Do the men here outnumber the women?

[Ticklerguy4u]

Seems to me that there are more men seeking women then women seeking men in here. I wonder why that is?

 

[The_Raptor]

me too!

I've noticed the same thing man
since i joined the forum a month ago,
there r plenty of pals here and only counted number of women ,i think that's why there are more men seeking women.
does anybody have another explanation? 😡

 

[FrenzyTickles]

ONE good reason.

(I can hear the groans already, but I'm gonna say it anyway).

From what I can see, with all sorts of nasty stuff including what appears to be non-consensual video material, worse than the utterly depressing stories of tickle hells I've read every so often,

it's no wonder women are in the minority here.

I've been fascinated since childhood, and have been told recently that's very unusual,
but the TRULY selfish, sadistic preferences of the majority here (not all of course) are quickly turning me off this forum, this scene, and most of the population.

There's no way I'd meet anyone from this forum considering the really disgusting, inhumane sadism that's considered acceptable here.

 

[darkscar]

Probably which is very unfortunate, but not surprising

 

[Battousai]

Seems to me that there are more men seeking women then women seeking men in here. I wonder why that is?

Welcome to the Internet. XD

(I can hear the groans already, but I'm gonna say it anyway).

From what I can see, with all sorts of nasty stuff including what appears to be non-consensual video material, worse than the utterly depressing stories of tickle hells I've read every so often,

it's no wonder women are in the minority here.

I've been fascinated since childhood, and have been told recently that's very unusual,
but the TRULY selfish, sadistic preferences of the majority here (not all of course) are quickly turning me off this forum, this scene, and most of the population.

There's no way I'd meet anyone from this forum considering the really disgusting, inhumane sadism that's considered acceptable here.

I'm sure people have said this already in your other thread, but non-consensual stuff is mostly just fantasy. I'm sure most people here aren't sadistic psychos. But that being said, I'm a masochist. I like the idea of being tortured. I have fantasies at being at the merciless fingertips of a sadistic tickler. I like fictional stories or drawings with characters in similar possitions. Does that make me sick? Does that make a sadist sick?

Frankly, I can think of much worse.

 

[naveltkltr1350]

cause most of the shit ive read from other guys makes men look like creeps..and thats not necessarily all true. Theres a lot of us good guys out there.

 

[Sultrybrunette]

Ok going to put my two cents in here. I would imagine that, as in with any fetish, you are going to encounter more men than women. Women are not so open about their likes. Yes some of the stuff is over the edge. And alot of guys can be jerks. My favorite part of the forum besides the chatroom is the story section. Being half way intelligent I know that they are fantasy stories to entertain. Maybe a part of wishful thinking but most of the people have also admitted that they really wouldn't do it. When I first joined I used to get all hyped up about the idiot guys that I would talk to. But not anymore. Its not worth me getting upset about. I just consider the source and move on. Having said that though, for a female to first come in to explore the whole thing it can be very intimidating. I know it was for me. Especially if they are younger ladies. Guys don't give these new ladies room to breath let alone become aquainted with the forum and all that it entails. But us females are out there. You just have to take the time to look, be respectful and charming and they will come out to play.

 

[marcusb]

(I can hear the groans already, but I'm gonna say it anyway).

I've been fascinated since childhood, and have been told recently that's very unusual,
but the TRULY selfish, sadistic preferences of the majority here (not all of course) are quickly turning me off this forum, this scene, and most of the population.

Oh my god woman... there are over THIRTY ONE THOUSAND members here and you're spouting that the MAJORITY here are selfish, sadistic people? You're in such a froth over a few videos that now you're condeming us all? PLLLEASE.

Please keep your ranting to your own thread... you're WAY WAY off base.

