Can't LIve Without It?

[darkcastle]

Hello, fellow tickle lovers. I have to keep this short because I am writing surruptitiously. My partner wouldn't understand; and that is the problem. She doesn't understand at all. She doesn't want to be tickled because she doesn't want to lose control, and she thinks bondage is sick. I love her, but I miss accessing that side of me. You understand how powerful it is. But is it worth saying goodby to a loving partner? Am I crazy?
Nice community you have here.

 

[dig dug dog]

Dear Darkcastle,

If tickling is that important to you, you have a choice to make: Either find a partner who is more in tune with your sexuality or begin to look into ways to change your sexuality (probably with professional assistance).

You may hear people respond to your post by saying they have a relationship with someone where the person "understands" that the tickle-lover "needs" to tickle with other partners and lovingly accepts that...Don't buy it, man!

You have two and only two options. I am not advocating one over the other, just don't be fooled by those who tell you that you can "have it all". (As to the possibility of your current partner becoming more open to tickling--you have to gauge whether that is at all realistic.)

dig dug dog

 

[tactillianlover]

Does she take pride in thrilling you in other foreplay
areas? Does she ever tickle you? Have you ever asked?

Maybe if she saw you enjoying the ticklee position, she would
ponder the idea!

 

[Deleted member 2452]

try the tickling w/o bondage

try to tickle her w/o tying her up. she'll feel safer that way.
if she just won't egage in tickling in any manor, then tell her you'll have to move on. explain to her that tickling is in your blood and you can't live, and don't want to live with out it.
this may sound harsh to some, but we have be true to ourselves, and our partners. you'll never loose your love of tickling, and life is too short, so get a woman who'll enjoy it with you.
steve