Ever Break Up w/ someone because they did not share your fetish?

[reddogftklr]

This may have been mentioned before, but I was curious. Did anyone have a relationship where they were open about feet and tickling and the other partner tried to get into it, but then stopped. My ex-girlfriend use to like it. She always let me give her foot massages and suck her toes. But she was not ticklish at all. Her feet were so unticklish. That is why I knew it would last. She did have the evil ler sid to her and use to like to tie me up and tickle the shit out of me. I don't think it turned her on as much, but was a power trip for her. I hate to be mean, but I am glad we are not going out anymore because her feet were not that great, and too wide and big. If they were ticklish it might be different, but we would not be together anyway. Too many other issues we both had about eachother. The last couple of months we were always fighting and she stopped getting pedicures to spite me , so needless to say the fire was gone. Anyone else ever experienced this. Moving on is exciting, so many more feet to see and tickle.🙂 So I am not sad.
Red

 

[Traveler]

Let's say I have had some relationships go south.But,never one because of tickling.My problems usually were with infidelity or the major one money.I have lost some ticklish women to these things.But,like you said there are alot of ticklish feet out there so move on to the next pair🙂 So,I say live,love.learn and keep on tickling.There is alot of life to enjoy to let a few bad experiences mess it up

Sorry,honey he fell right on top of me

 

[unclebill]

Thats a good point, Traveler. A couple years ago I was dating the most ticklish woman I had ever seen. We met on a blind date and toward the end of the date I gave her a little goose on her ribs. She laughed and told me she was hyperticklish especially on her feet. Well sir for the next couple of months I was in tickling heaven. Almost every date involved tickling, even my puppy got in on the action once when we were making out and started licking the soles of her feet. I wish I had a video that night, for it would certainly be in the clips section!! But to be honest her being so ticklish was about the only thing that attracted me to her. She was pretty, but we just had nothing else going for us so she eventually broke up with me. My advice to you is to simply move on and one day I am sure you will find the right one. Good luck!!!

 

[Merseymidge]

Uncle Bill sounds like a man of depth 🙂
For me it's very important. I would like for you to be as ticklish as I am, no unfair advantages. I would also like to intellectually challenge you as you would me as well. We'd have to click. I'm very, very fortunate: the person I'm with now fits all the criteria. I'm hoping we'll be together till the end of my days...may it be so

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I've never broken up or gotten with someone solely on the basis of tickling.

I'm pretty honest and upfront so the guy knows what I'm into when we "start out"; however, there was one situation I didn't quite like.

I told the guy that I had begun "dating" with that I was into tickling. He said he was cool about it. I told him about TMF and the gatherings I had gone too... etc. He said he was cool with that too. I told him I was going to go to NEST to play, have a good time, get tickle and be ticked, etc. He was cool with that.

So I went. And I came back. He told me all of a sudden that he wasn't cool with it. He said he didn't want anyone tickling me but him... etc. So I leave for one weekend and he does a 360 on me.

I did end up breaking up with him. But it was for all types of issues. #1 being lack of trust. #2 The fact that he was an idiot among other things.

Anyways, true love, I believe, is so much stronger. Tickling is fun, but I won't let it dictate or determine the important decisions I make in my life. I will love someone for reasons WAY beyond a poke or two in the ribs.

Sunrise

 

[milagros317]

Originally posted by reddogftklr (most deleted)
Did anyone have a relationship where they were open about feet and tickling and the other partner tried to get into it, but then stopped.

Actually, I had a worse experience than this. It was a very long time ago, 1979-1980. At the time, I kept quiet about my liking for women's feet and tickling until well into a relationship (that is, not until we progressed to having sex, if it ever got that far).

Since the woman involved still lives in this area, and is married with two children, I'll call her Alice, which is not her name.

Having been dating Alice for about two months, and having stayed the night in her place, with sex, I thought it was time to introduce one of my preferences. On our next date, when kissing and fondling, I kissed down her legs to her bare feet, and licked the soles.

"Don't," she said, "they're smelly and dirty."

If fact they were clean, and I told her that, and also that they could be washed right then, if she felt uncomfortable about it. But no, neither then nor in the succeeding months would she ever regard her feet as anything but smelly and dirty.

Tickling she just thought of as childish, and didn't mind doing a little as foreplay.

I really thought I was in love with Alice, and struggled for too long to get her to accept my preferences.

What I learned from that unfortunate experience was to be more open at the beginning. For me, this does not mean to blurt out, with no context, on the first date that I have a foot fetish. It does mean to compliment a woman on what lovely feet she has (if they are lovely) the first time that I see them.

