings, your limits, your interests... and when you get to a post count like mine... THEN reevalutate your situation and whether you should leave of not. Until then... get comfortable. This can be fun, if you go into it with less expectations, and more of a let's see what happens mentality. 🙂

"You can't always get what you want... but if you try sometimes... you just might find... you get what you need". ~Rolling Stones

 

[CapturedDoll]

And btw... you may find the women of your dreams here. Many times over. You could match up perfectly. That doesn't mean she'll look at you in the same way. She could be in a realtionship. She could be offline for months at a clip. She could have health issues. So... take your time... learn patience... and just try to enjoy your time here. The issues here are most of the same issues anywhere in meeting women. So... what else can be said. There are no easy answers for anyone in the dating arena.

 

[Wade]

Not a woman, and I'm more into the */M angle, but just wanted to chime in and say I'm totally with you. The playful affectionate stuff is always my preference as well. (I've got a few stories in the true-stuff section, many of which are along these lines.) . I'm confident there are women on here with similar predlections.

 

[rdhd]

CD has many good points. Read them. Then read them again. And read them a third time. Let her points sink in. I'm gonna leave my comments at that.

Well, CD - that Rolling Stones lyric - good one!

 

[ticklerokla]

I'm with the OP on this as I seek the same thing. humiliation, domination, things like that dont have a place in my mind. For me it must be a mutual enjoyed activity. An issue I've had with other friend finder style sites is that whats in my head is not necessarily in their heads. Many use it as a short ramp up to full on sex. me on the other hand, I have wondered lately if i'm not borderline asexual, I feel almost repulsed at the idea of sex with someone I haven't known for a long long time. Sex and tickling reside in separate places in my psyche and though it might be a wonderful thing someday if it works out, I would easily take just tickling out of the two if i had to choose one.
(i apologize for capitalization/punctuation/spelling mistakes, currently resisting falling into a pit of migraine)

 

[ElFewja]

OP: Everyone is welcome here, just be aware that tickling is multi-faceted. As said earlier, most artists/producers have their own style and you just need to find one or a few that you like, then follow them. You're not alone in enjoying playful more than sadistic. In real life I much more enjoy a playful kind of tickling, with light bondage at times. I do enjoy watching harder tickling, but after a point -- if the lee is visible upset or clearly not enjoying it -- I find that I can't enjoy the work anymore. I do think it is more difficult to produce content that appears playful. I would try Addie Juniper's stuff, I think its under the name Tickle Chicks.

 

[Coda]

Ita24 – it sounds like the nature of your interest is perfectly appropriate for the forum. You're not out of place here at all, in my opinion.

 

[Need/Tickle/Tor]

I'm a female. I haven't been on this site very long. It does seem that there are more male ticklers than female ticklers.