can you be tickled by?

[jd58]

i am a very ticklish male. the thing is i can't be tickled by another guy and i hate being tickled by a guy.i also have no desire to tickle a guy. it doesn't do a thing for me.
on the other hand. i very ticklish everywhere when a female tickles and i love it. i can also tickle any ticklish female.
is this common? or can you tickle or be tickled by anyone?

 

[Iwant2Btickled]

I don't think I'd like being tickled by another woman. I like that feeling of being physically held down and myself being a pretty good struggler for a woman, I just don't think I could get that feeling unless its with a man. No offense ladies... I just think that it would have to be a man for me.... and I can think of one in particular......

 

[minerva]

I 'can' basically be tickled by anyone. No matter if I like or don't like the person who is tickling me or if I want or don't want them to tickle me, as soon as they start poking I'd jump and squeal. I can't switch off being ticklish.
If you want me to ENJOY being tickled though, you'd better be male and at least a friend of mine 😀

 

[Iwant2Btickled]

I 'can' basically be tickled by anyone. No matter if I like or don't like the person who is tickling me or if I want or don't want them to tickle me, as soon as they start poking I'd jump and squeal. I can't switch off being ticklish.
If you want me to ENJOY being tickled though, you'd better be male and at least a friend of mine 😀

AMEN MINERVA!!!! I guess I misunderstood the question a bit... I CAN be tickled by anyone, but I don't think I'd like it by just anyone...

 

[kis123]

I've never been tickled by an adult female before, but I don't see any problems with it. My lers have always been male, so I don't have experience with females on that level either.

If it's in fun, it can be anyone; if it's more than fun, I'll stick with that special fella, if you know what I mean.

 

[SteelJaw]

*leans back, pulls out glasses and psycology degree that I got off an internet clip art site* XD

All kidding aside I think its completely normal. I know im ticklish, but I doubt I would even smile if I was tickled by a guy. When a women tickles me theres an attraction, a feeling of being playfull. For some it dose have something to do with sexual attraction. Nuther example, I would have a lot more fun and be a lot more creative when tickling a women, got no desire to tickle a guy.

so all and all I think its just a matter of what your into, theres no right or wrong way to see it.

 

[badreligion]

i think if a guy tickled me he would end up waking up very confused...in cuba

 

[BorisandNatasha]

i am a very ticklish male. the thing is i can't be tickled by another guy and i hate being tickled by a guy.i also have no desire to tickle a guy. it doesn't do a thing for me.
on the other hand. i very ticklish everywhere when a female tickles and i love it. i can also tickle any ticklish female.
is this common? or can you tickle or be tickled by anyone?

If you were tied down and blindfolded having no clue whatsoever who was going to tickle you and the tickler or ticklers made no sound....anyone therefore can tickle you and you would be ticklish for anyones fingers regardless of gender.

Boris

 

[LItickleree]

i am a very ticklish male. the thing is i can't be tickled by another guy and i hate being tickled by a guy.i also have no desire to tickle a guy. it doesn't do a thing for me.
on the other hand. i very ticklish everywhere when a female tickles and i love it. i can also tickle any ticklish female.
is this common? or can you tickle or be tickled by anyone?

im exactly the same way, so your not alone. If a guy tickles me theres like no reaction but a head turn to look at them and a facial expression of WTH are you doing.

 

[BorisandNatasha]

Knowing who is tickling you...I agree.
Just wanted to add that.


Boris

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

I don't mind if it was a guy or gal tickling me. The only thing I would have to say though, is if it was in intimate places then it would have to be my partner and not just anyone doing the tickling then.

 

[tommytikl]

For JD58 and for others on the board, tickling is very sexual in nature and because if the lee is hetero-sexual in nature than being tickled by the same sex is equated to having sex or at least having sexual feelings.

Just to borrow the kissing analogy again, a kiss from a girl is very different than a kiss from a guy.

 

[kis123]

For JD58 and for others on the board, tickling is very sexual in nature and because if the lee is hetero-sexual in nature than being tickled by the same sex is equated to having sex or at least having sexual feelings.

Just to borrow the kissing analogy again, a kiss from a girl is very different than a kiss from a guy.

That problem only happens with those who make tickling exclusively a sexual issue. There are those of us who do not and can separate the experience. I guess it's about preferences and people can't help what they prefer.

 

[SteelJaw]

That problem only happens with those who make tickling exclusively a sexual issue. There are those of us who do not and can separate the experience. I guess it's about preferences and people can't help what they prefer.

She has a very good point, tickling for me isnt sexual exclusivly, it can be a turn on, but I can just have fun with it. But for some reason I still have no desire to be tickle buy a guy. I guess theres no real way to explain it.

 

[spareme]

I 'can' basically be tickled by anyone. No matter if I like or don't like the person who is tickling me or if I want or don't want them to tickle me, as soon as they start poking I'd jump and squeal. I can't switch off being ticklish.
If you want me to ENJOY being tickled though, you'd better be male and at least a friend of mine 😀

I agree. I can not "switch off" being ticklish.

If I am tickled by someone I am attracted to, I am aroused.

If I am tickled by someone I am friendly with, I think it is funny and pleasurable.

If I am tickled by someone I dislike, I am embarrassed and wish I weren't so vulnerable.

I am ticklish in any case.

 

[kis123]

I agree. I can not "switch off" being ticklish.

If I am tickled by someone I am attracted to, I am aroused.

If I am tickled by someone I am friendly with, I think it is funny and pleasurable.

If I am tickled by someone I dislike, I am embarrassed and wish I weren't so vulnerable.

I am ticklish in any case.

This is pretty much "me" in a nutshell, hence my love/hate relationship with tickling. Sometimes it can be frustrating as hell, especially the "embarrassed and vulnerable" part.

 

[50greg]

This is pretty much "me" in a nutshell, hence my love/hate relationship with tickling. Sometimes it can be frustrating as hell, especially the "embarrassed and vulnerable" part.

I trust you wouldn't be embarrassed with me.

 

[vegasfootboy]

Good Topic

Its funny how many people say they are extremely ticklish, yet if someone they dont want tickles them they shut down in a split second! This is something I only wish I could do. I am so ticklish that i have absolutely no choice, and it kinda pisses me off lol! There have been occasions where a guy has tickled me ( im not gay ) and all I could do was helplessly laugh, untill either they stopped, or i fought them off. I always felt kinda violated after that in some small way. I have no idea why i would feel that way.

 

[loves2laugh]

Anybody who tickles me will definitely get a ticklish reaction out of me. I can't NOT laugh if I'm being tickled. There are some poeple who've tickled me that I've wished they wouldn't, like the previous poster said.. you kind of feel violated, but even in those cases I still laugh.