Conditioning to Cum from Tickling

[Sigma]

Hi all it's been a long time since I've posted anything on here. My wife and I are starting an experiment to see if I (40M) can be conditioned to cum from having my feet tickled alone... For Science!

We've done some research and it'll likely take about 6 months to go from being just erogenous and fun to full orgasm without needing any genital stimulation. Along the lines of a Pavlovian response, the idea is for it to be automatic and involuntary.

A rough sketch of the process includes: I absolutely am not allowed to cum without tickling (a bit of a denial kink there). Effectively this is supposed to leverage Pavlovian conditioning to link the two. We're going to start with pairing tickling and orgasms until tickling feels orgasmic on its own (it's already erogenous). Then gradually reducing genital stimulation until none is needed. Other components include hypnosis and lots of core muscle exercises (including kegels).

Has anyone on here tried this before?

Has anyone succeeded in this before?

Other ideas/suggestions to help?

I'm also gauging the community interest to see if weekly/monthly updates would be appreciated and if so to what level of detail?

I originally posted to Reddit but thought it might be good to post it here too:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TickleAddicts/comments/1sdiwf2/conditioning_to_cum_from_tickling

 

[playjoe]

I cum from having my feet tickled but I must be tied up on my stomach...... give it a try

 

[Sigma]

Bondage is hot and probably would help. I feel being on my stomach would provide pressure on my cock not making it a 100% tickle induced orgasm. The goal is to make the tickling alone a sufficient stimulus to cum from, even (hypothetically) if my cock had no touch, no pressure, nothing at all.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I think it’ll be effective depending on what you’re thinking about at the time you’re being tickled

 

[Sigma]

Yeah there is a lot of mental aspects to this too. I know from the days before I was married, I could have a (ruined) orgasm from being tied up, watching porn, and struggling to masturbate. It would get too hot and if I held my breath for a couple of seconds and really fought the restraints I'd have a ruined orgasm.

Th emphasis of our experiment is Pavlovian conditioning rather than merely nutting one out. Also not aiming for just an orgasm, but a full one. Not just hands free, but zero genital stimulation (imagine numbing cream + condom levels of zero simulation).

 

[Silverflame3]

In our experience, women can, men I don't know any. My wife certainly can cum from having her feet tickled with no other sexual stimulation whatsoever, but she can also cum from any kind of foot-related stuff.

 

[Sigma]

In our experience, women can, men I don't know any. My wife certainly can cum from having her feet tickled with no other sexual stimulation whatsoever, but she can also cum from any kind of foot-related stuff.

Yeah, this is one of the reasons we're trying this experiment. I expect if successful it won't be limited to just tickling, the way even a foot rub can turn me on. I have heard classical conditioning can be slow but powerful. We're leveraging what others said worked for other sexual conditioning (hence the no solo orgasms nor orgasms without tickling). In theory if tickling and orgasm are nearly perfectly coupled, the association should keep growing. We're also setting a realistic time frame of 6 months, not something that will happen over a weekend.

I'm making a log of activities and generally going to minimize the amount of smut or at least give a warning if an entry contains a bit too much detail (I have one such for my log regarding a mostly successful HFO hypnosis experience). This is legitimately as much for science as it is kinky fun. I don't want some researcher 5+ years from now cringing at details because they don't share the kink. I'll also be posting where I'm starting from (what I can already do, etc), the plan, the objective, success, and setbacks.

I'll still make the smut available via DM/PM, but the Internet has enough porn on it

Still debating whether to post updates and the log on a weekly basis, every other week, or one a month. I'll still have a daily log and a summary regardless.

 

[Vanillaphant]

My wife certainly can cum from having her feet tickled with no other sexual stimulation whatsoever, but she can also cum from any kind of foot-related stuff.

Not hacky sack, surely? 😉

 

[Silverflame3]

Not hacky sack, surely? 😉

I'm sorry, what? 😅

If it were pressed with enough centralized force into the middle of her sole, then yeah, probably she could.

 

[Vanillaphant]

I'm sorry, what? 😅

If it were pressed with enough centralized force into the middle of her sole, then yeah, probably she could.

I heard the word "any", quickly followed by the sound of a gauntlet being laid down. lol

I'm just messing with you. 🙂

If that's true though, then it's pretty impressive!

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

In our experience, women can, men I don't know any. My wife certainly can cum from having her feet tickled with no other sexual stimulation whatsoever, but she can also cum from any kind of foot-related stuff.

My guess is that your wife’s feet are very ticklish

 

[FFT32]

I can share from personal experiences that:

I was a ler who wittnessed a lee orgasam from me tickling their underarms, breasts, belly, inner thighs and feet in a lovely rotation.

Also, I myself have climaxed on several different occasions doing nothing more than tickling someones feet.

 

[Sigma]

I can share from personal experiences that:

I was a ler who wittnessed a lee orgasam from me tickling their underarms, breasts, belly, inner thighs and feet in a lovely rotation.

Also, I myself have climaxed on several different occasions doing nothing more than tickling someones feet.

I don't know all the details, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that it wasn't a combination of rubbing up against something while tickling. Would you say it was a full climax and not a ruined one? As I mentioned in my post above I can get so turned on in bondage that just struggling against the bonds while holding my breath can trigger a (ruined) climax.

Well if it is possible for at least one guy to cum from zero stimulation other than tickling people, then technically it would be possible for guys to orgasm from being tickled (zero other stimulation).

This doesn't address whether the behavior can be learned or is innate. That is what my experiment will partially (my feet being erogenous was innate) address. So it's important to note where I am starting from. Someone with zero interest in tickling or having their feet touched would probably have a more difficult time learning to cum from that.

 

[Sigma]

I'm sorry, what? 😅

If it were pressed with enough centralized force into the middle of her sole, then yeah, probably she could.

Fuck that sounds like fun. I don't expect to reach that level

 

[Sigma]

For those that are interested I'll start posting my journal updates around Friday or Saturday around April 17th. Depending how long that post is I'll adjust my frequency, but probably going to aim for every other week. I'm not exactly sure how best to alert people that want to follow the posts to new posts, so I'm going to aim for 2 week cadence to start, posting probably on Fridays after work pacific time.

 

[Silverflame3]

My guess is that your wife’s feet are very ticklish

Yes and no. She has a big foot fetish, and having her feet touched makes her horny. It's difficult to gauge how ticklish they are simply because of the fact she has come to associate having her feet touched with arousal and pleasure, not a torturous feeling like tickling, but on occasion when she's tired she will be too ticklish and not enjoy it, so I don't bother her on such occasions.

 

[Silverflame3]

I heard the word "any", quickly followed by the sound of a gauntlet being laid down. lol

I'm just messing with you. 🙂

If that's true though, then it's pretty impressive!

Yeah, I get you. She had been known to have her O moment just from me pulling her socks off.

 

[Silverflame3]

Fuck that sounds like fun. I don't expect to reach that level

Who knows. For women it's easier to reach that level without direct genital stimulation, and it does help she has a pretty big foot fetish for having her feet played with.