Please don't give me answers like "If you enjoy it, you were meant...", I'm not being deep, just wondering. Personally, occasionally I do. Sometimes I sit around and think to myself, "I guess it is a little odd". Anyone else?
Flatfoot said:Yeah, I feel weird about it sometimes. I have no frickin' idea where the heck it came from, and that's what bothers me the most. All I know is that I'm wired differently than those around me, and that I've been trying, for several years now, to understand why that is. I'll spare everyone the details of how it factors into my marriage (God knows I've rambled and bitched about it here many times before!). However, I don't think I'd feel as weird about it, were I single again, since I've grown to understand that to achieve happiness, partners must express needs and wants in the early stages, before committing. Otherwise you end up shortchanging yourself and being miserable in the end. This is a part of me, and even though I hear of the occasional person who "loses interest" or for lack of a better term, "outgrows" it, I don't anticipate that I'll ever change as far as this interest goes.
Cevin said:Feather: DUDE! I do the same thing everyday... when I was in school, I was always looking at the girls feet, discreetly mind you. What was harder was watching play with their shoes.. slip their feet in and out, move around, etc... same with college, so many women with gorgeous soles that I'd die to tickle. I still do it to this day, seeing women around town, at work, at parties, etc, always wondering what it'd be like to get my hands on their feet.