Being tickled doesn't tickle? Help!

[nymphlee211]

hello kids, haven't been on here in quite a while, but i need some advice!!

i usually don't get the opportunity to get full out tickle tortured, especially in a sexual setting. last night i finally had that, had someone who was willing to tickle me, and did. and this always seems to happen when i know it's coming....i tense up and it doesn't tickle.

even being held down and unable to move it doesn't tickle. if i cover my eyes with something so maybe there's an element of surprise it doesn't tickle. even had him give me an oil massage before, thought maybe it'd loosen my muscles up. nothing. i don't know what else to try but it is BEYOND frustrating because i KNOW i'm ticklish. close friends do it and it works...but when i finally get the opportunity to get what i want...nothing.

any ideas?

 

[3xPIN]

Tell this person you want to be tickled but not now. Let him surprise you. But it may stop after a few minutes. And if tensing up is the problem, maybe getting loose via a little booze could help ( i realize you are underage so this may not be for you). Also, post sex tickles might work, if you cum he might get you in the afterglow and you may be more sensitive. When I would go down on girls they were more sensitive afterwords. Like tickle Spanish fly.

 

[11225]

I'm pretty sure some of the people are gonna give info about the nervous system...and the point where they might say that if you have been tickled too often without any breaks you'll become less ticklish than before.

And honestly, I'm with that theory, unless for some reason you're body is well used to being tickled in anyway, even if you have not had that session often...or just the fact that the nervous system is a little off.

Okay, I probably got you more confused than before...so I'll say this....I'm sure there are ways to be ticklish...so don't give up hope.

 

[tehalienfetus]

I occasionally have this problem as well, however, only on my mid-body. (Ribs, stomach, hips.) I'm glad I'm not alone, though! Hopefully some ideas will pop up in this thread :]

 

[blackcat_mrau]

maybe it depends on the person? I know it works for me, If I don't trust/like the tickler it doesn't tickle, it just annoys me, I don't know how close you are with your ler. maybe it is the same with you, like it is all in your head? or try some fantasy, let him cover your eyes and imagine that it is some other person, some people do it while their having sex why not try it with tickling 😉?

 

[MrTicklefeet1]

One model I was with for a tickle shoot told me sadly up front that she wasn't ticklish on her feet. I had to try it out for myself, and boy did she dance and sing. I said "I thought you said you wern't ticklish on your feet?" She replied, "You have the touch."
Does seem to make the thing more complicated than nessesary. I am ticklish, but some people just couldn't get anything going. Sometimes it just be's that way.

 

[tickle_fan031]

I would agree with black cat. I think it does depend on the person. The closer i am to someone the more easily they are able to tickle me. My best mate from college has the magic touch with me- i didnt think i was ticklish anymore until i met her. Then the other tickle experiences i've had before when i've not been close to the ler-i've felt that it doesn't tickle as much as i'd hoped-sense of awkwardness so the tickling isn't as fun. But i've been luckily enough for it to tickle-but just not tick all the boxes. 🙁
How about trying different tickling techniques?rough tickling doesn't work on me-it's just annoying and feels awkward-whereas light tickling works better-helps me to relax.
Whatever you try,good luck 🙂 and keep trying - i'm sure you'll find the way soon enough

 

[blackmagicjack1]

You know I was just going to say have a hot bath.

 

[timothy]

I think you may need more than just 1 ler. Many lers may excite you. You may want to tell your ler to tickle you with extremely light and slow caresses.

 

[11225]

Coming from all those idea...I think I have one in mind....but I'm afraid I can't say it. XD

 

[nymphlee211]

I always thought in the back of my mind the fact that it kind of...is forced upon the ler is why it doesn't work. I try to plan it because it never happens and then I get so worked up I get nervous and no good.

Makes sense...I just don't know how to get someone I trust enough to do it without it being weird 😛

^ PLEASE share your idea, nothing could be bad at this point 😀

 

[timothy]

To get someone who can read your mind hard. To get someone who only think of pleasuring you without thinking of return, it's so much harder. This is what you need.
Sorry I am at the other side of the Globe........... My GFs doesn't want me to stop!

 

[likeasong1]

Then try letting the tying up of you be their idea. If the inclination strikes them to tie you up, then maybe you'll be able to enjoy it more.

I'm guessing though. I can't say for certain.

 

[Rox_My_Sox1]

I think a major part is you need to be sexually ATTRACTED to the tickler and the tickler needs to be equally turned on (if not more so) by YOU! That's just in my case though...I don't know if it applies to you or not.

 

[tehalienfetus]

I think a major part is you need to be sexually ATTRACTED to the tickler and the tickler needs to be equally turned on (if not more so) by YOU! That's just in my case though...I don't know if it applies to you or not.

This.

This was referenced in a video, that has been posted here before: http://www.tr.tickletheater.com/showthread.php?t=38823 Check out the video explaining this :]