Do Women Prefer to be Tickled by Women or Men?

[pinkgirl23]

Girls are different, and can change in the heat of the moment.

Some want you right now, and some want you to tease...

Some like it quick, some like it slow. Some like it hard and rough and some like it soft and gentle.

Some don't want you to give them what THEY want, some demand that you do...maybe they would prefer you to be in control, or sometimes you'll be the bottom...








...now we are still talking about tickling right? Thought so.

i would prefer a female to tickle me unless it was a brutal torture tickle, hehe

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

I like to be tickled by both women and men. Both can have a light touch but it's the women that have the longer nails so they're tickling is more effective in a way. Sometimes guys don't know they're own strength so I tell them that they're tickling me too hard and apologize and then they lighten their touch.

I think that both guys and girls are good ticklers, different but both good.

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

I like to try and take each 'ler as they come and judge them on an individual basis as to their "effectiveness". I'm sure there are probably some women 'lers out there who could reduce me to hysterics.... however, I have yet to meet her. And because of that, my preference is to be tickled by a guy.

I've had both men and women 'lers and the men have always gotten a better ticklish reaction out of me. It could be for a couple of reasons: Perhaps it's because when I fantasize about being tickled, I always have a male in the 'ler role. So, it would be natural for me to react more to something that I've rehearsed in my head a million times. OR Perhaps it's because I think of tickilng as a natural extension to flirtation, and on much more exclusive instances (with my husband only) it will lead to sex. And since I only flirt with / or have sex with guys, it would make sense to be more reactive to their touch.

I hope that made sense....

Maggie

 

[kis123]

I haven't tickled a woman yet, but I'd love the chance!

I've been lurking this thread for awhile now and am a little surprised that so many women have a strict male preference. I guess it's not much different from the guys having a strict female preference. I'm not really sure and your preferences are what they are.

If I had the opportunity to tickle a chick, I'd probably go for it. It's only for fun and tickling is fun for me as well as the other components of it. I haven't been tickled by a woman yet, but if I were in a switching mood, I might go for it too. I've seen some f/f vids that the lers were simply evil (Priscilla and Kristen come to mind). And I won't even discuss the BellaRisa vids-I love to watch and even jump in for some action, but I don't think I'd be her lee because the woman is methodically evil in her approach! And yes, that's a compliment! I'd love to get to these ladies' levels as a ler.

 

[GuldenVleugel]

The most evil must be Tonya of former Real Tickling. I bet you can still get them on TC Videos' website. Though I'm sure I'm missing some female 'lers of other productions, perhaps from the old skool Paradise Vision. If it's not for sale anymore, just download it on E-Mule as I do with everything I cannot buy properly.

 

[badreligion]

This question arose in a tickling session I had this week - my ticklee, a pretty 18 year old Asian girl, said that I was heavier on her than the 19 year old girl who assisted me - she said that I should learn to tickle as lightly as a woman tickles - I would really like to know, especially from the ladies, is the lighter touch better and is it more intense?

my question is , why the hell does a 56 year old have an 18 year old lee ? thats just wrong in my opinion

 

[P[a]pi]

Well, my girlfriend only likes to be tickled by me because I'm her boyfriend and she likes it hard. Light tickling annoys her and makes her itch.

 

[ticklemelots]

I've never been tickled by a woman. I prefer light touches to start, slow and torturous tickling. After that, I want the guy to pay attention to what gets the best reactions. If I start begging "no not there", that REALLY means "holy **** that tickles so much please don't stop". I do NOT like rough tickling ... that just hurts.

I have imagined being tickled by a woman ... I really want to try some day. I think that a woman's soft touch and long fingernails sliding along my feet or knees would be the most ticklish touch ever

 

[GuldenVleugel]

She must be out of control, and not be able to escape and the tickling must be looooong-stretched. As long as that level of intensity is reached it need not get harder. Hard tickles are more employable as shocks to force ticklees by making them beg to get to another part or admit they like it and such. 😉 I generally strife to make an illusion for her if it being worse than it really is. She must not be too much in control.

90% of the session I prefer to be focussed on the boundaries of hysterics and endurance. She must be able to take it and still enjoy it! 🙂

 

[Paultickler]

i think that a woman tickle in a different way than man they know each others and they know how to tickle them, but for me i would like to be tickled by Priscilla James, she knows wht she's doing!
and of course tickle her after!

 

[tkl-pen]

my question is , why the hell does a 56 year old have an 18 year old lee ? thats just wrong in my opinion

What kind of comment is that? Do you think that someone who is older, as I am, should be limited to tickling old women? Nice for you at the age of 20 to get what you want, but why deny someone else the same thing because he is older than you? Why don't you try to post some good reasons for this to be wrong - of course, you can't because there aren't any.

