Can I have some advice from female lees

[tickleteasing]

To me and this is kind of something that I think women misunderstand when I say this because they think I am making fun of them but to me its a sign that woman has a real caring heart.It is when a woman blushes real easily and blushes when she either talks about tickling or is tickled. The reason I say its a sign she has a heart is because she is admitting something that is hard to admit she wants. I know women hate it when they blush and you say oh how sweet, its just to me and I see it this way its a sign your facing your fears, your saying something thats hard to talk about. Guys that care for you want to know what makes you feel good. What is the best way to react if your talking to a woman about tickling and she blushes, without making her feel embarrassed?

 

[isabeau]

hmm well i blush fairly easily...so i suppose i do blush when talking about that..i never looked in the mirror to find out..

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

I tend to blush easily also. If someone gives me a compliment about my appearance, or if they ask something of a personal nature, my face usually gets really warm, my clue that I'm most likely blushing. The above reasons don't always result with me blushing, but a discussion about tickling is almost guranteed to make me turn bright red. I can't answer the question "are you ticklish?" or hear a guy say (after he's just found out that I'm ticklish) "Oh, ticklish huh?" without blushing. The couple times I told my friends about my tickling fetish, (through a process of a guessing game), when they actually guessed the right answer, I felt like my face was on fire! It's really a catch-22, I love to talk about it (in a roundabout way, I can't actually come out and say I love tickling to anyone), but I get very squirmy and embarrassed while doing it.

I don't know whether any of this has to do with "a caring heart" or not. I think it's more a physical reaction to someone hitting on a topic that reaches down into the core of who you are and makes you feel like you're completely exposed. As if you're standing in front of the person wearing nothing but you're underwear 😱


Maggie

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

I blush easily and being fair in complexion its pretty obvious. I blush from my chest upwards.

My boss knows how easily I blush and makes a beeline to me most days to try and get me embarrassed and he always says the most annoying things like; 'just warming my hands' or 'is it warm in here'...

I don't mind really as thats my character and have always been like it 🙂

I also tend to get rosy cheeked when drinking alcohol or laughing to hard, which happens a lot hehe.