Yeah it happens sadly mate. Frustrating as hell when you build up plans with anyone for any activity, doesnt have to be kink, and rather than be courteous and say its not happening, its just a straight up ghost or complete bs excuse a few days after. Ive heard em all from lads and lasses alike.
Lost phone over weekend but miraculously found it Monday
Car died
Work didnt pay them due to some sort of admin problem
Id have more respect id they just said they changed mind or had better offer lol