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Can you give up tickling??

My current girlfriend is a kind, sweet, pretty girl with very nice feet. Unfortunately, her feet are only slightly ticklish. We have been dating for almost a year, and while the sexual part of our relationship is not where it should be, we have grown together emotionally and mentally. This is the first relationship where I can truly say I care more about the person than their physical attributes.

Sometimes when I tickle her feet I get a decent response and feel like everything is going to be ok. Other times, I tickle and tickle and and she just sits there and I get really scared that this isn't going to work.

I am sure that if she was totally non-ticklish it would not have lasted this long. The fact that I can tickle her a little bit has kept things going. The problem is, her being "slightly" ticklish makes me only "slightly" aroused, and that usually doesn't provide enough "get up and go" for full blown sex.

I still don't know if the relationship will last. All I can say is that we are very compatible in every area except tickling. I truly feel she loves me and I feel I can trust her with anything. While I believe that's much more important than the sexual part of the relationship, I still don't know if I can live with it.

The biggest thing I hate is that I still find myself looking at other girls and wondering if their feet are more ticklish than my girlfriend's. That really makes me feel like an ass, but I don't know how to stop it. I haven't cheated on her, because I really care for her and seriously doubt I will find someone as compatible in all the other areas of life.

This relationship has taught me that tickling isn't everything, but it is a daily srtuggle to keep those lustful impulses from overriding my better judgment. I wish I could say my judgment will win in the end, but I really don't know.
 
tickling isn't everything, but i found i couldn't be happy in a relationship where it could never happen. it's as much a part of me as my soul, and to give up any of my kinks for someone just would not be worth it in my opinion. luckily, i didn't have to.
 
i know that I lack the ability to give it up. I've tried. When I was single, I wouldn't let myself get into a long relationship with someone who didn't like to be tickled.
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confessor said:
My current girlfriend is a kind, sweet, pretty girl with very nice feet. Unfortunately, her feet are only slightly ticklish. We have been dating for almost a year, and while the sexual part of our relationship is not where it should be, we have grown together emotionally and mentally. This is the first relationship where I can truly say I care more about the person than their physical attributes.

Sometimes when I tickle her feet I get a decent response and feel like everything is going to be ok. Other times, I tickle and tickle and and she just sits there and I get really scared that this isn't going to work.

I am sure that if she was totally non-ticklish it would not have lasted this long. The fact that I can tickle her a little bit has kept things going. The problem is, her being "slightly" ticklish makes me only "slightly" aroused, and that usually doesn't provide enough "get up and go" for full blown sex.

I still don't know if the relationship will last. All I can say is that we are very compatible in every area except tickling. I truly feel she loves me and I feel I can trust her with anything. While I believe that's much more important than the sexual part of the relationship, I still don't know if I can live with it.

The biggest thing I hate is that I still find myself looking at other girls and wondering if their feet are more ticklish than my girlfriend's. That really makes me feel like an ass, but I don't know how to stop it. I haven't cheated on her, because I really care for her and seriously doubt I will find someone as compatible in all the other areas of life.

This relationship has taught me that tickling isn't everything, but it is a daily srtuggle to keep those lustful impulses from overriding my better judgment. I wish I could say my judgment will win in the end, but I really don't know.
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Hello confessor,
I'm Helena. I read your post. I've included it in my response to you, only so I can refer to it as i type.:cuddle:
Your girlfriend sounds like a good partner to have. You have grown, mentally and emotionally, together. You say you are very compatible. That's a good foundation.😛
Has she shared her fantasies with you? She probably has some sexual fantasy that you haven't discovered yet. Perhaps it's something else besides tickling. You could ask her what floats her boat. You might be surprised by her answer.:firedevil
Do you like to be tickled? I mean, can you actually submit to her, and let her tickle YOU? If she put effort into tickling you, would that turn you on?
If you explored each other's sexual fantasies together, perhaps you might get even closer.
I think it's perfectly natural to lust after other people you find appealing. Don't be too concerned about having those feelings. I wish you the best of everything, and I hope you and your girlfriend grow closer.:smilelove
 
No, I wouldn't be able to live with someone who wouldn't tickle me. I know that heaps of people wouldn't agree with me, or say I'm being silly, but I feel that if someone has a strong fetish then they need someone who can provide. There's meant to be giving and receiving on each side, right?

