Breaking in my new 'lee / gf

[duck171]

Refer to my updated post on page 2...

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

If she really doesn't like it you shouldn't tickle her.

 

[Total_Tickler]

If she really doesn't like it you shouldn't tickle her.

Agree'd.

If she doesn't like it at all or doesn't even have a future interest in it, it's best to stop making her feel uncomfortable with it.

 

[duck171]

Perhaps, I'm not forcing anything so we will see if she comes around, most of them have in the past. Thanks for the comments

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

I don't think that's a good idea but okay

 

[Raytheon]

gf wont let me anywhere near her as she hates it. I compromised and asked if she wanted to tickle me lol now shes a full blown ler :wub
Maybe she'd love to get you?

 

[rhiannon]

The way you talk about it makes me uncomfortable! She says she hates it, and yet you want to "break" her in! Do you respect her at all? Does she mean anything to you? Or is the just an object you can force your desires on? What about HER wishes?

 

[GoldenTXT]

There has to be a way.

 

[Slaver123]

Have you forgotten the First Commandment? "ALL women MUST be TIED and TICKLED"!

Shame on you for thinking otherwise! Muwahahahahaha.....😉

 

[rhiannon]

Be glad your girlfriend isn't into ballbusting! How would you feel if she tried to break you in so you like that?

 

[MeatyBreastedDullness]

Be glad your girlfriend isn't into ballbusting! How would you feel if she tried to break you in so you like that?

You made my testicles run and hide 😱


As to the OP , I agree it doesnt sound like you treat her as your gf it sounds more like you are only concerned with one thing and that is establishing sexual dominance over her . Bottom line ... she doesnt like to be tickled and you won't change that and the more you try the more you will drive her away until she ends up breaking up with you because she feels uncomfortable . If you really like this girl the tickling aspect should not matter but if all you are looking for is a tickle partner and have no real feelings for this girl then you should do the proper thing and break up with her and not lead her on .

 

[Total_Tickler]

You made my testicles run and hide 😱


As to the OP , I agree it doesnt sound like you treat her as your gf it sounds more like you are only concerned with one thing and that is establishing sexual dominance over her . Bottom line ... she doesnt like to be tickled and you won't change that and the more you try the more you will drive her away until she ends up breaking up with you because she feels uncomfortable . If you really like this girl the tickling aspect should not matter but if all you are looking for is a tickle partner and have no real feelings for this girl then you should do the proper thing and break up with her and not lead her on .

Amen Amen Amen!

Couldn't have said it better myself even if I tried to.

 

[rhiannon]

You made my testicles run and hide 😱


As to the OP , I agree it doesnt sound like you treat her as your gf it sounds more like you are only concerned with one thing and that is establishing sexual dominance over her . Bottom line ... she doesnt like to be tickled and you won't change that and the more you try the more you will drive her away until she ends up breaking up with you because she feels uncomfortable . If you really like this girl the tickling aspect should not matter but if all you are looking for is a tickle partner and have no real feelings for this girl then you should do the proper thing and break up with her and not lead her on .

Perfect! Thank you!
Oh, and I hope your testicles will come back 😉

 

[melanie2]

I have to agree with the majority here..if you really care about her, you will respect her wishes..she doesn't like tickling..there must be a reason she does not..it's probably torture for her, and not in a good way..lookit me..i've been married to a non tickler for thirty one years..if all i had wanted from him was a tickle ler, i'm afraid our marriage wouldn't have lasted..relationships, in order to succeed..must have mutual respect..my husband is not into tickling..and i'm ok with that..i don't try to "break" him in by attacking him and tickling him to get him to retaliate..he hates being tickled..and i respect that..a successful relationship is based on many different interests..not focused primarily on your needs..

 

[duck171]

I think I did get em busted with the harsh comments here. I'm not a pig, of course I like her for who she is and that she makes me happy. She just asked if I had fetishes and I told her. She said she didn't know if she could handle it but would try. She didn't like it and I said that was fine and it's no big deal. My original post was worded badly, don't get the wrong idea, I'm very good to her and we are happy together.

 

[rhiannon]

So I guess that means you stopped trying to break her in and leave her alone with it now?

 

[Slaver123]

Longest serious relationship I was in (6 years) I started out a solid "Ler", a "Top". But my GF had nearly been raped as a teen, and couldn't be a sub or "lee" for me; She couldn't bear being tied up, it'd trigger flashbacks.

So I became the "Lee", I played the role of the "bottom"- I adapted and eventually developed a greater fetish for BEING tied and tickled than I ever had for tickling someone else.
(and one day I just started kissing her legs out of the blue...new fetishes can develop overnight)

 

[duck171]

Longest serious relationship I was in (6 years) I started out a solid "Ler", a "Top". But my GF had nearly been raped as a teen, and couldn't be a sub or "lee" for me; She couldn't bear being tied up, it'd trigger flashbacks.

So I became the "Lee", I played the role of the "bottom"- I adapted and eventually developed a greater fetish for BEING tied and tickled than I ever had for tickling someone else.
(and one day I just started kissing her legs out of the blue...new fetishes can develop overnight)

I agree with the new fetish thing, we have been trying out some bondage, she is really into that and as a result I am getting more into it. Thanks for the reply.

 

[melanie2]

wow well there you go then..if she's into bondage you can have loads of fun..good luck..

 

[P[a]pi]

wow well there you go then..if she's into bondage you can have loads of fun..good luck..

I agree, tickling is just one of many things you can do with bondage.