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chicago tickling fun
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Kinky Couple
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I would go to some of the more "artsy" neighborhoods in Chicago. The girls there are a little more open minded to stuff.
Good Luck!!! - Nicki
Good Luck!!! - Nicki
I don't think there's really a magic answer to this one. It can be a hard thing to introduce to your traditional relationships, but possible if you luck out and meet someone open-minded. I know they hold munches in Chicago every now and again. Perhaps try attending one of them and getting to know others from the community? You never know who you may hit it off with.
AnnieHall's (almost) fool-proof advice on how to tell your S/O you're into tickling.
1. Bring it up early in the relationship. Not the first date, but early enough where you can end things if she's not into it. Tickling is really not that weird of a kink and settling for someone who's not into it, will suck.
2. Avoid the word "fetish." It holds negative connotations for vanillas. They'll equate it with obsession or psychological disorder.
3. Tried to hide being nervous. If you bring it up light-heartedly in a way that says, "I think this is really fun. We should try it some time," that mood will help to allay any fears the other person might have initially.
I think many women at that age are more comfortable with themselves and may be more open to trying new things. I could be wrong, but hopefully this helps.
Also, there was recently a gathering in Chicago. Unfortunately, the only female 'lees were both in their 20's, myself included. There's a chance said gathering may happen the same time next year. So, if you can make it, that'd be cool.
1. Bring it up early in the relationship. Not the first date, but early enough where you can end things if she's not into it. Tickling is really not that weird of a kink and settling for someone who's not into it, will suck.
2. Avoid the word "fetish." It holds negative connotations for vanillas. They'll equate it with obsession or psychological disorder.
3. Tried to hide being nervous. If you bring it up light-heartedly in a way that says, "I think this is really fun. We should try it some time," that mood will help to allay any fears the other person might have initially.
I think many women at that age are more comfortable with themselves and may be more open to trying new things. I could be wrong, but hopefully this helps.
Also, there was recently a gathering in Chicago. Unfortunately, the only female 'lees were both in their 20's, myself included. There's a chance said gathering may happen the same time next year. So, if you can make it, that'd be cool.
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Whatever you do, avoid coming to Mass. its worse here!
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I live in Chicago, and notice that most of the 30 and older women into tickling tend to be in the burbs.
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I love AnneHall's comments on the forum as well as her participation with the group. She must be the queen of the TMF scene for Chicagoland, well that's what I think of her.
Ha. No way, but I appreciate the kind words.
TickleChgo has been the gathering king here for years. Unfortunately, until recently, it seems participation has been less than great. Hopefully that changes.
Thanks again, though. 🙂
