Erotic Focal Point

[mustang]

The idea for this post came from another post. The focus of my eros in regard to my foot/tickle fetish is to stroke a girl's soles and watch her toes wiggle, curl, and spread in response to the tickling. Tickle Abuse's 'tickle tease' series is the best illustration or some of Charlee's POV foot tickling. However, in another post some folks were revealing other nuances in regard to their foot and/or tickle fetish that were the central focus of their erotic trip which were very interesting. Anyone care to share what it is that stimulates your maximum erotic response in regard to our fetish? It is that one thing that is the focus of your fantasies and gives you a screaming orgasm...so to speak.

 

[stockytickler]

I don't know precisely how to describe it because for me it is so systemic. Laughter alone isn't a trigger, bondage alone doesn't cut it, and dom play is always exciting but leaves me a bit cold on its own.

But throw tickling in there anywhere and it's the difference between a birthday cake and a forest fire.

Now, as to why it's so erotic to have a helpless, half-naked victim squirming in gigglish torment while the face of the fiendish ler is lit up with wicked delight ... see, I don't know why anyone wouldn't find that to be hot -- pre-, as foreplay, during, post-release, it's all so impossibly HOT (to me). 😉

 

[mustang]

That is exactly what I was talking about. Thanks a bunch, 'stockytickler'. You expressed the essence of the topic beautifully. I have learned something from you...thanks.

 

[PiedPiper]

It isn't possible for me to engage in foot- and tickle-play without being completely engaged with what's going on in my partner's head,... Behind all the squirming and forced laughter, there was the initial willingness on her part to let herself be restrained and to endure a unique form of "torture," one in which nerve endings say one thing and emotional connection says another. I never lose sight of the fact that she is doing this for me,... and in Susan's case, I know that she couldn't stand being tickled, yet she somehow got into the relationship implications of submitting to it, anyway,... and this was a source of endless fascination for me,.... and loving gratitude, as well. Sure,... her feet were cute and sexy,... bondage is exotic,... the struggle is arousing beyond belief,... and so on,.... but the mental and emotional events which made it possible,... made it ten times more gratifying within the relationship,... THAT is the true focus.

 

[mustang]

Wow! I never considered any of that. I guess there is no end to what forms a person's personal erotic trigger. These things are very interesting to learn about.

 

[stockytickler]

That emotional connection is something I've yet to experience, and I can only imagine the greater depths that allows you to explore not only with your intimacy as a couple but your relationship itself. Thanks for those insights, man.