Both of the girls I tickled on this trip were younger than I, admittedly a lot younger, at 25 and 18. So what? They both offered their services, agreed to it after a one-on-one interview, received their fees and were tickled in a setting that was safe and secure for them.

I have a tickling video in which a woman in her forties (a domina) tickles an 18 year old girl (a submissive) hogtied in front of her. In another, the same woman gives the same girl a spanking on her bare bottom. What about that? Is that wrong too? Or does your opinion only apply to me because I am a male? You need to move into the 21st century, and you need to realize that we can't all be in our twenties like you. Beyond that, 18 or 25 or whatever, they were consenting adults, as was I.

If its wrong for me, or someone my age, to tickle a younger woman (no sex or anything like that), then I might as well forget it, leave this forum, stop writing tickling fiction and move on. If its wrong for me to like and admire pretty young girls, to fantasize about them and to interact with them, then I perhaps should not continue to live - God gave me wants and desires, too!

What about all of the other men who are older - should they live in frustration, too, simply because you think its wrong to tickle a younger woman. Good grief, man!

 

[badreligion]

What kind of comment is that? Do you think that someone who is older, as I am, should be limited to tickling old women? Nice for you at the age of 20 to get what you want, but why deny someone else the same thing because he is older than you? Why don't you try to post some good reasons for this to be wrong - of course, you can't because there aren't any.

Both of the girls I tickled on this trip were younger than I, admittedly a lot younger, at 25 and 18. So what? They both offered their services, agreed to it after a one-on-one interview, received their fees and were tickled in a setting that was safe and secure for them.

I have a tickling video in which a woman in her forties (a domina) tickles an 18 year old girl (a submissive) hogtied in front of her. In another, the same woman gives the same girl a spanking on her bare bottom. What about that? Is that wrong too? Or does your opinion only apply to me because I am a male? You need to move into the 21st century, and you need to realize that we can't all be in our twenties like you. Beyond that, 18 or 25 or whatever, they were consenting adults, as was I.

If its wrong for me, or someone my age, to tickle a younger woman (no sex or anything like that), then I might as well forget it, leave this forum, stop writing tickling fiction and move on. If its wrong for me to like and admire pretty young girls, to fantasize about them and to interact with them, then I perhaps should not continue to live - God gave me wants and desires, too!

What about all of the other men who are older - should they live in frustration, too, simply because you think its wrong to tickle a younger woman. Good grief, man!

in my opinion yes , it doesnt matter if shes of legal age there is a thing called ethics.

 

[tkl-pen]

The same thing again - you put out the word 'ethics" - explain it then - what specifically is unethical or wrong here? It's easy to spew out a word like 'ethics' - but explain to me in a sentence or two what specifically is wrong with me, or another older tickler, tickling a young woman. What about the older woman I described tickling the girl - is that wrong to you as well?
There are so many people who put out a word like that and expect the other to back off - but if you make a claim, then be ready to explain it.

Meanwhile, I'm not going to change your mind and you are not going to change mine. That's obvious.

 

[badreligion]

The same thing again - you put out the word 'ethics" - explain it then - what specifically is unethical or wrong here? It's easy to spew out a word like 'ethics' - but explain to me in a sentence or two what specifically is wrong with me, or another older tickler, tickling a young woman. What about the older woman I described tickling the girl - is that wrong to you as well?
There are so many people who put out a word like that and expect the other to back off - but if you make a claim, then be ready to explain it.

Meanwhile, I'm not going to change your mind and you are not going to change mine. That's obvious.

your 56 years old , she is 18 , you are old enough to be her father , your married , you have kids what would your kids think ?

thats where ethics come into play

 

[BellaRisa]

This question arose in a tickling session I had this week - my ticklee, a pretty 18 year old Asian girl, said that I was heavier on her than the 19 year old girl who assisted me - she said that I should learn to tickle as lightly as a woman tickles - I would really like to know, especially from the ladies, is the lighter touch better and is it more intense?

A lighter touch is different, not better. It can be used very sensually, or it can be unbearable if prolonged and done correctly 😎. But how a 'ler tickles has very, very little to do with gender. I've been the 'lee for some of the best 'lers around, and whether their technique was light or harder depended upon the individual and the type of play we wanted at that time. I *do* have a preference for being tickled by males, but that's about how my submissive side works (I'm very rarely in that mindset with other ladies), not the style of tickling. Many ladies who are notorious 'lers on the TMF, like myself or Stephanie Locke, are not known for that featherlight tickling you see little vanilla models doing in videos. Unless the play is going for pure sensuality, female 'lers who know what we're doing tickle just as intensely as the boys

Bella

 

[BellaRisa]

your 56 years old , she is 18 , you are old enough to be her father , your married , you have kids what would your kids think ?

thats where ethics come into play

This is going off-topic, and as none mentioned are underage it's of no concern. Return to the original topic of the thread or refrain from posting, please.

