Ever have a SO who just couldnt figure it out?

[Hockeyfeet]

So...I'll boil it down. I have a long-time SO and we have been on-again-off again for 15 yrs.
She knows of my fetish and actually quite supportive. Which is great. It's not her thing, but she'll play along, sometimes.
The problem is...she can't tickle to save her life! lol
And I've tried EVERYTHING. I mean...videos, examples, instructing...anything you can think of to show her exactly how to get me going...but it's like she doesnt want to. She wants to do it her way. And she stinks. LOL
She has sharp, brittle nails...and they hurt! She prefers to dig in with them....OMG its such a turn off.
I think it's just frustrating because I love her to death and i want to play more....but some nights it's just not worth the bruises. 😀

Anyone else experience this?

 

[CapturedDoll]

I can say that my Bf will dig in too hard a LOT. And... well. I agree. I know. He's done GREAT a bunch.... but... his way. He doesn't follow through with the game of it. And rough really sucks when it's not his fault per say. Clothes do make it hard for some people to... Idk honestly. lol He's GOTTEN it though.. he just... doesn't want to do it enough because of his job and... like her he's very supportive but it's not his thing. Though he HAS SAID he loves it multiple times... bcause "You love it". And yet... the head games really aren't in play yet...

But.. one thing he IS game for now is voicing an accent with me for audio. He does multiple accents quite well. :> And probably tickling me during as well. :> So.. we'll see... I'm hopeful still.

You really though have to sit her down with her and strictly explain that her nails are hurting you. And she woulden't like if it was being done to her. Some people need it spelled out the lonnng way. No matter how long it takes. Civil, rational, and honest. But telling her of your boundaries and they need to be respected and treated like she would want to be treated.

My Bf is a Locksmith and... he doesn't always remember his hands are rough. Or that he is digging into me too hard. She, as a woman... is being pretty cruel to do as she pleases.. Thats f'd up. And pain is NOT tickling...

You need to sit down with her for a talk, for sure...