Asking girls to be in restraints and tickled?

[Louis64]

Hi, I’m new here, and I know the platform is for anyone who has a tickle fetish which is one of my fetishes, but another one of mine is I have a thing for seeing girls in crop tops. I get turned on when I see girls in crop tops, but I get even more turned on when girls are in crop tops or bikinis and tickled, I’ve seen videos of that, but I kinda would like to try it myself. Like ask a girl if she would be put in restraints like in this picture, and I tickle her, another thing I would like to do while the girl is restrained would be to finger her belly button because I have a thing for girls belly buttons and tickle her belly button with a paintbrush by inserting it into her belly button and twisting/twirling the paintbrush in her belly button having the bristles of the paintbrush tickle her belly button. I would like to ask a girl to do a sexual activity like what I was talking about, but I don’t know how to do that without seeming creepy, I mean I know I should ask first and won’t force it if she isn’t comfortable with that, I guess this could be the platform to meet a girl in person, but what about internet safety rules? I also use Fet which is like a dating app for anyone with fetishes, or maybe meet girls at a club or something.

 

[SoleMates]

If you have to ask, you're not ready.

By that, I mean it's a pretty complex topic and not really something anyone here can give you a step-by-step cheat code for. If you really need help approaching the topic, I'd start with maybe hiring an escort or booking a session with a pro or fetish model that does such things so that you can get comfortable with the topic with someone who is guaranteed to not judge you (outwardly, that is) before moving on to people in your own life.

I may sound harsh here, but to be blunt... if the topic would be awkward with someone you know, there's probably a reason for that that would be better not left ignored.

 

[WickedTouch]

If you have to ask, you're not ready.

By that, I mean it's a pretty complex topic and not really something anyone here can give you a step-by-step cheat code for. If you really need help approaching the topic, I'd start with maybe hiring an escort or booking a session with a pro or fetish model that does such things so that you can get comfortable with the topic with someone who is guaranteed to not judge you (outwardly, that is) before moving on to people in your own life.

I may sound harsh here, but to be blunt... if the topic would be awkward with someone you know, there's probably a reason for that that would be better not left ignored.

I agree with this. If social skills or communication are more the problem, work on those independently first. If it is more only to do with the topic of tickling, it can be so much of a person-to-person basis thing that it's nearly impossible to give further advice I'd feel confident in. There are no silver bullets.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I’ve never ask a girl if I can tie her up while I’m tickling her. I’d like for her to feel free and comfortable. I have a fear of myself being restrained.