After many a year as a tickler in the closet. I finally came out a couple days ago with a girl that I've gotten close to. She's a really great girl, and it turns out that she's into bondage and other such things. When I told her about my fetish, she was actually really turned on by the idea and she wants to explore it with me! Needless to say, I'm completely floored by the whole thing. The point is, to all the other people in this forum who are as afraid/uncertain as I was about never finding someone who would share and support your fetish, KEEP THE FAITH! \m/😛
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CONGRATULATIONS!
I too look forward to reading about your exploits. I hope the reality is every bit as exciting as the fantasy!
I too look forward to reading about your exploits. I hope the reality is every bit as exciting as the fantasy!
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Yessssssss.
Congrats! Way to go! Etc. Etc. Etc.
Good luck and ..... well......have fun! Obviously.🙄 😉
It pays to be who you are and open about it.
TTD
Congrats! Way to go! Etc. Etc. Etc.
Good luck and ..... well......have fun! Obviously.🙄 😉
It pays to be who you are and open about it.
TTD
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great!
you did the right thing, and with the right person!
we should be up-front, and honest with our significant others.
i don't think family needs to told, but out future partnres need to be told early on.
good luck, and i wish you many laughter filled days ahead.
steve
you did the right thing, and with the right person!
we should be up-front, and honest with our significant others.
i don't think family needs to told, but out future partnres need to be told early on.
good luck, and i wish you many laughter filled days ahead.
steve
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congratulations- I wish you all the best for future happiness....and much tickling fun to come
Fuddy-Duddy-Fiddy Strikes Again
Merkaba,
I have been in the exact same circumstance in which you find yourself now.
Please let me encourage you to prepare (okay, make that "Attempt to prepare",,, I know this is impossible) yourself psychologically for at least one alternative outcome,,, Specifically: if she changes her mind and you don't wind up tying her down or tickling her.
Don't get me wrong,,, I suggest that you prepare yourself for at least two different events: [1] The whole gig goes down the tube, and [2] You tie her perfectly and tickle her so much that you both die and go to heaven (where there are gold and ivory tickling racks ready and waiting, etc.)
Other realistic events for which you may want to psychologically prepare yourself include: interruptions, reality not matching your dreams, negative emotional reactions (ask me about tickling and crying sometime), invaded privacy, medical possibilities (e.g., coughing, hiccups, and possibly vomiting), bathroom breaks, the unexpected period (will some woman please step up and help with advice here ?), possible urination, and fainting (I personally fainted once); just to start the list.
What I'm getting at is that I was exactly where you were now; did not make any plans for anything other than my-way-now; and the entire relationship with the girl (who was ready and eager to be tied and tickled) went down the tube. One hour of planning, with care and concern for the woman as main goal #1, could have quite possibly put her and me together as husband and wife for life; with tickling.
By the way,,, also plan and prepare psychologically for success and delightful tickling.
The idea I'm trying to get into your head is that, IF something goes wrong, AND she sees that you cared enough about her to plan ahead for it, THEN you and she become much closer (for good reason) and the boy-meets-girl thing means so much more.
PLUS,,,,
You'll probably have much more tickling, more intensive tickling, and the tickling will probably be prolonged beyond your own ability to dream.
Just a few thoughts from a guy who lost a perfect chance.
Merkaba,
I have been in the exact same circumstance in which you find yourself now.
Please let me encourage you to prepare (okay, make that "Attempt to prepare",,, I know this is impossible) yourself psychologically for at least one alternative outcome,,, Specifically: if she changes her mind and you don't wind up tying her down or tickling her.
Don't get me wrong,,, I suggest that you prepare yourself for at least two different events: [1] The whole gig goes down the tube, and [2] You tie her perfectly and tickle her so much that you both die and go to heaven (where there are gold and ivory tickling racks ready and waiting, etc.)
Other realistic events for which you may want to psychologically prepare yourself include: interruptions, reality not matching your dreams, negative emotional reactions (ask me about tickling and crying sometime), invaded privacy, medical possibilities (e.g., coughing, hiccups, and possibly vomiting), bathroom breaks, the unexpected period (will some woman please step up and help with advice here ?), possible urination, and fainting (I personally fainted once); just to start the list.
What I'm getting at is that I was exactly where you were now; did not make any plans for anything other than my-way-now; and the entire relationship with the girl (who was ready and eager to be tied and tickled) went down the tube. One hour of planning, with care and concern for the woman as main goal #1, could have quite possibly put her and me together as husband and wife for life; with tickling.
By the way,,, also plan and prepare psychologically for success and delightful tickling.
The idea I'm trying to get into your head is that, IF something goes wrong, AND she sees that you cared enough about her to plan ahead for it, THEN you and she become much closer (for good reason) and the boy-meets-girl thing means so much more.
PLUS,,,,
You'll probably have much more tickling, more intensive tickling, and the tickling will probably be prolonged beyond your own ability to dream.
Just a few thoughts from a guy who lost a perfect chance.
[COLOR=0B0BFF] Rock on! Merkaba!Knox The Hatter
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P50's a killjoy 🙁
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Knox The Hatter said:
yeah yeah, what he said! i thought the same thing. geez, just go with the flow.
steve
Merkaba,
If I'm a killjoy, then bwahaha and all that.
If I care about you, then do some thinking.
[Case 1] -- Something goes wrong (like perhaps she gets too nervous, or possibly parents/relatives decide to change their plans) AND YOU HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THIS IN ADVANCE and prepared an alternate plan
Result - She sees you care, and she continues to get closer to you.
[Case 2] -- The same thing happens and you have no plans
Result - Hey, let us know, will you ? And good luck, you'll need it.
[Case 3] -- Everything goes fine
Result - No harm came from your plans.
I invite anyone to explain the danger in my ideas
If I'm a killjoy, then bwahaha and all that.
If I care about you, then do some thinking.
[Case 1] -- Something goes wrong (like perhaps she gets too nervous, or possibly parents/relatives decide to change their plans) AND YOU HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THIS IN ADVANCE and prepared an alternate plan
Result - She sees you care, and she continues to get closer to you.
[Case 2] -- The same thing happens and you have no plans
Result - Hey, let us know, will you ? And good luck, you'll need it.
[Case 3] -- Everything goes fine
Result - No harm came from your plans.
I invite anyone to explain the danger in my ideas
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about the period thing
this should be handled just like regular exercise. Precautions(on the woman's part) should be taken before and after the tickling session. If she's cramping too bad, save it for another day OR go extremely light.(light tickling on the soles of the feet,nape and back will be much appreciated here)Overall, listen to her moods and feelings and go from there. I'm only posting this because P50 asked for a woman to help him on this matter. I'm a woman. Here's my suggestions. take care!!!!!
this should be handled just like regular exercise. Precautions(on the woman's part) should be taken before and after the tickling session. If she's cramping too bad, save it for another day OR go extremely light.(light tickling on the soles of the feet,nape and back will be much appreciated here)Overall, listen to her moods and feelings and go from there. I'm only posting this because P50 asked for a woman to help him on this matter. I'm a woman. Here's my suggestions. take care!!!!!
Merkaba, I commend you for. . .
Merkaba, I commend you for taking one of the greatest risks, which is TRUSTING someone. You trusted her enough to be truthful and she did not laugh at, scorn, or run and tell all her friends about you. Good show, brother!
Merkaba, I commend you for taking one of the greatest risks, which is TRUSTING someone. You trusted her enough to be truthful and she did not laugh at, scorn, or run and tell all her friends about you. Good show, brother!
