Dominate Or Submit

[hazelf1]

We all know the ler/lee relashionship but does this extend to a different level for some people.

Looking at the bdsm world how many of you are master/mistress with a tickle slave and is the relashionship 24/7 or just in tickle play situation.

Mine is mistress with several submissive females on a random casual basis, with a full time vanilla partner.

 

[juanmiller]

My girlfriend is also my Mistress, but only in the bedroom, not 24/7. Tickle play is just one of the things we get up to. 🙂

 

[jayson752003]

Juanmiller...Do u ever get to switch with ur gf/mistress and tickle her?

 

[DarthGrinn]

My gf and I both switch. I mostly dominate her (tickling not lifestyle), but occasionally she'll flip the script. Last night she went full on domme and managed to hold that position for the entire evening we were together. She might be picking up on my techniques, because she expertly weaved tickling, sexual teasing, banter, and foreplay, in a way I hadn't seen from her before. I was thoroughly impressed (and turned on). I believe she is slowly catching the tickle-monster bug from me. *gulp*

 

[wolfman40]

I consider myself a switch, I'm more of a ler, but would certainly lee & indeed submit to a lady if asked, not just for tickling but for other kinky fun too!

 

[TKLVR181]

My husband and I are both 50/50 switches irl, but the term "100% of whichever I happen to be at the moment" is very accurate. We'll take turns on top, one night it's all me, one night it's all him. Some especially fun nights we switch back and forth--but whoever's on bottom/top at the time is really on bottom/top.

~K

 

[chicag0]

I like being tickled. That's pretty much it. I don't label myself as anything or call being tickled a" session". I don't plan elaborate scenes or define myself by rigid ideas of whatever is the cool thing in the kink world.

It's just a regular everyday part of my relationship.

I could never do the 24/7 master/slave or dom/sub lifestyle.

 

[Senshi1]

In the IRL bedroom, I'm a switch. I sometimes find it easier to slip into a submissive role, because for me, that involves complete absolution of daily responsibilities. You take orders, you do as you're told - it's relaxing. When we're going all-out, I don't even speak without permission. My dominant moods are rarer, but when they do occur, I get fully into them.

I know some people don't like the word "session", but for me, it's a good descriptor. When we're not feeling in particularly sexual moods, we don't pay those types of dynamics any mind, but when we do get into them, they consume our attention for the duration of that period. There are times when we will do physical and affectionate things that might involve tickling or slightly dominant/submissive behaviour, but I'm not counting those.

I also couldn't do the 24/7 thing because a) I love both positions, and b) some days I'm not in the mood to do anything sexual, period. 🙂

 

[BlackDragonScar]

I am switch hands down. Just depends on my mood or how much teasing I've gotten that day

 

[Ticklish&InLove]

I definitely prefer to be the submissive/Ler....and must admit that I love it when my husband takes full control, pins me down and has his devilish way with me....I just wish he'd be more ruthless about it...but yeah, other things, such as foreplay, orgasm denial and pretty much any non-pain oriented thing goes....but only in the bedroom.

Yet...while I say that, the great thing about tickling is that he can do it in broad daylight in front of others and no one else knows the kind of psychological and arousing "pull" he has through it over me...and that...well that allows for some subtle but devastating situations from time to time that play up the Dom/Ler-Sub/Lee dynamic...