Bold or just weird?

[BrightEyes1082]

It depends on how attractive I found him, and whether or not he
came off as creepy. It may not be fair, but it's true that when
someone is more attractive, he or she can get away with more.
I have had a couple of guys who I barely knew start tickling me
without asking, and I just went with it (if my owner didn't know
them, or wasn't okay with it, that would be a whole different story,
but for the purposes of this question I'm not factoring it in).

I know we teach "ask before touching," so I'm not advocating doing
this type of thing at all, but the hard truth is that if I found the guy
attractive, and was not creeped out by his approach, I would likely
flirt back.

 

[primetime]

That's indeed fascinating! If it was just a compliment, no matter about what, I wouldn't even care if the guy was not attractive - compliments are good for the soul. 😉

But let me ask you, when you put in "purse", what was the additional comment? 🙂 "Massage" I guess wouldn't work! 🙂

When I put in the word purse, I did get a weird look. 🙂 I was just adding whatever I could in there. It did provide a good chuckle. I asked a few more women that today and all of them said they wouldn't mind being asked that type of a question.

Like Brighteyes said, attractive guys can probably get away with a little more stuff because well, they're attractive. I think it does have to do with the approach. You can ask a question like that without sounding creepy, if you come at them not sounding creepy. Correct me if I am wrong ladies, but if a guy is engaging in a good conversation with you (not in the initial approach), and you find him mildly/ok/a lot attractive, if somehow he can ask the "are you ticklish question" during the progression of the conversation, you would not be creeped out. I think if he kept pursuing the ticklish questions, then my guess is you would be a little leery. Am I right?

 

[divine12]

Wow--lots of deep analyzing in regards to the question lol.

If I were subject to this scenario, level of attractiveness might play a small part in my reaction. My reaction would also depend on how the male approached me. If I felt comfortable with his approach, I would more than likely react by blushing, giggling, and responding with a coy answer. As long as there was no touch involved, I don't think I'd feel uncomfortable at all, lol. I think that would be quite a sexy little encounter. 😉

If he attempted to tickle, I would presumably pull away and explain that we don't know each other, and that I'd be willing to get to know him before any tickling ensued lol.

 

[rhiannon]

Correct me if I am wrong ladies, but if a guy is engaging in a good conversation with you (not in the initial approach), and you find him mildly/ok/a lot attractive, if somehow he can ask the "are you ticklish question" during the progression of the conversation, you would not be creeped out. I think if he kept pursuing the ticklish questions, then my guess is you would be a little leery. Am I right?

Absolutely right.

 

[divine12]

Definitely weird as fuck!!!!

lol I don't think it's weird at all! If an attractive man walks over and asks you that... I mean, how hot is that? lol

 

[tickmankyle1]

If it was a girl doing that same thing to a guy. The first thing I would thi k ok where are the hidden camera's. If in my home town I would be life did they see my profile on fetlife, cause a guy a work with found me on there. I would have to get to know her first before I would just tickle her. In the end if it worked out bonus

 

[No_Style]

that'd be weird

 

[c7_assassin]

"Nice tits. May I motorboat them?"

There are better ways of expressing your interest.

 

[P[a]pi]

Hey fellas, pose the question to you. If a very attractive woman came up to you and said, "Hey there, do you like to tickle?" what would you say? Would you walk away or answer the question?

I would answer the question honestly with a smile, and use the opportunity to ask her similar questions.


divine - Your way of thinking gives men hope haha. I'm not female, but to me your answer is correct haha. Thanks for sharing.

 

[Mane'o]

to ask about tickling as the very first words to a complete stranger is weird. Probably results in lots of cold stares or "get lost" responses. To ask it after the ice has been broken more conventionally and the conversation is proceeding smoothly is less weird and could lead to some interesting discussion. I've used the latter approach and had many an interesting tickle talk with the opposite sex. I've not tried the former as i prefer not getting a knee in the groin.