Congratulations on your upcoming engagement! That is wonderful, that is great news! Hope your planning will be a smooth and not a hectic process... advice wise-make sure you book the church and book the reception site very early as early as you can manage it, research, research, research-don't settle on one idea right away for a theme or idea to bring the wedding and reception together-give yourself plenty of a few options that you like and then go from there-another thing pick your wedding party very carefully and like it was said pick your bridesmaid dresses very carefully-select them on how flattering and nice they will make your bridemaids look-some ideas-match is not so much in anymore, you could pick a few different styles and colors for your bridesmaid dresses. Best advice I can give is: stick to your guns-meaning be flexible and kind and understanding w your bridesmaids and wedding party; give a few options on bridesmaid dresses but not too many options-be firm on what you want and what you would not want. If bridesmaids step out of line kindly but firmly steer them back-let them know that is not what  you want-not in a bridezilla way, but kind firm way.
Hope that this helps but most important you and your groom be the ones that hold firm and true to what you want within balance and moderation and take your time.
But most importantly just enjoy this happy euphoric just got engaged time and relax and enjoy and bask it in, but remember after you enjoy this time-make sure to book the ceremony and reception site, sit down and try to think of what you and your groom want and do not want for your wedding-as aggravating and tedious as it can be-really got to sit down and try to scribble down a solid budget for different items and expenses of the wedding and reception, put back money also for expense of honeymoon if you are going to take one and things like that. Hope that this helps
But once again congratulations on your engagement!!
I wish you great joy and many years of happy married bliss to come-wish you a smooth fun engagement and a great marriage, w joy, laughter, and love and tickles a plenty!!