 

[vegasfootboy]

the agony of da-feet!!

why oh why is this fetish such a bitch goddess!!??its happened many many times,,, heres an example,,,


her name was heather,, ( god i love that name! )i met her at a friends house durring a swim party/cookoff...she was 5-3 awesome curves, short blonde hair,brown eyes, freckles on her slightly upturned nose,, she had elfish good looks ( something i find highly desireable! ) she was a bit of a tomboy very active and extremely playfull! so cute that it made my heart jump in my chest! and her feet? they were the perfect compliment to an already perfect body!

they were perfectly shaped, med long toes, slightly tanned on top and milky white on the soles! i thought id go insane watching her,,,my friend bill introduced us,, it was that dopey love at first sight thing, ( for both of us),,,it was almost unreal how much she knew how to please me,, like she owned a map of my psychie!,,she new every button to push every thing to whisper in my ear, it was one of those perfect matches! with her i could make love 8 to 10 times a day! ( no lie! )funny how the right girl can make you,,i was so excited by her that i focused on everything,, not just her feet,,when we were together awhile i started to spend more time on her feet,, and to my horror!! she wasnt even the slightest bit ticklish! no matter what i did or what i used! nothing! not a flinch! no toe wiggle!! nadda!! at first i thought i could live with it cause i loved her! i was even stupid enough to ask her to pretend to be ticklish for my pleasure but that mage me feel even worse about it..i hated myself for having that fetish! soon it became difficult for me to become excited with her,,she knew it was a major thing,, she would look at me with those sad eyes,,almost like she knew it would be a major problem in the relationship,, and it turned out to be the ruination of it,,, we would be at a party together, i would tickle another girls feet being playfull, and it would anger her that the other girl was ticklish and she wasnt! she would accuse me of cheating on her just because i tickled another girl and she was right! in my heart it was cheating! it was something i desired with all my being,, but something she could never give me! i diddnt want to break up,, but she said if i stayed with her that i would be " settling" and she deserved more than that,,she was right,,it wasnt fair to her,,sometimes i feel like i will never find what im looking for,, kinda sucks ya know?

 

[Knox The Hatter]

amen, bro!

Yeah, (in Bill Clinton's raspy drawl) ah feel yur pain!
My last girlfriend and I were together two years and change, which was incredible, since there was only one place on her body that made her howl and it was completely inaccessable in any other place other than in bed, and while it was fun tickling her there, there were all the other places I'd rather have reached for. Very depressing. I tried getting along without it, found myself in bed with other women during the second year looking for the sexual fulfillment I lacked. I never told her how important it was to me, it just depressed her terribly that I lost interest the way I did. It ended somewhat badly anyway. I then vowed that never, ever again would I be denied this pleasure, I would weed 'em out until I found someone I was compatible with. It paid off.
Hey, life's too damn short to be with someone you're not sexually compatible with. Plenty of extremely ticklish girls out there, my friend, and a bunch of them actually like it. Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to go find them. Bueno Suerte.

 

[sole seeker]

Never broke up with someone over this issue, although it has added weight to my decision to end a relationship based on a rational belief that we would not be happy together in the long run.

I read somewhere of someone who'd gone to a hypno-therapist to revive their ticklishness, in order to placate a mate. I wonder if that really works. Anybody on here have first hand experience?

 

[mallysmom]

the end

I would like to think the tickling didn't end my marriage, but my ex hated it, and I really crave it. I didn't divorce him over it, because if it was that important,I wouldnt' have married him to start, but I started to understand that I could never be happy with someone who hated it as much as he did. So I guess I did leave him partially for that reason, and will not be with anyone, unless they love and need tickling as much as I do. *steps down from soapbox*

 

[shygirl]

YUP!

Unfortunately I was married before the internet was around. I was married to a man that I did not have satisfaction with because I thought there was no one else out there that shared my fetish.When i realized there were others like me, I told him about it and all he did was laugh and say,"come on, you've got to be kidding?" Nevertheless, I did a brave thing by leaving him, met a wonderful adorable man(TTD) that I love more than ever and I am now living happily ever after.🙂

 

[magic fingers]

In response to vryticklshfeet, I understand your disappointment over Heather's non-ticklish feet. Since the feet are my favorite place to tickle, it's a let-down when they're not ticklish. But I don't think I've ever broken up w/a girl strictly because her feet weren't ticklish. Did you try her ribs, stomach or pits? Or was she into tickling you at all?

 

[reddogftklr]

I am really a foot man. So when her feet were not ticklish and calloused they turned me off. I tried tickling her armpits. She was very ticklish there and would always wine not to touch her there. She would sometimes even get violent. She once even bit my tounge!!!! She was full figured and her stomach was really fat. (She always promised she would lose weight. Liar). I guess eating shit food and drinking a case of beer of week did not help her jelly belly. So her stomach was no option. She absolutly despised me tickling her at the end of the relationship. She would still tickle me though. I think because she sickly liked torturing me for trying to tickle her. She could tickle the hell out of me though. She knew all my spots and never stoped. One of the last straws was when she told one of her girlfriends about my fetish which was supposed to just be between us.
Oh well, now its over.
Red