Bella

 

[tkl-pen]

your 56 years old , she is 18 , you are old enough to be her father , your married , you have kids what would your kids think ?

thats where ethics come into play

That's twice you avoided the question about the middle aged woman tickling the 18 year old girl - is this also wrong to you or not?

You state my age, you state her age, and I'm old enough to be her father - all of these are facts - but it doesn't explain why its wrong for me to tickle her - most fathers tickle their young daughters - so what?

I am married - yes, that's true - but I didn't have sex with this girl or ask her to date me or to marry me - so what?

What would my kids think - well, I think they' d be happy that it wasn't them getting ticklied but that it was someone else.

Give it up, bad religion, you have no explanation of wrong or ethics - and you need to learn the concept of live and let live.

 

[badreligion]

That's twice you avoided the question about the middle aged woman tickling the 18 year old girl - is this also wrong to you or not?

You state my age, you state her age, and I'm old enough to be her father - all of these are facts - but it doesn't explain why its wrong for me to tickle her - most fathers tickle their young daughters - so what?

I am married - yes, that's true - but I didn't have sex with this girl or ask her to date me or to marry me - so what?

What would my kids think - well, I think they' d be happy that it wasn't them getting ticklied but that it was someone else.

Give it up, bad religion, you have no explanation of wrong or ethics - and you need to learn the concept of live and let live.

well i dont need to justify my opinons to you but for some reason i have a feeling you have heard this before

 

[tkl-pen]

So, there we are - you can't bring up any valid reasons to support yourself - only your own close-minded opinion - since you refuse to answer the question about the middle-aged woman tickling a young girl, I presume that you think its okay that way - but only when the male is older, it's wrong. So I think that your view is certainly discriminatory and, given the fact that you won't answer the question about the female tickler, sexist as well. I have posted polls on both questions and we'll see what the other members think.

Meanwhile, have fun tickling who you like - and I'll have fun tickling who I like. Thankyou for your opinion and your input.

 

[Ace Riley]

well i dont need to justify my opinons to you but for some reason i have a feeling you have heard this before

If you cannot justify your opinions, you should keep them to yourself.

In fact, even if you could. Keep it to yourself next time kid. Beyond not making a lick of sense, it was just plain rude. You don't even know him.

Anyways, tickling is not age restricted in this world. There isn't a second age bracket in adulthood. After you hit 18 you're a legal adult, after 21 you can drink, after 25 you save on car insurance. That's it.

Tickling between adults of any age is their perogative, you should be old enough to know this. Ethics? What yours? Their yours to have, not to share with the world amigo. Welcome to America.

 

[rhiannon]

I personally like it when the tickler (and only guys for me also, just to stay a little on topic 🙂 ) is older than me....adds to the powerplay! 🙂

 

[tickleshotel]

I am most tickled by guys and I like the slow light tickles whether it be a fingertip tracing my ribs up and down ,light caress,tickle along the sides of my neck and MY feet love the light touches that tickle me while I am relaxing my feet on a guys lap being massaged . The light touches are the beginning and I can be content being tickled lightly,though a part of me loves being tickled a little more intense involving tickle fights, being restrained with little movement allowed,and being tickled with a combination of slow light tickles by fingers,feathers,paintbrushes and being tickled by a Electric Toothbrush, Hummingbird drives me just about to the edge, I love the ler to return to the light slow tickles and massage,and I also enjoy being held cuddled after a good tickle session...

 

[tickmankyle1]

hello

i like anyone who can make me laugh. if it is a women or a man yes i like being tickled by women but if to get tickled it is a man i will take it. to me for the most part tickling is tickling talk to you all later. tickmankyle1

 

[Saeria]

I've had both and i would have to say that i can't come up with a favorite really perhaps because in both instances i've found myself at the mercy of someone deliciously evil. Dare i say i might prefer it that way too.

 

[ginna]

Light tickling annoys her and makes her itch.

yep it can do that sometimes - it really depends where the tickling is and how im feeling - also by who - if im not comfortable then liklihood is noones gonna tickle me but around those i am comfortable... light mixed in with evil tickling or just pure evil and i generally end up kinda puddle of goo like