feeling humiliated

[ttx]

Hi there.I'm a 25 years old male,and i was wondering if i'm the only person in the world who hides deep in his
mind the need to be tickled to humiliation.I'm a tickler.and the reason is just that i am so ticklish that i can't stand
been tickled.I'm afraid of being tied and at the mercy of a merciless tickler.But the truth is that i love the idea
of being tickled by a merciless woman,who will make me begging and promosing everything to make the torture stop.
Because i feel the need of being humiliated by my tickler,and this thought turns me on.Especially when i fantasize a
female tickler much younger than me,which means about 18-19 years old,or much older than me(35 or more years old).
Of course,the age difference isn't so important,but generally i find amazing the fact that a powerless woman
can make a strong man crying and begging by tickling.What do you guys think about?

 

[-Hari-]

I very much doubt you are alone here, Il admit I dont like feeling humiliated, but thats just me. 😛

 

[LD_Tickler]

Hi there.I'm a 25 years old male,and i was wondering if i'm the only person in the world who hides deep in his
mind the need to be tickled to humiliation.I'm a tickler.and the reason is just that i am so ticklish that i can't stand
been tickled.I'm afraid of being tied and at the mercy of a merciless tickler.But the truth is that i love the idea
of being tickled by a merciless woman,who will make me begging and promosing everything to make the torture stop.
Because i feel the need of being humiliated by my tickler,and this thought turns me on.Especially when i fantasize a
female tickler much younger than me,which means about 18-19 years old,or much older than me(35 or more years old).
Of course,the age difference isn't so important,but generally i find amazing the fact that a powerless woman
can make a strong man crying and begging by tickling.What do you guys think about?

Yeah, none of that is anything I've never heard before. Sounds pretty standard in our little world.

 

[ticklishmikey]

Yeah. Pretty standard. I've always wondered what it would be like. But then again, I've never had a session. Lol. So anything sounds good to me. Lol

 

[Coda]

I empathize with that factor; it's represented in a lot of the stories and artwork on the forum.

 

[MasterPaladin]

I would say most first timers have your fears but want to try it. If you really want to explore it go to a gathering where it is done in a controlled environment.

 

[ttx]

yeah my friend,but does anybody know the way to overcome the fear that i feel when it's time to get tied up?You see,i want to test my limits and live the experience of being tickled to insanity,but on the other hand i'm afraid of letting myself at the mercy of a merciless tickler.

 

[milagros317]

It has to be somebody that you trust, in particular somebody that you trust to let you use a safeword and respect it when it's used. Then you can relax and enjoyed being bound and tickled senseless without fear. 😀

 

[ttx]

It has to be somebody that you trust, in particular somebody that you trust to let you use a safeword and respect it when it's used. Then you can relax and enjoyed being bound and tickled senseless without fear. 😀

i think you are right Milagros,the problem is that there is only one person who knows about my love for tickling,and i have tickled her to insanity many times,so i am afraid of her!!😉

 

[milagros317]

In my case I got to trust Mistress Zara by having our first two sessions without bondage, one hour each. Then I went to relatively loose bondage for a two hour session and we progressed.

I would suggest having a long talk with the woman you have tickled first. Talk about limits and safewords and whether she would respect them.

Then work up to the complete bondage in stages--in the first session with you as the 'lee, you can have only your hands tied loosely behind your back with a cloth belt from a robe.

 

[ttx]

In my case I got to trust Mistress Zara by having our first two sessions without bondage, one hour each. Then I went to relatively loose bondage for a two hour session and we progressed.

I would suggest having a long talk with the woman you have tickled first. Talk about limits and safewords and whether she would respect them.

Then work up to the complete bondage in stages--in the first session with you as the 'lee, you can have only your hands tied loosely behind your back with a cloth belt from a robe.

thank you so much for your advice 🙂