BBWs : Easy to find play partners?

[luvtoez_1982]

I have heard from women that at least in the dating world, men flock towards the 'model type'. Is this true in finding a tickling partner as well? I would think that just the fact that you are a woman would send hoards of men flocking your way.

so bbws

1. do you think that in the dating world, some men (or men in general) flock to the model type

2. do you find it easy or difficult to find a play partner in the tickling community?

3. do you live in IA ( ) 😛😛

I ask because bbws rock! And because I'm curious.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

1.) Some men are gonna flock to any group of women. Some love blondes, some love bbws, some love asians -- so yeah, I notice some men flocking to "model-esque" girls, but no more than some of them flock to any other group, bbws included.

2.) I've yet to feel like I don't get my fair share of tickle-attention no matter what other gorgeous female bodies I might be surrounded by (which are quite a few - my friends here are such hotties )

3.) No.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Thats what's great about this fetish. There's rarely any judging of a person.


Just their feet.

 

[chicago]

I'm not a bbw, but I'm no model either.

That said, different guys are attracted to different things. Some like feet, some like asses, some like tits, some like asians, red-heads, midgets. Whatever.

As a whole, I think guys pay more attention to proportions of curves and such than actual size, but at any rate, I've never had a problem finding a partner or boyfriend.

 

[playgirl]

in general, my experience is that outside the mainstream, people are less concerned with buying into mainstream or commercialized images of people, places and things. i know that fat chicks enjoy at least our fair share of attention in the kinky/fetish world, of which i would include tickling. since entering the kinky world, i haven't had any trouble finding men who were not only okay with fat chicks, but actually prefer fat chicks, both as dating and play partners. i hope to have as little problem finding tickling partners. thinking about it though, it does seem that fat chicks are probably underrepresented in the video clips i see posted on tmf. is that a reflection of the preferences of the tickling community? i don't know.

although i don't have enough experience in the tickling community to really answer these questions accurately, as a fat chick i want to follow this thread, so i need to respond to keep it from getting lost.

while IA may consider itself the MA of the west, i actually live in MA, so sorry... 🙂

 

[luvtoez_1982]

Thanks for all the replies! All very interesting views.

Hey Skipidedoda! - I liked your first point. Maybe personality plays into finding partners in tmf moreso than just in general? Obviously it's not all that a guy/chick looks at, but I like to think that a person with a great personality will be recognized for it.

Hey Crystal! - I'm sure 9 times out of 10 (maybe even 10/10) that's pretty accurate. I know this question has been beaten to death, but you say tmf men judge women by their feet. what do tmf women judge men by?

Thanks for responding Annie - well stated. and not to hijack my own thread, but I have always wondered about lip rings... seems like it would KILL to put one in. did it?

good evening playgirl! - Thanks for your response as well. IA is the MA of the west?!?! howso?? and is that a compliment or a slam??

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Hey Crystal! - I'm sure 9 times out of 10 (maybe even 10/10) that's pretty accurate. I know this question has been beaten to death, but you say tmf men judge women by their feet. what do tmf women judge men by?

The size of their penises, of course.

 

[chicago]

My lip hurt more as it was healing after I got it done, than it did when I actually got it pierced. I have to take it out for work, and I put it back in afterwards. It doesn't hurt at all.

 

[goddess_nemesis]

1. do you think that in the dating world, some men (or men in general) flock to the model type

I wouldn't say they flock to the model type. I think most men prefer a woman with some meat on their bones. But overall everyone have different preferences and find different things attractive.

2. do you find it easy or difficult to find a play partner in the tickling community?

I'm a BBW and so far I haven't had too much difficulty finding a play partner. The only difficulty is finding someone nearby.

3. do you live in IA ( ) 😛😛

I live in south central Minnesota. Iowa's just a few hours away. 😀
PM if you wanna chat some more. 😛

 

[Artoo]

The size of their penises, of course.

Damnit! My three and a half inches simply aren't welcome here! 😈

 

[kis123]

1. do you think that in the dating world, some men (or men in general) flock to the model type

Based on societal conditioning, I think so to a certain degree. I've found out over the years, they might want a size 2 on their arm, but some of them want me in their bedroom!

2. do you find it easy or difficult to find a play partner in the tickling community?

I'm a big girl......a really big girl! However, I've never had problems finding men to do anything in my life with. As soon as I dealt with my self-worth and esteem issues, I can't keep them away. Really....seriously! I'm just at a place right now where being by myself is best.

3. do you live in IA ( ) 😛😛

Nope......nowhere near ya' unfortunately.

I ask because bbws rock! And because I'm curious.

Thank you.......I love admirers!

 

[kis123]

Damnit! My three and a half inches simply aren't welcome here! 😈

Geez Artoo! I know you were joking, but that did nothing at all for my imagination!

 

[rhiannon]

I've just seen a documentation on TV that beauty can be scientifically measured. The perfect body shape would be if you get 0,7 when you divide the measurements of your waist by the measurements of your hips. It's about proportions obviously, not size.

In scientific studies, usually a certain type of woman is preferred, most men go for that certain type, and it is just a genetic thing.

Of course when it comes to something like relationships and also the options the person has, it looks totally different. What turns head and what gets married are two different things.

 

[playgirl]

good evening playgirl! - Thanks for your response as well. IA is the MA of the west?!?! howso?? and is that a compliment or a slam??

since IA now has gay marriage, i've heard the state referred to, perhaps self referentially, as the MA of the west. total compliment and win!!!