Love,
Katje.
 
yup....easy peasy japanesy..it's not the end all for me..and i do live with someone who doesn't tickle..i got my tickling in last year..i believe i can very well live with that...

o and my cat is quite the ler...grrrrrr
 
Musicroxmysox09 said:
Hey everyone.

So today I was wondering: if the right person came along (boy, girl, whatever,) and they weren't really the into tickling type, Would you go Vanilla for them? Hmm... love stronger then tickling desire.

Opinions please! 🙂
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hmm, I have been in a long term relationship without much tickling before, so I guess with the right person I could again - not without ANY tickling, but without much 🙂. Totally Vanilla though? No way! Wouldn't be the right person for me then.
 
For some, tickling is something fun and cool, but not the be-all end-all of human interaction. I imagine such people would have little trouble giving it up, assuming there was a legitimate reason to do so.

For others of us, tickling has been such an integral part of our lives since early childhood. To ask us to change such a fundamental aspect of our personalities is unreasonable, assuming such a change is even possible.

On the other side of that coin, I think it would be equally unreasonable to expect a partner to accomodate one's hunger for tickling when the appetite isn't shared. I don't buy into the "If she loved me she'd let me tickle her" idea.
 
Musicroxmysox09 said:
Hey everyone.

So today I was wondering: if the right person came along (boy, girl, whatever,) and they weren't really the into tickling type, Would you go Vanilla for them? Hmm... love stronger then tickling desire.

Opinions please! 🙂
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Hiya everyone! :bunny:
Hmm, an interesting question Music-Sox!
One wonders how "right" the person would be who was not into tickling? I guess that would come out in the process of dating and getting to know each other. 🙂

And probably, in that process both would figure out if one's personal fetish interest was a relationship-breaker. I certainly don't think it's a problem if one decides not to continue a relationship over a fetish-type issue. If one really feels more fulfilled by the activity then both will be happy if it ends earlier rather than after some actual or perceived infidelity. *nodsnods*

But then the other option is -er- seducing your guy or girl into the experience. :justlips: :cool2:

Hey, it happens. 😀

Many blessings,
Chickles:redheart:
 
Give it up?! Like... cold turkey?

I think if I really really had to, I would. It pains me just to say so. I think if I had to give it up I would be a very sad person. My sexuality is a very big and important thing to me and tickling is a very big and important part of my sexuality. Not only that but tickling is one thing that makes me a little different and I value it as not something that affects me but something that is apart of me.

So, yes, I could give it up but not very easily and it would have to take lots of love and coaxing. I hope, hope, hope that it never comes down to that. :redheart:
 
Wow!

I am really amazed at the response to this thread. Since you have all shared your thoughts I'll share a little more.

The current person I am somewhat involved with does not know about my love for tickling. I've debated telling them over and over and have for the moment decided against it. Maybe sometime in the future I will tell them. As such I have found that I am not so very attached to tickling as I am to them. So maybe for me giving it up could be the right thing. But as most of you have said, "No way!" Thanks for the responses and keep commenting and sharing your thoughts. :wub:
 
Nope. Tried. Can't. Won't. Again, if someone's not into it, they're not the right one. It's one of my few dealbreakers /lines in the sand.
 
I almost did for my fiance (way back when we started dating) because I didn't think she was the type of person to enjoy tickling more than just a poke or me grabbing her sides once in a while. When I realized that I could tell her just everything about me, I let the cat out of the bag and she was willing to try it.

Now, it's our thing and she loves it!

But if she wasn't into it after we tried it, I would have given it up for her (aside from the pokes here and there).

Glad I didn't have to though

😛
 
TheDubliner said:
I almost did for my fiance (way back when we started dating) because I didn't think she was the type of person to enjoy tickling more than just a poke or me grabbing her sides once in a while. When I realized that I could tell her just everything about me, I let the cat out of the bag and she was willing to try it.

Now, it's our thing and she loves it!

But if she wasn't into it after we tried it, I would have given it up for her (aside from the pokes here and there).

Glad I didn't have to though

😛
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that's super fantastic..i'm so glad things worked out for you...good luck with that..
 
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