Bratty Ticklee

[Doriansenigma]

This sort of falls into the realm of “fiery” or “tough”.But I’ve always wondered why I’ve been attracted to women that have very stubborn and bratty streak as much as it can exasperate me at times. It occurred to me one day; that tickling them senseless as “punishment” for their brattiness or if they mouth off to invite more tickling it drives me wild.

 

[WickedTouch]

You and me both...you and me both... It just seems like it fits as the perfect attitude adjustment method 😁.

 

[Enasgargaliths]

My girlfriend is like that hahah. Dm me and i can share some pictures or answer questions about her

 

[LerLee]

That is me and my wife. She can be mouthy and a complete brat. She knows that when she has an attitude I will tickle her. She is one of the most ticklish people I have ever met but refuses to admit that she is ticklish.

Last week she said, you like it when I misbehave don’t you? Because when I’m bad you get to tickle me.

I’ve tickled her a lot over the past few days. Mostly feet, but sides, ribs, hipbones, butt, and underarms as well. I don’t like to linger in one spot for too long. It’s better if she doesn’t know where I’m going to tickler her.

 

[Lee Ishler]

Seems like "brat" is a word that comes up a lot with tickling, and my guess is there's a new meaning to it, as opposed to a little kid being a "spoiled brat." Sounds like a brat would make a good ler.

What about bratwurst? I've eaten that before, it's pretty good!

 

[U.N.Owen]

I'd personally say that what people are mainly describing is a playful mock brattiness from people who are okay with getting "punished." And that is a great scenario.

I myself wouldn't want to tickle someone who's authentically a jerk, because I can't imagine satisfying play with someone I genuinely didn't like.

 

[LerLee]

I'd personally say that what people are mainly describing is a playful mock brattiness from people who are okay with getting "punished." And that is a great scenario.

I myself wouldn't want to tickle someone who's authentically a jerk, because I can't imagine satisfying play with someone I genuinely didn't like.

This is my wife. I sometimes think she wants me to tickle her and will act like a brat to get a good tickle. I love how ticklish she is!

 

[Madame_T]

This sort of falls into the realm of “fiery” or “tough”.But I’ve always wondered why I’ve been attracted to women that have very stubborn and bratty streak as much as it can exasperate me at times. It occurred to me one day; that tickling them senseless as “punishment” for their brattiness or if they mouth off to invite more tickling it drives me wild.

Yes, and the best part is when they break instantly upon being tickled. The brattier they are, the harder they seem to fall 😏

 

[WickedTouch]

Seems like "brat" is a word that comes up a lot with tickling, and my guess is there's a new meaning to it, as opposed to a little kid being a "spoiled brat." Sounds like a brat would make a good ler.

It's an identity/persona/role term from the greater kink/BDSM world.

What about bratwurst? I've eaten that before, it's pretty good!

Ha! Just to be clear, I find both types of brats to be enticing and delicious...One more with mustard, and the other more with rope! 😂

 

[Lee Ishler]

It's an identity/persona/role term from the greater kink/BDSM world.


Ha! Just to be clear, I find both types of brats to be enticing and delicious...One more with mustard, and the other more with rope! 😂

OK, I knew it was something like that...I wouldn't know because even though I'm into tickling, I'm not up on the kink/BDSM scene, and the lingo. In fact, I never learned what "vanilla" meant until recently...I made a joke about it here once, in relation to ice cream, and someone got mad... I admit it wasn't that funny... 🙄

 

[WickedTouch]

OK, I knew it was something like that...I wouldn't know because even though I'm into tickling, I'm not up on the kink/BDSM scene, and the lingo. In fact, I never learned what "vanilla" meant until recently...I made a joke about it here once, in relation to ice cream, and someone got mad... I admit it wasn't that funny... 🙄

Yeah, there's so many (admittedly very subjective) terms and a lot of people can be very defensive or reactionary, so it can feel like dodging landmines sometimes. But your intentions were pure and that's all that matters. While it's not a perfect resource, I've found FetLife's "Kinktionary" very helpful when I feel outside of my circle of kink competence. Here's their page for brat in case you or anyone else is interested: https://fetlife.com/kinktionary/roles/brat-aitlg

 

[Lee Ishler]

Yeah, there's so many (admittedly very subjective) terms and a lot of people can be very defensive or reactionary, so it can feel like dodging landmines sometimes. But your intentions were pure and that's all that matters. While it's not a perfect resource, I've found FetLife's "Kinktionary" very helpful when I feel outside of my circle of kink competence. Here's their page for brat in case you or anyone else is interested: https://fetlife.com/kinktionary/roles/brat-aitlg

Thanks for that, I'll look at it. I had an account on Fetlife a long time ago but left. It seemed hard to find anyone, but I should've given it more time. Also I felt kinda nervous there. Seemed there were people into tickling, but they were into serious S&M too, and I'm not. But at least now I know what to expect. So I may go back, and see if there's any sensuous ticklers there, as opposed to the ones into pain... 😱

 

[WickedTouch]

Thanks for that, I'll look at it. I had an account on Fetlife a long time ago but left. It seemed hard to find anyone, but I should've given it more time. Also I felt kinda nervous there. Seemed there were people into tickling, but they were into serious S&M too, and I'm not. But at least now I know what to expect. So I may go back, and see if there's any sensuous ticklers there, as opposed to the ones into pain... 😱

You're welcome 🙂 Yeah, connecting with people on FL that you don't already know in some way is not usually a clean and easy process. By their own admission, FetLife is not intended as a dating site or similar, and is more of a stay-in-touch site (think kinky Facebook). It's intentionally difficult to find people you don't already know at some level already. I'm mostly just recommending their Kinktionary to explore roles and identities (like the brat one). Reading over them can be a great exercise in self-exploration.

 

[Lee Ishler]

You're welcome 🙂 Yeah, connecting with people on FL that you don't already know in some way is not usually a clean and easy process. By their own admission, FetLife is not intended as a dating site or similar, and is more of a stay-in-touch site (think kinky Facebook). It's intentionally difficult to find people you don't already know at some level already. I'm mostly just recommending their Kinktionary to explore roles and identities (like the brat one). Reading over them can be a great exercise in self-exploration.

Yes I get it, good to know that stuff. As for FetLife being more a stay in touch site for people you already know, I think the TMF is the same, from what I've seen here in the forum and the chatroom. Of course you need to start somewhere. But I think others are way better at breaking the ice than me, and I should know because I have the same issue in everyday life.

 

[Wade]

I'm not well acquainted with the BDSM scene or its conventions either. But someone on another thread once identified the dynamic that exists between me and my friend Sarah, who tickles me periodically, as a brat/brat tamer relationship, which I'll admit rings true-ish.