Do We Take Our Lees For Granted:

[hazelf]

Do you think lers take lees for granted.

Should we adapt our tickling methods to suit their needs.


being mainly ler i think the role of lee is important and to get the best results i adapt to their needs.

 

[JUICEBOX]

I,m with you on this one,..if i ever get a chance to tickle a lee,..i want to make sure where,..when,..how long,...safe word...etc,..etc,.."definatelee"...wanting her experience to be as pleasurable as possible,..

 

[TKL_Rebel]

i now tailor my 'ling to a 'lee's boundaries/needs

i learnt this the hardway, check out my latest True Story

 

[Usually`Bubble]

Well if you didn't adapt your methods to the lee's needs, they wouldn't be much of a lee would they?

Like if the lee wanted their ribs tickled softly because pressure hurt, but the ler chose to do it forcefully... The lee wouldn't really be enjoying it. Is that what your question is asking?

 

[hazelf]

Well if you didn't adapt your methods to the lee's needs, they wouldn't be much of a lee would they?

Like if the lee wanted their ribs tickled softly because pressure hurt, but the ler chose to do it forcefully... The lee wouldn't really be enjoying it. Is that what your question is asking?

I guess what i'am getting at is that the lee is the main player rather than the ler, i think if a ler is tickling then they are happy, but for the lee it has to be right for them , to me it all hinges on the lee, if you give the lee satisfaction then your on the way to the perfect tickle situation.

Like you say no good tickling the lees pits if there after their feet to be tickled, or use hard when they want soft.

I just wondered if everybody felt the same way as me to be honest.

hazel

 

[rhiannon]

Should we adapt our tickling methods to suit their needs.

What needs could we lees possibly have which don't match your methods?

 

[hazelf]

What needs could we lees possibly have which don't match your methods?

well it would be a timming or mood thinge gentle as opposed to hard, find out what the lee likes and do it, or carry on as we are, match the method to the needs.

work in harmony.

 

[rhiannon]

well it would be a timming or mood thinge gentle as opposed to hard, find out what the lee likes and do it, or carry on as we are, match the method to the needs.

work in harmony.

Part of liking to be a lee is that I don't know what's coming and I can't control it. I also don't know exactly when I would like it gentle or hard. It's the ler's choice and should be. I would be very bewildered if my ler suddenly tried to find out how I like it! What I like is being at his control!

 

[hazelf]

Part of liking to be a lee is that I don't know what's coming and I can't control it. I also don't know exactly when I would like it gentle or hard. It's the ler's choice and should be. I would be very bewildered if my ler suddenly tried to find out how I like it! What I like is being at his control!

A very fair comment, the very reason why i sometimes blindflold the lee the suprise element.

The fact of being tied or the bondage element is all about conrol, and a hell of a lot of lees say its this feeling of being helpless that they like,

I think it takes practice and time to blend and be in complete harmony i think the problem is that i know exactly what i want to say, but can't find the right words to express it.

Tickling is many things to many people, and like good sex timming, rhythm, and mood come into play to reach that magic period of complete harmony and bliss.

Biggest killer is tiedium and boredom the lee knowing what your next move is going to, the problem i have encountered in the past is shall we say tickling pits instead of feet, when the lee has been ok with pits but yearned dsperately for a foot tickle, its that type of situation iam trying to illustrate (sorry rather badly) the ability of the ler to guess estimate what the lee desires the most, so as to capitalise or tailor the method to suit.

I like to be inventive and creative use a lot of variety, iam constantly trying to find new methods and new tools all the time, i want good tickling rather like good sex, rather than the "wham bang thany you mam" type of thing.

Inother words i want to please my lee not just take her for granted with the same same old routine, thats my goal, this only comes from getting to know each other, practice and communication, but a vast range of methods is sometimes needed if you have been together tickling for months, rather than hours to avoid the situation of boredom.

Anyway thanks for your comments and input, i grasp and take on board what your saying, have i managed to illustrate my point to your satisfaction, or have you fell asleep bored, where did i leave the feathers.

only jokeing.
(thanks for the feed back) 🙂 🙂

 

[rhiannon]

Tickling is many things to many people, and like good sex timming, rhythm, and mood come into play to reach that magic period of complete harmony and bliss.

You make it sound like a science! 🙂 I say just relax, have fun and do what comes to mind! Then it usually is fun! 🙂

 

[hazelf]

You make it sound like a science! 🙂 I say just relax, have fun and do what comes to mind! Then it usually is fun! 🙂

Its always fun for me as a ler, i just want to be sure its good (well very good for the lee)

But once again i agree with what you say, very often the suprise and unplanned do give a high fun element, sit back and relax and enjoy. (shivers).

I'am about 25% lee (switch i guess but not often) letting a lee get revenge can help me improve my methods, by being on the recieving end, this oftens happens by suprise a sort of ganging up, because iam so ticklish, i sure as hell don't volunteer, so the suprise element creeps in then for sure.

Thanks for your constructive and worthwhile comments.
hazel foster