Favor Tickling

[rhiannon]

In another thread it was said that some people let their partner tickle them just to do him/her a favor.

But would that really be an option for you in the long run?

I've done sessions with a guy who is really into it, and I also have experiences with someone who does it just to do me a favor - and I can assure you, it is not nearly the same!

Plus, I also don't feel comfortable with someone doing something sexual just because I like it and because they feel they owe it to me.

How do you think about that?

 

[paracarl44]

It is best when both people are stimulated by the tickling.

 

[Zacktick]

As someone who has gotten tickled by someone who wasn't at all into it in any way, it's no good the whole experience gets ruined, so for me that's not really an option and sort of a waste of time.

 

[rhiannon]

As someone who has gotten tickled by someone who wasn't at all into it in any way, it's no good the whole experience gets ruined, so for me that's not really an option and sort of a waste of time.

Yeah...that's exactly what happened to me, too. Nice to know that I am not alone with it. 🙂

 

[TicklesFemales]

Rhiannon I can tell you that I am totally into tickling when I tickle a ticklish lady, want her to have as much pleasure out of it as I get when I tickle someone. Tickling a ticklish lady is such a rush in my opinion....

TicklesFemales

 

[rhiannon]

I am interpreting that in a way that you want her to be into it as well, not just doing it to do you a favor?

 

[LD_Tickler]

I have no objection to tickling somebody who's putting up with it as a favour. Strictly speaking, if they're not into it it more closely resembles my twisted fantasies.

The problem is when I know that's the case, I tend to hold back and be more inhibited for their sake, which is less fun.

 

[JS805]

If someone let me tickle them or if they tickled me as a result of a favor...I'd be fine with that.

 

[Forest Fairy]

favors can become pleasures

just remember that there are some folks now active within the tickling community that started out playing as a favor to a partner and over time came to really enjoy it.

At least that is how it happened for me. I hated to be tickled and frankly could not imagine wanting to touch someone or be close enough to a (sometimes) near stranger to tickle them.

Now I can say...
I just got back from Philly and the very best NEST ever!! I tickled, I was tickled and I had more fun than I have had in the last year.

wow, I miss everyone that was there already.

 

[Ticklish9's]

In another thread it was said that some people let their partner tickle them just to do him/her a favor.

But would that really be an option for you in the long run?

I've done sessions with a guy who is really into it, and I also have experiences with someone who does it just to do me a favor - and I can assure you, it is not nearly the same!

Plus, I also don't feel comfortable with someone doing something sexual just because I like it and because they feel they owe it to me.

How do you think about that?

My girlfriend tickles me because I like it, but I think she's grown to rather enjoy tickling me too. As Forest Fairy said, favours can become pleasures.

 

[rhiannon]

Sure it can...but there is not a guarantee for it, and as long as it isn't - it's not as much or no fun. At least that's my experience.

 

[Forest Fairy]

No life guarantees that I know of anyway. Of course I would never recommend to someone that is seriously interested in tickling that they even bother dating or getting serious about someone that did not share their core interest. Why bother to set yourself up for disapointment?

But some of us wake up to the fact that we have a deep interest that we do not desire to live without rather later in life and have already established long term relationships and commitments.

In such a case it is far better to work with a partner than simply give up everything