 

[isabeau]

omg you mean there are men on this forum?? havent noticed. seriously i think there are probably as many women maybe, they just dont post as much as the men. i really havent paid that much attention. when i first joined, i only posted on the stories, then the artwork. only later did i discover the general discussion threads. i find it a great outlet to speak what is on my mind, as long as i am polite and dont offend anyone. i havent really noticed in all honesty whether the men outnumber the women.

isabeau

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Or maybe we guys are just impatient about getting to know the women first before we "jump" their bones...
(not talking about the regulars I'm talking about the newbies)

 

[Sultrybrunette]

Or maybe we guys are just impatient about getting to know the women first before we "jump" their bones...
(not talking about the regulars I'm talking about the newbies)

Now see, its THAT attitude right there...."jumping the bones" that is the reason the girls leave and the women wouldnt have anything to do with you. What you need to do is be a bit more smooth about it. Its all about getting to know the person and possible friendship. If that statement was for getting an idea across then thats understandable, but if its the real reason you are here then thats immaturity talking and it wont get you far.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Now see, its THAT attitude right there...."jumping the bones" that is the reason the girls leave and the women wouldnt have anything to do with you. What you need to do is be a bit more smooth about it. Its all about getting to know the person and possible friendship. If that statement was for getting an idea across then thats understandable, but if its the real reason you are here then thats immaturity talking and it wont get you far.

I agree with you. It was just a bad joke. Didn't mean to offend anyone. The reason I am here is because I enjoy the posts and conversation and have never PMed anyone unless I have had at least a personal conversation with them. Just so you know a little about me. I am a nice guy with values. I work my butt off in construction and carpentry for an unappreciative boss. I make just enough money to survive and live a bachleor's life (which means I know a hundred ways to cook Top Ramen.) Most of my friends are married and I don't do drugs. Nothing turns me on more then to hear a woman laugh. Although it would be nice to meet some people here, I live in bubble-f*** wyoming I really doubt I'm am going to be more then just a "poster." So hopefully you can accept my apology Sultry. I didn't mean anything by it.

 

[maniactickler]

Seems to me that there are more men seeking women then women seeking men in here. I wonder why that is?

Thats because there are more men here. id say men outnumber the women by at least 10 to 1. why you ask? its a mans nature to be the predator. plus women tend to be way more cautious about advertising looking for a man. due to the fact that most men are obnoxious horny pigs.

 

[Goodieluver]

Because in any group there is a relative base of immature jagbags who only purpose is to get laid or do whatever, so when any female comes out here, theyre typically bombarded by said people hopin to get their rocks off. Im actually thankfull for the ladies who have endured that and still stayed. Hence why if u look at the member photo sections, any name thats relatively feminine has the most views, even if that person is male or female

Its really quite pathetic really when you think about the stories told by some of the lady members of how they get so much harrassment from people who prob never leave their room\dorm and just focus on hoping to have a chat with a female member and to jerk off to her

 

[Sultrybrunette]

I agree with you. It was just a bad joke. Didn't mean to offend anyone. The reason I am here is because I enjoy the posts and conversation and have never PMed anyone unless I have had at least a personal conversation with them. Just so you know a little about me. I am a nice guy with values. I work my butt off in construction and carpentry for an unappreciative boss. I make just enough money to survive and live a bachleor's life (which means I know a hundred ways to cook Top Ramen.) Most of my friends are married and I don't do drugs. Nothing turns me on more then to hear a woman laugh. Although it would be nice to meet some people here, I live in bubble-f*** wyoming I really doubt I'm am going to be more then just a "poster." So hopefully you can accept my apology Sultry. I didn't mean anything by it.

So I was right in that you were trying to get an idea across. No harm done and apology accepted with enthusiasm. 😀

 

[FrenzyTickles]

a reply, sorry a bit late in the thread-

Darkscar,
too true, though I'd guess you're an exception -

Battousai,
I'd say almost nothing is sick (maybe that's even too broad) if the parties are informed, consenting adults.
(Surprise!! Why do you think I was drawn to this in the first place?
I just go mildly rabid at any indication of possible abuses, and which seem casually accepted.)

marcusb,
A question was asked & I answered it. From what I've seen, too many people here are, as others have said, too consumed with getting immediate gratification without questioning whether or not the other party is likely to be happy about it, or worse.
(Many stories are sickening enough, but at least they're not 3D reality.)

The N/C videos which got me incensed are one *major indicator of some outright inhumane attitudes, towards women especially. Most accept them casually, and if they weren't bought by enough who DO think or HOPE they're real, they wouldn't be selling still.

