OK I'm above the age of 16, but below the age or 21.
You're bound to be feeling all sorts of feelings then.
Cool.
a wrestler in high scool, footbakll player I workout, camp, paintball, I do basically all the things the typical outdoor'sman does.
If ever we needed a validation.
I just love women's feet.
Keep a handle on it and you'll be fine. And by handle I mean keeping it (the fetish) under control, not always having your penis in your hand (a problem that seems to afflict alot of fetishists).
The computer I'm using right now is not mine.
There's your problem.
It's the family computer I guess you could say.
There's your problem. *echos*
I would probley have a heart attack if (ANYONE) found out about my fetish!
In your great shape, Mr. Olympian? I doubt it.
BUSTED!!! XD
but said "I dont know how those files got onto the computer",
You're going to have to work on your lying dude. If you're going to lie, at least do it better than that.
I was just on myspace and pop ups occured and every time I tried to click out another site popped up. Since you know when myspace first started up it had lots of lag issues, well for me it did anyway. That got me off the hook just barely.
Lame dude, just a lame excuse.
How are you so sure they don't know? People can be more perceptive, especially family members, then you give them credit for. I wouldn't be surprized if they already suspect something well with what your lame excuses and probably body language at the time. If they suspect you have something to hide, then its already too late.
Its not like I'm looking up porn,
Actually, technically, you are. At least how most of this website (and others like it) present it. Remember that pornography is simply material made with the intention to arrouse, simulate, or elude to sex or sexual acts. Just because you don't have the housewife letting in Stan the Plumber to snake her drain doesn't mean it's not porn. It is, however, not necessarily pornography when you recieve the material, as then it all depends on how you feel about it and how you take and recieve the material. If your immediate instinct is to jack off to it, then its porn for you. If it creates lustful desires and excites your imagination lustfully, then its porn for you.
but still you dont want people knowing you have a freakin fetish!
Certainly not if what I said above is true for you (or, at least not until you're ready to let people know). What makes it difficult to distinquish personally what is porn and what is simply a fetish instinct is that a majority of the material these days here is geared towards pornopgraphy either way.
Very little of it is cute, innocent, or what have you. Perhaps if it were more people, like yourself, wouldn't have to worry about whether its porn or not, because then you'd know. Afterall, if tickling or feet or whatever was only ever something you enjoyed seeing, but it is not a sexual necessity in your life (there are people here who can attest to this being true for them) then it wouldn't be pornography for you, even if you are on a pornographic website.
It seems like a contradiction to say its porn but then its not under certain circumstances, but we have to make a difference, since no one here is the same. Even if the majority say they share similar traits and desires, they're not exactly the same and they will differ in some respect and may even be on opposite sides of the board on certain issues (a testifiable truth here on TT).
Heres what I currenlty do after each time I'm done using the computer: I go to tools, internet options, then delete. I delete all of the following: files, cookies, history, forms, and passwords. Then I go to empty recycle bin. Is that all the things I need to do in order to make sure nobody finds out what I'm doing? Or is the anyother possible things I can do to insure my secrect it kept safe? I've heard that EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING you look up on you computer is always on the hardrive. Is there any other ways than the previous ways I listed to keep my secret safe? Any help would be greatly appreciated!😛
People are going to tell you that there are programs and software and this and that you can buy, and while they may offer you some protection, it will be nothing in the hands of a person determined to find you out. Nerrad just explained how its possible to get your net history.
So, there is no complete protection other than getting your own computer. I'd suggest getting a job, if you don't already have one, and investing into a computer that you can call your own and no one else can use. Thats complete privacy, plus it shows your folks you're responsible, independant, and all that good stuff. Desktops (even laptops) these days are getting cheaper and more affordable as new technology becomes available, so you could get a good desktop or laptop for anywhere between $600-900 dollars in some places. Since quality isn't the issue here (rather privacy and personal space is), something cheaper and low-end would be fine for you.
In the event you need a better computer for school or games or dvds, or whatever, then you kill two birds with one stone by investing into your own computer. Thats the only true freedom you're going to have.
