Ever not used a safe word ?

[Calisensual]

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[applejacks]

I'm out 🙂

 

[plphpet]

I get that this is a lighthearted thread, but on the serious side, I am a strong believer in safewords. As a ler/top, it is very important to have an agreed signal (verbal, or hand signal if the lee is gagged). Myriads really said everything that needs to be said on the subject.

When Milagros mentioned being tickled by the pro Domme, her announcement of "no safeword" is a big deal, because she is taking the entire responsibility for the other person and the session on herself. That's confidence. For me personally, as a top and non-pro, that is a level of responsibility I am not comfortable with.

There will always be a safeword, and if I can make her use it by tickling, well... that's hot.

Have you been able to make her use it often?

 

[Mr. Feet]

Have you been able to make her use it often?

Nope, hence the "if". Gotta have goals! 😀

 

[plphpet]

Nope, hence the "if". Gotta have goals! 😀

Lol. She is a tough one to crack that's for sure. Kind of like me, I don't safe word unless there is a major issue such as breathing or pain.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Yeah. Safewords weren’t used (or common at least) in the straight bdsm world until the late 1980s. Even then the concept depended more on the players & level of trust + experience.