**So that applies to this request for opinions on the population here.

The outraged rant you refer to exists in detail *elsewhere, thank you very much.

 

[Iishieboo]

Eheh... well... I wouldn't know if men outnumber women... but...I'm a girl. *shrugs*

 

[milagros317]

Welcome to the TMF, Iishieboo, and congratulations on your first post. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.

 

[Iishieboo]

Welcome to the TMF, Iishieboo, and congratulations on your first post. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.

Hehe! Thanks muchly! Kinda shy actually. I'm not really "out" about liking tickling. ^///^

 

[steph]

Hey gang...
IMHO, this ISN'T an internet prob~guys are always more of the pursuers and women are more passive in that regard, right? I can't remember which comedian it was, I'm thinking Chris Rock, who went off on a rant and his catchline over and over was "Why? Because the women have the p----!" It was so funny!
I think the internet mimicks real life more than people like to think~it does for me anyway. Just my 2 cents...
XOXO

 

[Battousai]

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No offense intended, but I too think you're getting your undies in a bunch over nothing. I agree with you that non-consentual tickling, the torturous kind anyway, can be cruel. It's wrong to say, tie someone up and tickle them against their will. Half of us were tickled non-consentually as kids, though, and most of us here look back on those times with fond memories even.

What I'm trying to say is, personally, I wouldn't mind non-consentual stuff to happen to me. The thought of it turns me on. I don't want to be protected.

Plus, what are you going to do with the fantasies? Protect the rights of the made up characters?

Hey gang...
IMHO, this ISN'T an internet prob~guys are always more of the pursuers and women are more passive in that regard, right? I can't remember which comedian it was, I'm thinking Chris Rock, who went off on a rant and his catchline over and over was "Why? Because the women have the p----!" It was so funny!
I think the internet mimicks real life more than people like to think~it does for me anyway. Just my 2 cents...
XOXO

They have a saying on 4chan.org:

"What are you talking about? There are no womens on the internets."

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Hey gang...
IMHO, this ISN'T an internet prob~guys are always more of the pursuers and women are more passive in that regard, right?

Very well put Steph. I always say:

What does a guy have to do to get a girl's attention online? Speak nicely, joke around and have a sense of humor, don't push to hard on meeting them, let them know what you are like offline, and build a relationship slowly.

What does a girl have to do to get a guy's attention online? Show up.

 

[lk70]

Seems to me that there are more men seeking women then women seeking men in here. I wonder why that is?

Taking it back to the original quesion a bit. Note it says "men seeking women" vs "women seeking men." I actually wonder how many people are here "seeking" anyone at all. I do believe there are a fair number of people here who aren't necessarily trolling, but really just want to be a part of a community of folks who like to discuss tickling, in all its glorious forms.

I don't automatically assume that a male who contacts me is "seeking" anything.

For those who are actually seeking play partners or life partners, I daresay the men are far more vocal about it. Women are usually more circumspect about these things. Like many others have said, typically men pursue and women wait. Some men might be put out by a woman who was so very public about what she's looking for.

Or not. 🙂

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Jerry Sienfeld: I put my arm around her from the right, I can't go left. George puts his arm around her from the left, can't go right. What side do girl's go?

Elaine Bennett: Neither, we just play defense.

 

[steph]

I've no idea what you're talking about. A~I'm not wearing panties. If I were, they wouldn't be in a bunch about something like this. Good Lord...
XOXO

No offense intended, but I too think you're getting your undies in a bunch over nothing. I agree with you that non-consentual tickling, the torturous kind anyway, can be cruel. It's wrong to say, tie someone up and tickle them against their will. Half of us were tickled non-consentually as kids, though, and most of us here look back on those times with fond memories even.

What I'm trying to say is, personally, I wouldn't mind non-consentual stuff to happen to me. The thought of it turns me on. I don't want to be protected.

Plus, what are you going to do with the fantasies? Protect the rights of the made up characters?



They have a saying on 4chan.org:

"What are you talking about? There are no womens on the internets."